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My name is Li Ming, I am 28 years old, and I am a programmer at an Internet company. Although my job is average, I still have expectations and pursuits for life. I longed to find a close partner with whom I could support each other and work together to pursue a better life.
"Hey, Li Ming, are we going to have a drink tonight?" Xiao Wang, a colleague in the office, said hello to me.
After three rounds of drinking, the topic began to ramble. Xiao Wang talked about his recent love experience: "Dude, you have to be careful, today's girls are very attentive to you at the beginning, but as long as you really have a relationship, they will start to change their hexagrams." "
"How?" I was intrigued by Xiao Wang's words.
"Don't believe it, that's it. In the beginning, they will be obedient to you and treat you like a baby. But as soon as they slept with them, they began to turn their faces and deny people, and they sneered at every turn, making it difficult for you to move an inch. Xiao Wang looked deeply appreciative.
I couldn't help but wonder if this was really meant to be the case between men and women, whether we were wrong from the beginning, or was there a misunderstanding of love?
"Dude, look, pretty girl!" Xiao Wang stabbed me with his elbow.
I looked at her and couldn't help but be fascinated by her beauty. At this moment, she accidentally stepped on a pothole, stumbled and almost fell. I quickly stepped forward and grabbed her arm.
"Be careful. I said with concern.
"Thank you, if it weren't for you, I'd be in ashes. She smiled shyly, her eyes full of gratitude.
That's how Xiao Li and I met. I asked for her contact information and invited her to have a cup of coffee with us another day. Xiao Li readily agreed.
Time passed like this, and Xiao Li and I got along like glue. Once, we walked together in the park, and as the sun set, the warm afterglow sprinkled on Xiao Li's face, and her side face looked particularly moving against the backdrop of the setting sun. I was deeply attracted by her beauty, and the love in my heart surged in that moment.
"Xiao Li, I have something to say to you. I stopped and took a deep breath.
"What's wrong?" Xiao Li turned around with an innocent smile on his face.
Xiao Li was stunned for a moment, and then tears of happiness rippled in her eyes, she threw herself into my arms and nodded vigorously. In this way, we naturally established a romantic relationship.
Since then, Xiao Li has cared for me meticulously. She would cook food for me and take care of my daily life considerately. Sometimes when I get home from work at night, Xiao Li will take the initiative to give me a shoulder massage to help me relieve the fatigue of the day. That warm and considerate feeling made me cherish this relationship very much, and I vowed to treat Xiao Li well and pamper her forever.
After Xiao Li and I fell in love, I began to gradually lose patience and consideration for her. Once, she cooked me a good dinner, but I was temporarily overtime by the company and didn't get home until late at night.
"Why did you come back so late? I've been waiting for you for a long time, and my food is cold. Xiao Li said with some grievances.
"Well, I can't help it. You also know that our company has been in a hurry for projects recently. I replied weakly, ignoring Xiao Li's hard work.
"That's okay, I'll heat the meal. Xiao Li said that he was going to the kitchen.
"Forget it, I've already eaten outside, you can eat it yourself. "I just picked up my computer and sat on the couch and got to work.
Xiao Li had a disappointed look on her face, but she didn't say anything more and silently cleaned up the table.
Such situations are becoming more and more common in our lives. Xiao Li was considerate again and again, but I began to turn a blind eye to her care, putting work and my own life first. Sometimes Xiao Li asked to go out with me, but I always pushed back, using the excuse that I was too busy with work.
I began to immerse myself in my work and my own world, and my indifference to Xiao Li made her feel deeply aggrieved and helpless. She tried to communicate and solve it several times, but I always avoided it and didn't want to face it squarely.
Xiao Li was deeply troubled by my attitude, she didn't understand whether she had done something wrong or if there was something else wrong between us. One day, she plucked up the courage to talk to me again.
"Obviously, isn't there something wrong with us lately? Do you have something in your heart to say to me?" Xiao Li looked at me gently.
"It's nothing, it's all good. "I didn't lift my head, I was perfunctory.
"But you've been cold to me lately, and you don't seem to care much about me anymore. Am I doing something wrong, or are you unhappy about me?" Xiao Li asked stubbornly.
I finally put down my work and looked at her helpless eyes, feeling a little guilty. But I still quibbled: "I'm too busy at work, I just don't have much energy for the time being, and it has nothing to do with you." Don't think about it, everything is fine with our relationship. "
I looked at her like this, feeling a little guilty, but more of an impulse to escape. I turned my head and continued to focus on my work, leaving Xiao Li's situation behind.
Since then, Xiao Li has never taken the initiative to communicate with me. She began to become reticent, locking herself in the studio when she had nothing to do, and staying away from me. Looking at her like this, my heart was a little painful, but I didn't have the courage to face it, so I could only escape from reality.
