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My name is Uncle Zhang and I am 65 years old. Although my hair has gone gray, my mentality has always maintained the vitality of youth. Life is like a never-ending adventure for me, and I am eager to meet new people and experience a different way of life.
Since my wife died of illness 10 years ago, I have been living alone in this small town. The two children have already started a family and live separately. Although they would call often to say hello and occasionally come back to visit me, most of the time I was still home alone. It was lonely at first, but gradually I learned to pass the time in a variety of ways. Every morning I would go to the park for morning exercises, and at noon I would play chess and cards with a few old guys. Still, deep down, I'm looking forward to having a partner with whom I can share the bits and pieces of my life.
"Hello, we are your new neighbors, my name is Uncle Li, and this is my wife, Aunt Zhang. "An old man with gray hair greeted me warmly.
"Hello, my name is Uncle Zhang, it's a pleasure to meet you!" I quickly got up, smiled and shook hands with them.
In this way, the three of us quickly became good friends who talked about everything. We have very similar attitudes and values towards life, and we all cherish the present moment and love life. Uncle Li is a very interesting person, he was a primary school physical education teacher before he retired, and his biggest hobby now is playing chess and tai chi. Aunt Zhang, on the other hand, is a well-spoken person, who used to work as an accountant in a factory, and now her favorite thing is to grow flowers and vegetables at home.
The three of us are inseparable, and whether it's chatting at home or exercising in the park, we always have a great time. Once, when we were playing chess, Uncle Li suddenly said: "Uncle Zhang, you see that you and the three of us are all people who have been with us for many years, you and I have passed from the peak of life, and now we are in the last stage of life." Why don't the three of us just rely on each other and take care of each other until we get old!"
I was deeply moved by his words, and my heart warmed. Yes, the three of us are all lonely old people, wouldn't it be the best place to end up if we could support each other like this? Since then, the relationship between the three of us has become more intimate, like a family.
Just when the three of us were inseparable, one day Uncle Li suddenly said to me: "Uncle Zhang, I have discussed with Aunt Zhang, we plan to let our son Xiao Li come back from out of town to live with us." "
I was taken aback because in all the months they had been together, they had never mentioned having a son. Seeing my puzzled expression, Uncle Li explained: "Xiao Li is our only child, and he has been filial since he was a child. A few years ago, he went to another place for a job opportunity and has been renting a house there alone. Now that his career is improving, we want him to come back and join us. "
Although I still had some doubts in my heart, out of trust and friendship with them, I readily agreed.
In the days that followed, we got along very well. Xiao Li is diligent and capable, has a good style of life, and has no fancy hobbies. He often comes home after work, takes the initiative to help his parents with household chores, and sometimes takes the three of us to the park for walks and exercises.
Gradually, the relationship between the four of us became extremely close, like a family. Xiao Li regards the three of us old people as his relatives, and we all love him very much. Once, Xiao Li happily said to me, "Uncle Zhang, I'm really happy to live with you. Ever since my mom passed away, I have never felt the warmth of home again. Now with the three of you, I finally feel at home. "
I was deeply moved by his words, and my eyes couldn't help but moisten. Yes, home is not just a concept of space, but more importantly, the company and warmth of loved ones. With Xiao Li joining, the four of us formed a warm family.
Just when I thought my life was finally on track, something shocking happened. One day, Uncle Li suddenly said to me, "Uncle Zhang, Aunt Zhang and I plan to sell this house and move to another place. "
I couldn't believe my ears! How could we suddenly be separated when we were so close as a family these days? I had mixed feelings in my heart, on the one hand, I didn't want to lose this beautiful family friendship, and on the other hand, I didn't want to restrict the freedom of others.
"Uncle Li, what do you mean by that? We get along so well, how can we suddenly have to separate?" I asked, choking up.
Uncle Li said helplessly: "Uncle Zhang, we really treat you as our own." It's just that my health has been deteriorating recently, and it's too inconvenient to live here. We were ready to move to a well-equipped nursing home, where conditions were better and life was more secure. "
Hearing this, my heart fell into a deep struggle. On the one hand, I understand the reason why they do this, after all, as they get older and their ability to take care of themselves is declining, living in a nursing home is indeed a good choice. But on the other hand, I was very reluctant to end our intimate relationship like this.
Xiao Li was obviously taken aback by my request, he looked at me with wide eyes, and did not speak for a long time.
Seeing that he didn't react for a long time, I hurriedly continued: "Don't worry, I won't trouble you." I have no problem living on my own, and I used to cook and clean at home. I just don't want to lose the feeling of your family, don't you say?"
