introduction
Trust is the foundation of marriage.
A writer once said that trust is the bond of family stability and the cornerstone of resolving grievances.
A marriage expert pointed out that in the marriage relationship, you must trust your spouse to be loyal, after all, trust can keep yourself always sober, free from the interference and invasion of external factors, and can ensure the stability and solidity of your marriage. What is the point of marriage if there is no more basic trust between husband and wife?
The marriage expert went on to point out that couples must learn to appreciate each other. As a wife, you must worship your husband, because this worship can significantly improve her husband's self-confidence, can make his self-esteem satisfied, so the importance of worshipping your husband is obvious, and as a husband, you must also trust your wife, because this trust can make her get a good mood, so that her wife becomes more beautiful, so the importance of trusting your wife is also obvious!
The marriage expert continued to point out that husband and wife are a community of destiny, and both husband and wife should go together to experience the most important moments of life, face various difficulties in life together, and share all kinds of joy in life together, based on this, mutual trust between husband and wife is very important.
The marriage expert finally pointed out that if both men and women in marriage can understand the importance of mutual trust and can learn not to suspect each other at will, then the marriage of the husband and wife will be happy!
However, man is a complex animal with thoughts, and although many couples want to trust their partner to the maximum, there are times when their partner struggles to gain their trust!
No, the Gansu man Zhong trusted his wife Du very much, but Du's actions made Zhong no longer able to trust his wife!
So, what's going on here?
Next, let's talk about it.
affair
Zhong, a 38-year-old man, and Du, a 37-year-old woman, are an old husband and wife. The two have been married for more than ten years, and they have basically not blushed.
In order to increase his family income, in recent years, Zhong handed over the family's land to his wife Du to take care of, and he went to Xi'an, Shaanxi Province to work.
But last winter, Zhong's old mother called Zhong one after another, saying that there was some gossip about Du in the village, and I was afraid that Zhong's backyard would catch fire soon, so it was better to go home and guard a few acres of potato fields, and not to work outside.
After Zhong just received this kind of call from his old mother, he felt that his old mother was a little worried, and his wife Du knew that Du was a very decent person, and the gossip that outsiders said was nonsense. And as the old mother made more and more calls like this, Zhong's heart was a little unsettled. So, Zhong quit his job and went home full-time to guard his few acres of potato fields.
Since Zhong came home, he found that his wife Du likes to visit the door very much, especially when she likes to go to the male neighbor's house. As a result, Zhong suspected that Du was having an affair with his male neighbor Huang. But when Zhong told his wife Du his suspicions, Du resolutely denied Zhong's suspicions. Under Du's resolute denial, Zhong slowly eliminated his suspicion of his wife Du.
But what Zhong didn't expect was that after dinner on April 13, his wife Du quietly went to the house of his male neighbor Huang. In this case, Zhong decided to go to the male neighbor Huang's house to see the situation, but what Zhong didn't expect was that the door of Huang's house was closed, and no matter how he knocked on the door, he didn't get a response from Huang.
Zhong said that when he knocked on the door and Huang couldn't respond, he had to climb over the wall and enter Zhong's house, and when he angrily smashed open Huang's door, he was stunned by the scene in front of him. So, he asked his wife Du and his male neighbor Huang what was going on, but who knows, his wife Du and his male neighbor Huang were silent and did not answer any questions.
Zhong went on to say that now, his heart is very entangled. If you divorce your wife Du, you don't know what to do with your two children. If you don't divorce your wife, your heart will be as uncomfortable as eating a fly. Under the domination of this ambivalence, he wanted to ask netizens for help and see what netizens thought about this matter.
The above is a general process of this matter.
When many netizens learned about this incident, netizens started a heated discussion.
Netizen voices
Netizen Spring Story: It's not easy to deal with this kind of thing. After all, the child's problem is not easy to solve, I think: Zhong Mou should bear with it!
Netizens chirped crookedly: Netizens have no way to solve this kind of problem! Zhong Mou better make his own plans!
In short, netizens have a lot to talk about.
Lao Hu's point of view
Lao Hu thinks: Zhong has encountered a very tricky thing. After all, couples with children are not the same as couples without children. Couples without children can easily divorce, while families with children cannot easily divorce. And Zhong and his wife Du are a couple with children, even if Zhong wants to divorce his wife Du, it is not easy to do it!
Lao Hu thinks: Zhong can persuade his wife Du, as long as Du is willing to correct his mistakes, Zhong can choose to forgive, as the saying goes: take a step back and open the sky! Zhong chooses to take a step back, maybe his wife Du will be grateful to Zhong!