1. Blow the horn of adventure
For Tian Pujun, who was born in an ordinary family, the road of life is not all smooth sailing. After failing the college entrance examination and almost giving up her acting dream, she finally relied on her tenacity and opportunity to cross over to the real estate industry, and quickly emerged in this field with her excellent business acumen and keen insight. Just as her career was taking off, a chance encounter changed the trajectory of her life.
In 2009, Tian Pujun entered Cheung Kong Graduate School of Business for further study, where she met Mr. Feng, who had a great influence on her. Mr. Feng valued Tian Pujun's potential, took the initiative to match her, and introduced her to Wang Shi, who was still working in Vanke Group at that time. This undoubtedly opened the door to the top for her.
Wang Shi, who was already in his old age at that time, seemed to have regained the vitality of his youth after meeting Tian Pujun. The conversation between the two was out of control, from work to life, to ideals and ambitions, and gradually developed a chemical reaction. Wang Shi was impressed by Tian Pujun's history of struggle and rich inner world, and finally chose to divorce his ex-wife and entered the marriage hall with Tian Pujun.
Second, say goodbye to the twilight and write a chapter
Since then, Tian Pujun has been like a big tree, which has developed rapidly under the shade of Wang Shi. Relying on Wang Shi's connections and resources, her career is thriving, and she has transformed into a well-known producer and investor. The outside world has praised her as a model of "independent women".
However, some people questioned whether she was really "independent" and whether she only relied on Wang Shi's power and resources. Tian Pujun did not explain much about this, she insisted on proving herself in her own way. For example, when buying a luxury car worth 2 million for herself, she insisted on paying for it herself and not letting Wang Shi pay a penny, so as to show her independence.
No matter how much the outside world talked about, Tian Pujun didn't take it to heart. She has already got the life she wants: a successful career and a happy relationship. She also gradually settled down and became a virtuous wife and loving mother. In 2022, 41-year-old Tian Pujun gave birth to a daughter for 68-year-old Wang Shi, and the couple ushered in the second family happiness in their lives.
3. Money is free, happiness comes
After retirement, Wang Shi has a generous pension of up to 10 million per year. At the same time, Tian Pujun does not need to worry about his livelihood. With such a strong financial backing, the couple can enjoy family fun to the fullest and live an enviable and happy life.
It is widely believed that Wang Shi's pension is as high as 8 figures, which also explains why Tian Pujun chose to marry him so firmly in the first place. But to say that she just used Wang Shi's power and resources, I'm afraid this is a bit wronged.
Tian Pujun did benefit from Wang Shi's protection, but she also had extraordinary vision and courage herself. From the entertainment industry to the real estate industry, she has performed well, showing strong business acumen and ambition. She constantly breaks through herself and is not willing to live a mediocre life, and this spirit of courage to pursue dreams is worth learning from.
What's more, even if he relied on Wang Shi's resources, Tian Pujun never gave up his career pursuit. She was not satisfied with becoming an accessory to Wang Shi, but took the initiative to buy luxury cars and other luxury goods, and used her own money to write her own life. This is a manifestation of her independence.
Fourth, where does the confidence come from for women's independence?
As the article says, every woman wants to be independent, but the road is not all smooth sailing. Sometimes, we also need to rely on the people around us, but the most important thing is to maintain inner persistence and persistence.
Tian Pujun's story tells us that independence means not only relying on oneself, but more importantly, having one's own career and financial resources. Only with these can women truly have the confidence to face all kinds of challenges in life.
We should not judge Tian Pujun too harshly, let alone use prejudices to deny her struggle. Everyone has their own story, and everyone's choices have their own unique considerations. It is important that we learn to appreciate and respect each other's way of life, and to appreciate different individuals with an open mind.
Women's independence does not happen overnight and requires a long process. But as long as we adhere to our inner yearning and do not give up the pursuit of a better life, I believe that one day, we can all have our own career and happiness.