introduction
Marriage examination, i.e. premarital medical examination.
A marriage and love expert pointed out that inspection is an important checkpoint to protect love and build a healthy future together. It allows both partners to have an in-depth understanding of the future partner's physical condition so that they can prepare for various copings in advance.
The marriage expert went on to point out that a marriage exam can help to detect potential health problems in the body in a timely manner. Through the marriage examination, various diseases including hereditary diseases, infectious diseases, etc. can be screened out, so that the partner can make an informed decision on whether to get married or not, so as to avoid unnecessary troubles and conflicts after marriage.
The marriage expert went on to point out that in modern society, people attach great importance to the health of their partners, and marriage examinations allow partners to understand each other's health so that they can lay a solid foundation for a high-quality married life in the future.
The marriage expert finally pointed out that in short, marriage inspection is an indispensable part of men and women before marriage. Not only does it allow us to identify potential health problems in a timely manner, but it also allows us to know the health of the other person. It should be said that only through the strict control of the marriage inspection can we move towards a happy married life together!
A senior netizen said that the premarital examination was not initiated by Chinese. As early as the first half of the 20th century, countries such as Egypt, Syria, Lebanon, Tunisia and Morocco had already implemented the premarital examination system, while the compulsory marriage examination system in the mainland was only implemented on June 1, 1995, which was nearly 100 years later than that of foreign countries.
The senior netizen went on to say that at present, Russia, France, Japan and other countries have implemented free marriage inspection systems, although the marriage inspection system in these countries is not mandatory, but the phenomenon of partners actively exchanging medical certificates before marriage has been very common.
However, in the mainland, there will always be some people who are unwilling to take the initiative to do premarital examinations!
No, on April 15, some netizens broke the news that at a blind date conference held in a certain place, many women were unwilling to participate in the premarital examination!
So, what's going on here?
Next, let's talk about it.
affair
Some netizens broke the news that not long ago, a blind date meeting was held in the largest blind date corner in the city, and hundreds of young men and women participated in the blind date meeting that day. Some young men and women attend blind dates accompanied by their parents.
At this blind date meeting, some women expressed dissatisfaction with the man's personal conditions. In this case, I don't know which blind date man was the first to shout: "Are girls so picky nowadays?" If girls are picky about boys' personal conditions, boys should also be picky about girls. I suggest that all the girls who attend the blind date meeting should have a premarital check-up, and then come back to find fault with the boys, and then fall in love with the boys, are the girls willing?"
When many men on a blind date heard this man shouting, they loudly echoed: "This suggestion is very good! We all support this suggestion, and all the girls on the blind date today should go for a premarital examination! See which girl is not willing to do it!"
According to a netizen present, as soon as many men on a blind date echoed this, some of the girl's parents protested, and some of the girl's parents pointed out: This suggestion is obviously disrespectful to girls, hurts women's self-esteem, and is unacceptable!
The netizen who was present went on to say that when many girls listened to the echo of many men on blind dates, they also felt very angry, and they said that they "couldn't accept the premarital examination", and some girls even left the scene crying!
The above is a general process of this event.
When many netizens learned about this incident, netizens started a heated discussion.
Netizen voices
Netizen: Premarital check-ups are normal! Why don't girls want to undergo premarital check-ups? I wonder why girls!
Netizen Fang Cao Ruyin: Girls can ask boys, but can't boys ask girls? Boys ask girls to do premarital checkups first, and then fall in love! Why do some girls think that they are disrespectful to girls?
In short, netizens have a lot to talk about.
Lao Hu's point of view
In ancient times, the word "respect" referred to the fact that the other person was regarded as higher than oneself and must be valued for the other person, but today, the word "respect" has gradually been extended to the mentality of treating people as equals and their words and deeds.
Lao Hu felt that in this case alone, although the men should not ask the girls to do the premarital examination at the blind date meeting, the girls should not think that the requests made by the men are disrespectful to the girls. After all, premarital check-ups are beneficial to both men and women, and girls should also go for premarital check-ups, so why bother to put a big hat of "disrespect for women" on all the men who make such demands? Lao Hu believes that girls should not put a big hat of "disrespect for women" on the heads of all men.