Unexpectedly, Xiao Li unexpectedly opposed my proposal. He frowned and said, "Uncle Zhang, I understand what you said. But, you have to understand, we've only known each other for three months. I am grateful that you treat us as family, but it takes time to develop family affection. If we live together so reluctantly, it may cause trouble for each other. "
We argued for a long time, and both sides stubbornly stuck to their point of view. I went to great lengths to explain to him that we had developed a close relationship, but he always avoided the issue, believing that it was just a matter of friends.
"Uncle Zhang, you are a very nice person, and I also appreciate you for taking care of our family. But you can't deny the fact that we've only known each other for three months!
In the end, looking at Xiao Li's resolute expression, I knew that I couldn't convince him. I had no choice but to soften my tone and plead with him: "Xiao Li, I know you have your own ideas, and I don't want to force you. But can you promise me for the time being that I will continue to live with you? I promise that if I do feel the pressure and discomfort, I will not hesitate to move out. "
Xiao Li looked at my sincere eyes, and after a long while, he finally nodded: "Okay, then let's do it for the time being." But you have to keep your word, and if you really don't feel comfortable in the future, you must let me know. "
In this way, I began to live with Xiao Li.
At first, Xiao Li and I both maintained a rusty mode of getting along. When he came back from work, he went straight back to his room to rest, and rarely took the initiative to talk to me. And I tried to avoid disturbing him, for fear of making him feel burdened.
Gradually, through daily interaction and mutual understanding, we became more and more intimate. Once, I was cooking dinner in the kitchen when Xiao Li suddenly walked in.
"Uncle Zhang, do you need my help?" He asked me with a smile.
"Oh, that's great. You can cut these vegetables. I hurriedly pushed the cutting board in my hand in front of him.
In this way, Xiao Li began to take the initiative to come to the kitchen to help me every day when he came back from work. Sometimes, he even cooks some home-cooked food for me. In the beginning, we rarely talked in the kitchen, but as we gossiped more and more, we gradually narrowed the distance between each other.
It is precisely because of the sincere friendship established with Uncle Li and Aunt Zhang that Xiao Li and I were able to have a family-like relationship so quickly. The seeds of friendship have long taken root in our hearts, and it only takes time and careful care to bloom in a brilliant light.
Once, Xiao Li said to me, "Uncle Zhang, I want to apologize to you. I was too stubborn to listen to you properly. Now that I think about it, you value and cherish our family so much, and we don't appreciate your kindness. It's because I'm too petty that I hurt your feelings like that. "
I waved my hand again and again and said, "If you say anything, you don't have to apologize to me." I was too reluctant to you at the time, and now that I think about it, it's really a bit too much. However, now that we get along so well, it is the greatest fate and luck. "
Xiao Li smiled and nodded, we looked at each other and smiled, and we both felt extremely happy and warm in our hearts.
In this way, the "family" life of the four of us returned to its former appearance. Every night, we would sit together to watch the news on TV, chat and play chess. Xiao Li often takes Uncle Li and Aunt Zhang out to exercise. Everyone was happy and lived together like a family.
In the blink of an eye, a year passed quietly. One day, Uncle Li suddenly told me that he and Aunt Zhang were planning to really move out and live in a nursing home.
"Uncle Zhang, we're leaving. For more than a year, you have cared for and cared for us as if you were our family. We all sincerely thank you for your kindness and friendship. Uncle Li said, tears welling up in his eyes.
Aunt Zhang also sobbed and said to me: "Yes, Uncle Zhang, it is really our oldest fate and luck to know you." You are like our own son, and we are very reluctant to give you up. "
I stepped forward and hugged them tightly, tears welling up in my eyes. Although I knew that they would have to move out sooner or later, when it was time to say goodbye, I still had mixed feelings in my heart.
In this way, Uncle Li and Aunt Zhang left, and Xiao Li and I started a new life. Although we no longer live together as we used to, our relationship is stronger and deeper than ever.
Xiao Li would take time out to visit me every few days, and sometimes bring his wife and children with him. We would sit together and chat about family life and share the bits and pieces of life. Xiao Li's child is very clingy to me, and every time he comes, he will throw himself into my arms and be coquettish. Looking at their happy family of three, my heart is always full of happiness and relief.
