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The nanny stayed at the employer's house and didn't leave, and the daughter had no choice but to say: My own house can't be the master now

author:God Demon Adult I

My name is Li Xuejiao, and I am a busy working woman, 36 years old. I am busy with work and run around almost all day long, while my daughter Xiaoyu (pseudonym) is a gentle and kind college student, 20 years old, full of longing and yearning for life.

Our family lives in a small community in the city, and although our daily life is busy, it is also peaceful and harmonious. However, an accident broke our peaceful life, and that was our family's nanny, Aunt Wang.

Aunt Wang is a middle-aged woman in her fifties, she has been working as a nanny in our family for several years, and she has always been a hardworking and hard-working person. But in recent months, I have noticed that her attitude has begun to change a little, not only is she not working as hard as before, but she also often loses her temper for no reason and has a bad attitude towards me and my daughter.

The nanny stayed at the employer's house and didn't leave, and the daughter had no choice but to say: My own house can't be the master now

At first, I didn't pay much attention to it, thinking that it might be because of the pressure of her work, or that something was not going well at home. But as time went on, it got worse and worse. Aunt Wang is not only reluctant to do housework, but also often finds various excuses to be lazy, and even sometimes does not go to the supermarket to shop, which has affected our lives.

I tried to communicate with her and ask her if there was anything difficult or unsatisfactory about her, but she always looked impatient and refused to answer my questions honestly. I felt very helpless and confused because I didn't know what she was thinking or how to deal with it.

What worries me even more is that Aunt Wang not only has a bad attitude, but also begins to blatantly live in our house. At first, it was an occasional stay for a day or two, but later it became a long-term stay. My daughter and I both felt uncomfortable, but we didn't know how to ask her to leave.

The nanny stayed at the employer's house and didn't leave, and the daughter had no choice but to say: My own house can't be the master now

Just when I was in trouble, my daughter Xiaoyu finally couldn't help but speak. She said to Aunt Wang in a gentle but firm tone: "Auntie, I know that you may have difficulties, but our home is not your permanent residence. I hope you will understand our situation and find your place of residence as soon as possible. ”

Hearing her daughter's words, Aunt Wang was stunned for a moment, and then a trace of guilt and helplessness flashed in her eyes. She was silent for a moment, then finally lowered her head and whispered, "I'm sorry I didn't take your feelings into account. I will move out as soon as possible. ”

My daughter and I both breathed a sigh of relief and looked at each other gratefully. At that moment, I understood a truth, even in difficult situations, as long as we face them bravely, we will always find a solution to the problem. And my daughter's strength and courage also made me even more proud and moved.

The nanny stayed at the employer's house and didn't leave, and the daughter had no choice but to say: My own house can't be the master now

Eventually, Aunt Wang moved out of our house a few days later, as promised. Although this experience made us feel unpleasant, I believe, it also made us stronger and more mature. In my heart, my daughter is no longer a child who needs my protection, but an adult with her own independent thinking and action. I am deeply proud and proud of her because the bravery and strength she showed were exactly the qualities I wanted her to have.

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