Although the percentage of non-marriage is rising, the majority are women, and men are more accepting of marriage than women.
I saw a survey on the Internet, which showed that 82.77% of single men said that they yearn for life after marriage and are eager to live a life of "holding the hand of their son and growing old with their son". Although 60.76% of women yearn for married life, 39.24% of them say that they enjoy being single and think that "single" is also good.
Why do men crave marriage more?
Evolutionary psychology believes that men choose to marry because of the potential benefits they can gain from marriage in terms of survival and reproduction.
From ancient times to the present, men have valued the inheritance of their bloodline, and they have longed to have children through marriage to continue their bloodline. In addition, marriage is also a matter of a man's face, if a normal man can't even get a wife, he is often seen as a symbol of incompetence, so men have to desperately get a marriage for dignity.
An older man in Gansu almost became a laughing stock because he couldn't find his wife, but fortunately, at the age of 38, he finally saved enough bride price and successfully got off the single.
The older man finally got off the single, and he was excited on the wedding day
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Young and innocent, once people have some age, emotional matters are no longer so simple. More or less, it has to be mixed with some other things.
Especially for adults, because marriage has to be implemented in such trivial things as dressing and eating, it will become more or less realistic and material, if there is no basic guarantee or the sincerity of the bride price is not enough, it is difficult to reach a consensus to go to the palace of marriage.
The man's family conditions are poor, not only does he not have a decent car and house, but he also can't get a bride price, so he has never had a chance to get married. Seeing that most of his peers around him have completed their life mission of getting married and having children, and the fast-paced ones are even about to be upgraded to become grandparents, but he hasn't even entered the door of marriage, the man is very anxious.
Although the original family is not good, but the man is hardworking and practical, and he has saved some hard-earned money by working outside the home over the years, and he successfully held hands with a 32-year-old second-married woman under the introduction of the matchmaker.
Although marriage is a second experience for women, it is full of freshness for men, not to mention that second-married women are more mature and experienced, so men are so satisfied, and the whole person is as excited as if they were beaten on the day of marriage.
Perhaps because of his perennial work on the construction site, the man has dark skin and looks a little old, but when he got married, he looked quite energetic in a suit and leather shoes. Although the bride is a second marriage, she is 6 years younger than the man after all, so she still looks a lot younger than him.
The man was very excited about his first marriage, and he would not let go of his arms around the bride
Although the woman is a little chubby, she has a perfect figure, charming and moving, plus she has fair skin and loves to laugh, giving people a feeling of being full of blessings, and the man is in a good mood.
The man who got married for the first time was already very excited, and the bride was 6 years younger than him, and seeing that many relatives and friends came to bless him that day, the man felt that he had finally raised his eyebrows, so he couldn't close his mouth with a smile the whole time.
When the group photo was taken, the man did not hide his inner liking at all, hugged the bride to his side, and then looked at her with a doting face, and the whole person smiled so much that his eyes were almost gone. After all, the bride had already had an experience here, and in the face of the man's enthusiasm, she did not twist at all, and leaned over to his shoulder very cooperatively.
For the bride's cooperation, the man's self-esteem was obviously greatly satisfied, and he couldn't wait to kiss her on the face. Originally, I was worried that the man would be an elm head if he was single at such an age, but seeing that he was quite good, the bride was relieved, and the whole person smiled even brighter.
The bride and groom, though they are both 70 years old, are more open than many young people, and they are simply romantic, and relatives and friends are amused by their intimate behavior.
"Hurry up and have a big fat boy. ”
"If you give birth to a girl, you will be a baby parent. ”
"The bride is still young, and having two is not a problem. ”
Hearing the blessings of various fancy births, the bride behaved a little shy, while the man felt that when it came to his heart, he thought that his life would be complete when he thought of having another child, after all, who doesn't want to have a child of his own.
Although he is 38 years old, the bride is only 32 years old, thinking of this, the man's heart is more beautiful, and he can't help but kiss her again.
Seeing the happy appearance of a couple with excessive sugar content, many people said that they could feel the groom's start of school through the screen, and blessed them with an early birth of a precious son.
Sentiment Analysis:
At the age of 38, meeting a relationship and entering a marriage is undoubtedly a belated happiness for men.
In the long road of life, happiness will be late, but it will not be absent. Seeing the man's doting on the bride, you can understand that maybe he didn't get married like this when he was young, and it was because he was too eager that he would regard it as a treasure. For the bride, this time she finally married the right person.
As the saying goes: "Fate is destined, and the time will not appear until the time comes; ”
Sometimes it is easier to have a superior marriage when you marry later, because after the precipitation of time, your mind is more mature, you know yourself better, and you know better what kind of object you want. The ups and downs of love in the early years are all experiences, and late marriage is God's blessing for you, helping you screen out unsuitable people, helping you recognize yourself and find the right person.
Today's topic discussion: What do you think about getting married late and meeting a nobleman?
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