The man threw the toddler's leg and spun in circles many times, saying that he was training the child, netizens: This is completely child abuse

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2024-04-17 17:21Posted in Hunan Parenting Creators

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We all know that babies can't throw or shake them.

But some parents train their children in such a dangerous way!

It's training children, and I really can't agree with this kind of training.

Everyone has seen this recent news.

In a park in Changzhou, Jiangsu Province, a man threw a child into the sky.

Video source: @西部决策

It's multiple throws, many times to throw the child into the air.

Then he also carried one of the child's legs around in a circle, and the amplitude was not ordinary.

The people present saw this situation and sweated for the child, and immediately called the police.

When the police arrived to verify the situation, they said that the child's father was training his child at that time (saying that he had a certificate to train the child), and he did not beat the child, but just did the aerial throwing and hovering movements.

The child is about 1 year old, and the police are currently criticizing the child's father.

Many netizens watched the video, but they couldn't accept such a training method:

"Training teachers, what is this training, training children to take off?"

"Anyone with a little common sense knows that babies can't be thrown like this. ”

"Ten thousand successes, one failure, in case you don't catch the child, can you afford it?"

"How can the child's mother allow it, I never allow my husband to lift the child high and ride it on his neck, which is very dangerous. ”

"To be honest, the baby's head is not developed, and playing like this can easily cause dementia. ”

"Shaking a child's head violently can really cause brain damage. ”

"So small, don't you throw out a cerebral hemorrhage?"

"Babies must not be brain damaged like this, child abuse has been, call the police. ”

It's really a cold sweat for the child.

No matter what kind of training it is, you should not throw the child so drastically or spin the child.

As netizens said: Throw a child 100 times, as long as you don't catch it once, the consequences can be very serious.

Don't gamble on your child's safety.

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Daddy with baby

Don't do any more of these dangerous things!

There are many, many ways to play with children.

However, some parents choose those who are very dangerous.

A while ago, a father took his child to play lifting, and the child was lifted over his father's head, and the child's feet stepped on his father's shoulders.

Unexpectedly, an accident occurred just a few steps, and the child slipped directly from his father's shoulder and fell down, and the child cried instantly.

(Image source: @九派新闻)

A 1-year-old baby in Henan, because his father was lifting high with play, but he missed and did not catch the child, causing the back of the baby's head to hit the ground, and the baby was directly seriously injured.

Very severe cerebral hemorrhage, the doctor said that half of the child's brain was blackened, and even if he could wake up, he would either be a fool or a vegetative person in the future.

A 178cm tall father in Zhuhai, Guangdong Province took his daughter to play lifting, but the father didn't notice the ceiling fan rotating overhead, and the accident happened in an instant.

The sharp blades of the ceiling fan slashed over the head of the tossed baby at once, blood spurted out instantly, and the child soon fell silent.

Diagnosis at the hospital: the child's scalp avulsion, skull comminuted fracture and subdural hematoma are very dangerous, and regardless of the follow-up treatment, this process is terrifying just to think about.

In the news comments above, there are also many mothers who have shared the dangerous experiences of their babies.

"My 4-year-old son was lifted high by a friend and fell to his head, fell directly into a coma, and also caused epilepsy. ”

"There was a man on my husband's side who threw someone else's child to play and didn't catch it and fell to his death. ”

The 9-month-old child was thrown up by his father to play and fell directly from the bed to the ground, and the child fell so that he couldn't cry. ”

Remind all parents and all fathers: don't really do such a dangerous action again, don't think it's an accident, once an accident happens to your child, it's 100%, and you can't afford it.

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Highlights:

Little babies really can't be thrown!

Dads, whether you are training your children or taking them to play, please choose a safe way.

The more playable the game, the greater the potential danger.

In our lives, many accidental injuries come from children's play activities, so please play with your children in a safe way and don't let play become a life.

The following 6 parent-child games are all dangerous, and if you can, don't play them:

First: Lift high and throw the baby

Every child who is lifted high will be amused to laugh, but the hidden risks of doubling happiness will also be doubled.

In the process of throwing the baby upwards when lifting high, and then letting it "free fall", the baby's descent speed increases significantly because of the "gravitational acceleration" effect.

Parents must increase the clamping force at the moment when they catch the baby with their hands, and the result may be that the baby's spine may be damaged due to excessive clamping force.

Because before the baby is 5 years old, the muscles in the neck are very weak, the ligament elasticity is poor, and the cervical spine is not completely ossified, so it is difficult to withstand the shock of large shaking and high throwing.