It was a normal weekend, and I was watching a ball game at home while Li was painting in the studio. Suddenly, Xiao Li walked in, his face a little gloomy.
"Obviously, shouldn't we have a good talk?" She clasped her hands in a posture of asking for a problem.
"What's the matter? I replied impatiently.
"Have you been alienating me lately, intentionally or unintentionally? Are you tired of me? If that's the case, why don't we just break up!" Xiao Li suddenly burst out, his tone full of anger and sadness.
"What do you say? We're not at the point of breaking up yet, are we?" I was shocked by her words and subconsciously retorted.
"Then tell me, what is the reason why you have been cold to me lately? Is there something wrong with me? We love each other, how can we be like this now?" Xiao Li's voice was hoarse, and tears came out of his eyes.
I was stopped by her questioning, and I was speechless for a while. Yes, why did it become like this? We were so loving at the beginning, how did we come to this point now? I have all kinds of good memories of getting along with Xiao Li in my mind, and my heart is full of mixed feelings.
"Tell me, what's going on? Let's talk about it. Xiao Li choked up and looked at me expectantly.
"That is to say, you snubbed me because of your work? But obviously, I have always been considerate of your work, and I have never blamed you for being busy with work. But what about you, are you starting to get tired of me, and you're not interested in me as a person?" Xiao Li interrupted me and asked.
"Do you still love me? If you don't love me anymore, then let's break up. Xiao Li wiped the tears from the corners of his eyes with the back of his hand, and looked at me with a firm look.
Xiao Li's words hit me hard in the heart like a hammer. I looked into her desperate eyes and suddenly realized how much I had hurt this girl who loved me so much.
I began to reflect painfully on what I had done. Yes, since I got busy at work, I began to ignore Xiao Li and take her thoughtfulness for granted. I was immersed in my own world, and I gradually became numb to her care and dedication. But Xiao Li, she has always loved me wholeheartedly and tried her best to please me, even if I ignored her.
What a selfish person I am! I hate my indifference and ruthlessness, and I hate the harm I have done to Xiao Li. Xiao Li's love for me is so innocent and beautiful, but I trampled it under my feet with my own hands. Thinking of this, tears flowed down my eyes.
Xiao Li looked at me and cried, showing a puzzled look. I wiped my tears, held her hand, and said sincerely, "Xiao Li, I'm sorry, it's all my fault." I'm so selfish to take your love for granted and ignore your feelings. You're right, it's true that I don't love you much anymore, but it's not your fault, it's that I've changed. "
"But why is that?" Xiao Li said softly, looked at me and asked expectantly.
"I didn't know, maybe it was too much pressure at work, which made me more and more selfish. But it's all my own problem, and it's none of your business. Xiao Li, you have always been so kind and considerate, you deserve to be cherished. I said sincerely.
Looking at my sincere expression, Xiao Li's eyes gradually softened. She stroked my cheek with her hand, tears welling up in her eyes.
"Obviously, I can understand your distress. It's hard work, and I've never blamed you for being so busy. It's just that sometimes you're so immersed in it that you ignore me completely. I'll admit, for a while, I was a little resentful, but I never really wanted to break up with you. "
"However, I am relieved to see that you are reflecting so sincerely now. You finally realize the magnitude of the problem, and that's enough. Xiao Li said softly.
"Yes, it's all my fault, and I'll definitely correct it in the future. Xiao Li, are you willing to give me another chance?" I looked at her eagerly.
Xiao Li nodded, and then took the initiative to hug me. I felt the warmth of her body, and my heart was gradually healed. Yes, this relationship is worth cherishing, and I can't make the same mistake again.
"Xiao Li, let's think about it, what is the reason that makes me gradually lose patience and value for you?"
Xiao Li said thoughtfully: "Maybe it's because there is a deviation in our understanding of love." Like you said, at the beginning, we were so loving, but then it went out of shape. "
"You have a point. We had too many beautiful fantasies about love, thinking that as long as we love each other, we can be happy from now on. But the reality is far more cruel than we think. I said thoughtfully.
"Yes, just because you're in love doesn't mean you can sit back and relax. On the contrary, it requires us to be enthusiastic at all times and to cherish each other with actions. Unfortunately we didn't, you were immersed in your work, and I grew accustomed to your coldness. Xiao Li sighed.
"Yes, we are both at fault. I ignored your needs, and you failed to salvage our relationship in time. Such a relationship is destined to fail. I said bitterly.
"So, how do we solve this problem, how can we rekindle our passion for each other and cherish our feelings?" Xiao Li looked at me expectantly.
"Yes, love is like a pot of flowers, if you don't water and fertilize it, it will wither and wither sooner or later. Therefore, we must learn to be considerate in life and love each other with practical actions. Xiao Li said approvingly.
