#头条首发挑战赛#每一次的星期一, there will be some discomfort. The reason why I have such discomfort is more because I don't like my current job. Why do you have such a dislike? It is probably because I feel that I have little money and I am not very free. Of course, there is another important reason, I don't like to get entangled with some people over chores.
Especially in some income comparisons, there is always some discomfort when someone around you asks how much income you have. However, the reality is like this, it is the same everywhere, as long as there are people, there will be such comparisons. Any comparison, and some jealousy will pop up.
In fact, those feelings of jealousy can hurt. Many times things arise in such situations, such as the psychology of hating the rich, which is the factor of jealousy, and some complex interpersonal relationships, if you don't know how to deal with those complex interpersonal relationships, it is not easy to integrate into the collective. The reason why some people are able to keep the right and left is that they know what to see.
Even so, in my heart, I don't like to do things that talk about people and talk about ghosts, but I am more willing to do things that are above board. In fact, many times things are often not what they imagined, and people are more willing to solve problems in familiar ways, such as relationships like acquaintances.
If you are not in a circle, you may not hear a word of truth, and you will be excluded by people in the circle. In fact, no matter what kind of thing you do, you can love it if you like it. People like those who like circles, they just do things that way. As everyone knows, this way often limits a person's pattern to a fixed circle.
Once a person enters a fixed state, there may be a pattern of a monk hitting the clock for a day. Having said that, looking back at myself, I am not such a person, so I am often in a contradiction, I want to do a good job, but I hate to do some gang-forming things.
As a result, I entered a strange circle, usually in my spare time, racing against time to learn. At work, I have become a different kind of person, thinking to myself, everyone is in this state anyway, if I look different from others, I will be regarded as different.
It is with this awareness that sometimes I feel that it is a bit hypocritical to do something that is inconsistent with my heart. That's when Monday comes, and you don't feel comfortable with it. In fact, if you think about it, there are many things that are not as bad as you think.
In fact, doing something that is inconsistent with your heart is also for self-protection. If you don't know how to protect yourself, you are likely to become a tool for others to use without knowing it. After all, people's hearts are unpredictable, and some people will not tell others when they do bad things, so proper disguise is also to have more autonomy.
Of course, for a person with no other income, it is better to have a job than not to have one. If you lose your current job, you will have no basic source of income, and at that time, you will most likely not have the time and energy to do what you want to do.
If I think deeper, if the current unit collapses, will there be no stable life now? Now that people are middle-aged, if they find something to do again, will they still have the matching job skills they have now, and the relatively stable income they have now?
It is possible to love only if you like, this is an easy-to-understand truth. Not to mention those slogans, for the security of their own lives, but also for the stability of the family. Just imagine, in real life, there are many families who are unhappy because of lack of money.
If you do your job well, you can not only have a stable income, but also do some things you want to do outside of work, and study hard after work, just in case you lose your job one day, you can have more choices of your own.
In a way, even if you don't like what you do now, you should pretend to like your current job in order to have more time and energy to do what you like. Maybe pretending to be like it will really turn into liking, so that there will be less emotional entanglement and more peace of mind.
People are emotional animals, and being able to become the master of emotions can not only become a better version of themselves, but also be less frustrated and more positive emotional incentives when they hit a wall. Not only work, but also other things, like is possible to love, in real life, if you want to love something, start with liking.
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