Secondly, when lifting high, when throwing the baby into the air, if the baby's head collides with the chandelier or ceiling fan, the injury must be very serious.

In addition, if the above occurs when the lifting is high, if the parent does not catch the baby, once the baby falls, the consequences are very serious.

And one more important point: for 1-year-old babies, their brains are as fragile as tofu blocks, and they simply can't withstand the rude tossing and catching of parents.

Second: Shake the baby

Do not shake your child too hard at any time.

A pair of young parents in Dongguan, because the baby kept crying, wanted to shake the child to soothe and sleep, but the result was improper force, resulting in the baby's head injury (brain swelling, intracranial hemorrhage), fundus hemorrhage, and severe anemia. Doctors say it's called "shaking baby syndrome" in medicine.

When the child is shaken by external force, the brain shakes greatly between the skull, hitting the hard skull, which is easy to cause the rupture of small blood vessels in the brain, the coagulation of large blood clots, and retinal hemorrhage.

After cerebral hemorrhage, intracranial pressure rises rapidly, causing neurological symptoms such as loss of appetite, vomiting, drowsiness, convulsions, weakness of limbs, and coma, which is the dangerous "shaking infantile syndrome".

Consequences include: brain damage, blindness, hearing loss, speech and learning disabilities, mental retardation, seizures, neck and spinal cord injuries, and even death.

Third: Riding a necked horse

Carrying your child on your shoulders or putting it around your neck is a game that almost every baby has played.

Especially if the baby is noisy, or can't walk outside, it is very useful to coax the baby, but this game is not safe.

Any position that does not protect the baby's head and neck is dangerous for them, and if the baby falls backwards on the back, or if the center of gravity is unstable and falls on one side, it is very susceptible to serious accidents.

Secondly, if the baby's head is shaken violently, it hurts the brain and cervical spine.

Fourth: Circle in circles

Many parents like to hold their children's hands or neck to play "spinning circles", which seems to be a fun game, but it is actually very dangerous.

Lifting the child's hands hard can easily cause the child's hand to dislocate, and there is a father in Zhejiang who dislocated his 2-year-old daughter's hand in this way.

Another mother shared that the father and the baby played in circles, directly threw the baby out, and the baby's head hit the wall directly, but fortunately, it was fine.

Fifth: somersaults

A father in Wuhan saw a video of a 180° somersault on Douyin and thought it was very interesting to interact with him, so he and his 2-year-old daughter were eager to try it.

As a result, she missed, and her daughter's head hit the ground directly...... According to the doctor's diagnosis, the child's spinal cord is severely damaged, the upper body is no longer able to move, the lower body is very weak, and it is unpredictable to what extent it will recover, and perhaps the upper body can no longer move.

Spinal cord injuries can be lifelong disability, leaving many people unable to take care of themselves and requiring care. (News source: Hubei Economic Television)

If you do not grasp the child steadily, it is easy to cause a fall, and if you grab the child's hand too hard, it is also easy to dislocate the arm.

So, don't take your young children to imitate dangerous games, always remember that safety comes first.

Sixth: Pinch your cheeks

The baby can be cute and lovely, many parents tease the baby directly on the face pinching, mercy, pinch the face improperly, will make the child have a bad face.

A baby boy in Shenzhen, because he was often pinched on his face, caused his face to be red, and even began to seep water, which was very scary.

The doctor said: This is a typical "saliva rash", and pinching the child's face at will is a very bad habit.

Why does pinching the face cause a saliva rash in babies?

According to the doctor, the typical "saliva rash" caused by frequent pinching of the face is because the baby's swallowing and oral function are not yet perfect, if adults always pinch their face, it will stimulate the secretion of salivary glands and aggravate the drooling.

Love children, be sure to do it in moderation.

The following are very important and pass on to every adult who takes care of your baby:

Don't hold your baby's shoulders and rock them back and forth.

Do not hold your baby swinging back and forth like a swing and stopping suddenly.

Do not rock your baby on an adult's shoulder.

Do not shake vigorously to soothe your baby.

Don't even throw the baby in the air.

Don't think it's funny, hold your baby for a spin.

Do not let your baby sit on an adult's lap and lie back hard.

Don't pinch your baby's face.

Don't tease your child too much.

Finally, remind all parents: there are thousands of ways to play with children, and the happiness of the baby is also very simple, don't play these dangerous things anymore.

Please love your children in a safe way and always remember that safety comes first!

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