"Shaking the Dragon Sutra" has clouds: "The gray line of the grass snake stretches for thousands of miles." ”
Misfortune has misfortune, blessing has blessing, and everything in the world has its cause and effect.
This is called, with good thoughts in mind, good fortune appears.
It can be seen that the best blessings for people in middle age actually have early signs, look at how many you have.
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Streamline desires, troubles go
There is a sentence in "Caigen Tan": "Life is only burdened by words, and it is like a horse like a cow, listening to people." ”
Desires are innate, but if they are not controlled and trapped by them, they will bring misfortune to greed. At least trouble, at worst it is disaster.
When people reach middle age, they can simplify their desires in order to have an easy life.
Li Shufu, a famous industrialist, has been steadily working in his own industry.
But when he found out that everything he had spent years of hard work on was not as good as his friend's income from a month's house speculation in Hainan, he was unwilling in his heart.
Driven by desire, Li Shufu closed the company and wanted to earn this wealth with tens of millions.
However, it backfired, and it didn't take long for all his savings to be lost due to the collapse of the local real estate.
After that, Li Shufu learned from the pain, reflected deeply, and no longer let greed control his reason.
For more than 30 years, he has returned to his old profession, steadily and steadily, and achieved the Geely brand step by step, becoming a well-deserved godfather in the automotive industry.
A person's failure is often not because of weak ability, but because of strong desire.
Zhuangzi said: "Greedy for money and go to comfort, greedy for power and exhausted." ”
Greed arises from desire, and greed leads to destruction.
How many people originally lived a prosperous life, but because of excessive desires, they caused troubles for themselves, and finally under the whispering of the devil, they were willing to become slaves and go to a tragic end.
When people reach middle age, only by streamlining their desires can they find inner peace and peace.
Let go of the so-called obsession and complaint, accept the arrangement of life, and treat the ups and downs of life with a normal heart.
When you are not bound by material things and enjoy the simplicity and purity of life with your heart, satisfaction and pleasure will appear, and this is the blessing of God's gift.
When a person's desires are emptied, his troubles are gone.
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The circle is clean, and the nobles come
Walking in the world, I met more and more people, and the circle became bigger and bigger.
However, the writer Yu Qiuyu said: "In interpersonal communication, you can lose weight and detoxify regularly, so that you can easily walk the road in the future." ”
The circle that is really beneficial is not too much, but not fine.
I've seen a true story:
There was a young man who was very playful, and it happened that his college roommates were obsessed with online games, and soon the young man was not interested in his studies and was only interested in playing.
By chance, the young man got acquainted with Mark.
Mark's daily hobby is to study in addition to reading. Under his influence, the young man gradually distanced himself from his roommates and fell in love with learning.
Soon after, Mark wanted to create a social networking site and invited Chris to participate in the research.
Within a few years, the social networking site established by the two became popular all over the world and became one of the most influential social software.
He is Mark Zuckerberg, the founder of Facebook.
And Chris, who is also the founder, also appeared on the billionaire list with Mark, changing the fate of the rest of his life.
A person who is destined to be a legend cannot be in the company of mediocrity.
The greatest blessing for people in middle age is to get rid of the inferior quality of the circle and gradually move towards seniority.
Wei Zheng, a famous minister in the Tang Dynasty, also said: "The success or failure of one's life lies in what one is dyed." ”
A good circle can take you to be king, but a bad circle can only take you to pick up a waste heap.
The more complex the relationship, the more draining it is.
It's better to clean up the circle regularly, push away meaningless drinking parties, exit meaningless group chats, and delete meaningless entertainment. When our circle is clean, noble people will naturally come to us.
There is a famous "talent symbiosis effect" in psychology, which means that an outstanding person must be surrounded by excellent groups and will share resources with each other, so as to become more and more valuable.
People are a product of their environment, and their fortune is inseparable from the influence of the people around them.
Choosing excellent people is choosing your own upward future.
The fastest way for middle-aged people to change their lives is to learn to keep their circle clean.
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善良大度,福延绵
Wang Yangming said: "Narrow-mindedness is the root of disaster, and open-mindedness is the door of blessing." ”
A kind and generous person is opening the door to the blessings of the rest of his life.
During the Ming Dynasty, there was a man named Peng Jiao, who took his servants to Beijing to catch the exam and stayed at the inn.
Early that morning, when the servant went out to fetch water, he was unfortunately wet by a basin of water spilled from upstairs.
The servant just wanted to scold, but when he looked down, he saw a golden chuan on the ground. He looked around, and when he saw that no one was around, he quickly picked up Jin Chuan and hid it.
After a long time, the two of them hurried again, and Peng Jiao instructed the servants to count the entanglements in order to save money. But he took out Jin Chuan and said with a smile: "Young master, don't worry, this is valuable!"
After Peng Jiao heard the whole story, he immediately asked for Jin Chuan to be returned, but if he was delayed back and forth like this, he would definitely not have time to take the exam.
Seeing that the servant did not obey, Peng Jiao said again: "If such a valuable thing is lost, it is likely that the woman will be suspected for life because of this, which will lead to great disaster." Human lives are at stake, so let's return them quickly. ”
When the master and servant hurried back to the inn, the woman was repeatedly questioned by her parents because of the loss of Jin Chuan, and she was about to commit suicide.
Peng Jiao stepped forward to explain the reason and returned Jin Chuan, which saved the woman's life. In order to express their gratitude, his parents specially sent one hundred taels of silver to relieve Peng Jiao's urgent need.
At this moment, news came from the capital that a fire broke out during the scientific expedition, and dozens of students were killed in the fire.
In August of that year, the imperial court made up the examination, and Peng Jiao won the championship in one fell swoop.
There is a law for good and evil, and cause and effect are not empty.
Just as it is said in "The Story of the Small Window": "The goodness of a thought will follow the good god, and the evil of a thought will follow the evil ghost." ”
Kindness and generosity are the best feng shui for a person, which can create the smoothest luck.
The blessings and misfortunes that a person experiences now are all thoughts and deeds in the past, and the gains and losses that a person can have in the future are all what you think about at the moment.
The father of the glass king Cao Dewang warned him since he was a child: "Those who are blessed must first have a quantity, and blessing is sought from the amount of qi." ”
And Cao Dewang also used his life to practice his father's words, and until his death, he had donated a total of 16 billion yuan, becoming a well-deserved "China's first kindness".
This kindness has long been turned into merit and returned to him and his family.
Therefore, Cao Dewang affirmed: "Only by being kind can people become rich." ”
In middle age, kindness and generosity are our best blessings.
If we know how to be kind to others, we will gain the respect and trust of others, receive the favor and blessing of God, and good fortune will follow.
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Middle age is a watershed on the long road of life.
In the first half of his life, he was high-spirited and rushed for his livelihood, and while he had it, he was unwilling to give it up.
In the second half of his life, he shook hands with the years and made peace, and sang in the subtraction.