"You have a point. We must always be open and honest and speak our hearts and not hide them. Only in this way can our feelings last. Xiao Li said with deep feelings.
"Finally, we need to learn to be tolerant and inclusive. Everyone has flaws and shortcomings, and no one is perfect. Therefore, we must learn to be tolerant and understanding of each other, and to tolerate each other's flaws with love. I said.
"yes, we can't always expect 100 percent perfection from each other, that's unrealistic. As long as we truly love each other, we should be tolerant and forgive each other's mistakes. Xiao Li said with a firm look in his eyes.
Through in-depth communication with Xiao Li, I realized the problems and shortcomings of our previous relationship. In order to rekindle the fire of love between us, I made up my mind to start with myself and love and cherish her with practical actions.
"Obviously, how can you do this? Xiao Li said happily.
"I used to be so selfish that I always took your efforts for granted. From today onwards, I want to make amends to you and express my love with actions. I said solemnly.
After breakfast, I took the initiative to do the housework. Cleaning, laundry, tidying up the room...... These things that were previously handled by Xiao Li are now done by myself. Xiao Li saw it in his eyes, he was both moved and guilty, and wanted to join several times, but I politely refused.
"That's what I'm supposed to do, just get some rest. I said to her.
In the evening, I made a table of good dishes for Xiao Li according to her favorite dishes. Xiao Li ate cleanly, and after eating, he kept praising my skills. I said, "I'm sorry in the past, but I always snubbed your kindness, but from now on, I will always be considerate of your feelings." "
In this way, in the following days, I will love Xiao Li with my actions day and night. Cook breakfast for her every day, do laundry and ironing, and buy her favorite small gifts...... Xiao Li saw it in her eyes, and her heart was extremely moved, and her eyes also returned to their former gentleness and sweetness.
Once, in the middle of the night, when she hadn't slept yet, she suddenly hugged me tightly, and her eyes were full of tears.
"Obviously, you have really changed, I am so happy. You are more considerate of me now than you were before. "
"That's all as it should be, Xiao Li. I used to be so selfish, and you have been silently tolerating me. From now on, I will cherish you and love you for the rest of my life. I said solemnly.
Seeing that I have changed so sincerely, Xiao Li is also responding to my love in his own way. She began to be more considerate of my daily life and made me the center of gravity in her life.
Once, I came home late from overtime. I thought Xiao Li had already slept, but I didn't expect the light to be on in the living room, and Xiao Li was waiting for me. When she saw me enter the door, she rushed up to me and gave me a hot shoulder massage.
"Thank you for your hard work, are you tired today?" Xiao Li asked me gently.
"Well, I'm too busy at work, and I'm really a little tired. I nodded.
"It's okay, I'm here with you. Have you had dinner? Would you like me to warm it up for you?" Xiao Li asked thoughtfully.
"You've been waiting for me for so long, how can I let you work anymore? I pulled her to sit down on the couch and leaned into her warm embrace.
In addition to being meticulous about my daily life, Xiao Li also began to communicate with me more actively. She would tell me her ideas honestly and listen carefully to my ideas and suggestions. At one point, she asked to move, and we had an open and honest discussion about the pros and cons of the issue.
"Moving is both a new beginning and a challenge for us. We need to think twice. I said.
"You're right. However, no matter what we decide in the end, we must believe in each other and treat each other with tolerance and understanding. Xiao Li said.
I nodded, filled with gratitude for this thoughtful girl who truly loved me. It was her tolerance and understanding that gave me the opportunity to regain my strength; It was her persistence and waiting that rekindled our feelings.
In this way, under the care of each other, our relationship became stronger and sweeter than before. We began to learn to love each other with actions, communicate ideas in a timely manner, and be tolerant and understanding of each other. The feelings that were once lost and regained have now turned into eternal promises that will accompany us for the rest of our lives.
One summer day a year later, Xiao Li and I walked hand in hand on the familiar park paths. The warmth of the sun shines on the body, bringing an unprecedented sense of well-being. We came under a large tree, which was where we first met.
"yes, that's how we got married. You've been in my life ever since. Xiao Li also smiled, his eyes were as gentle as a pool of spring water.
"We were too young at that time and had too many fantasies about love. So when the cruelty of reality came, we fell into confusion and confusion for a while. I said thoughtfully.
"But in the end we did. We have learned to cherish each other with actions, to communicate in a timely manner, and to be tolerant of each other. All this is the process of repairing our feelings with love. Xiao Li said emotionally.
I nodded, my eyes becoming more and more determined: "Yes, we finally understand that love is not something that can be done once and for all, it requires us to spend our lives caring and maintaining." As long as we always believe in each other and tolerate and tolerate with sincerity, we will definitely be able to go to the end. "
"Then do you still love me now?" Xiao Li asked me happily.