Once, Xiao Li suddenly said to me: "Uncle Zhang, you are my relative." If it weren't for your insistence, we might have been strangers forever. It was you who touched me with affection and friendship and made me re-understand what is the definition of family. Your kindness to our family is something I can't repay in my life. "
I smiled and patted him on the shoulder and said, "What do you say, kid? As long as you are happy and healthy, I will be satisfied. "
In the dead of night, I often think of that lovely elderly couple. Although they are now behind my life, the affection and friendship they gave me will always be in my heart.
I sincerely hope that no matter where they are, they can always maintain an optimistic attitude towards life and be happy and healthy. And I will continue to love life and cherish the present moment in my own way. Because of having Xiao Li, my life will never feel lonely and lonely again.
Let's bless together, and bless all people in this world to be surrounded by love and live a happy and fulfilling life. With the nourishment of family affection and friendship, our hearts will always be warm and sunny.
Not long after Uncle Li's family moved away, Xiao Li also encountered a new turning point in his life. One day, he happily told me that he had been poached by a large company and was ready to quit his old job and go there as an executive.
"Uncle Zhang, this is really a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. Not only is the company well paid, but the future is also bright. However, I work in another city, and I may have to move there. Xiao Li said, his face full of excitement and anticipation.
I nodded my head again and again to congratulate him on his new job. But deep down, there is still some reluctance and worry. If Xiao Li really moved away, a person of my age would have to live alone again.
Seeing the worry in my eyes, Xiao Li took the initiative to speak: "Uncle Zhang, I know that you must be worried about your future living arrangements, right? In fact, I have always regarded you as my relative, and you are like my father. So, can I make a very presumptuous request?"
I nodded hurriedly and motioned for him to continue.
"The city is not too far from here, about two hours by car. If you could, would you like to move there with me? You can live independently, I just want to see you more often and share the details of your life. "
Xiao Li's proposal surprised and delighted me. I didn't expect that in his mind, I was already equal to his father! Although there is a generation difference in age, the relationship between us is so pure and deep.
In this way, after a short period of consideration and preparation, Xiao Li and I moved to a new city and started a new life.
Xiao Li rented a comfortable small apartment near his house for me, with elegant decoration and all living facilities. I was completely independent and self-sufficient, and Li would take time out of work to visit me and sometimes invite me to his home.
This lifestyle has given me enough freedom without feeling alone. No matter how busy Xiao Li is at work, he always finds a few days a week to accompany me. Sometimes he would bring his wife and children with him, and we would walk and exercise as a family in the nearby park; Sometimes he was the only one who came over and would accompany me to play chess and cards, or make small talk.
Gradually, our lives have entered a new track. Xiao Li is also successful in his work and has become the backbone of the company. His wife also got a good job, and the family of three lived happily ever after.
However, when happiness came, fate began to play tricks on me again. One day, two years after Xiao Li moved, I suddenly felt unwell and was diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease.
Gradually, my condition worsened, my consciousness began to blur, and my memory deteriorated. But the strange thing is that my impression of Xiao Li has never been blurred. Every time he came to visit me, my eyes would turn cloudy to clear, and my whole body would become refreshed.
Xiao Li's wife often jokes that Xiao Li is like a reassurance pill for me, and as long as he is around, I will return to normal. Yes, maybe this is the power of family affection, it gives me strength and hope, so that I will not be completely lost in the haze of illness.
In this way, under the careful care of Xiao Li and his wife and children, I spent the last few years of my life. Despite my deterioration, I never felt lonely inside. Xiao Li is like my own son, caring for me in every way, making the night of my life beautiful and warm.
One night, I woke up with a sudden shock and was feeling weak and breathing. Xiao Li immediately rushed to my side, and his wife quickly called a doctor.
"Uncle Zhang, don't be afraid, the doctor will be here soon. You've got to hold on!" Xiao Li held my hand tightly, his eyes full of anxiety and worry.
After saying this, I felt a sense of relief, as if the burden of life had been lifted. I closed my eyes, and all kinds of good memories of getting along with Uncle Li and Aunt Zhang came to my mind.
It was at this moment that I realized that the greatest luck in my life was to get to know the three of them. It is precisely because of their arrival that I am no longer lonely and can have the warmth of home again.
This is how my life has come to an end, but the family affection given to me by Xiao Li's family will last forever. The moment I closed my eyes, I seemed to see Uncle Li and Aunt Zhang, who were waving and smiling at me.
yes, now I can finally be freed and go to another world to reunite with them. And Xiao Li and his family will always be my relatives and beloved in my life, and I will always guard their happiness.
Let's bless it, bless all people in this world to be surrounded by love and have the warmth of home. I also wish that family affection and friendship can exist forever and illuminate the soul in everyone's heart.