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He Yanjuan, who studied law at the University of Hong Kong, is revered as the "school flower" because of her beautiful and moving appearance and elegant temperament. At the age of 23, she had the courage to challenge herself and participated in the Miss Hong Kong contest and won the third runner-up with impressive results.
After the event, He Yanjuan successfully signed a contract with TVB and officially set foot in her acting career at the age of 27 is an important turning point in He Yanjuan's life, she fell in love with Wu Zhicheng, the grandson of Macau gambling king Stanley Ho, and quickly entered the marriage hall.
Unexpectedly, this seemingly flawless marriage only lasted for just one year before it broke down, just 11 months after the two got married, He Yanjuan released a divorce statement on social platforms, shocking everyone! What's more striking is that the day before the divorce statement was issued, the media exposed the scandal of her intimate behavior with the wealthy Chen Yizhang at a party, although He Yanjuan later clarified that she had divorced, but this extramarital affair still caused an uproar in the entertainment industry and became a hot topic at the time.
Surprisingly, in the face of the divorce turmoil, He Yanjuan did not show any sadness or loss, but began to live a profligate and luxurious life. Instead of focusing on her acting career as she used to, she travels the world frequently, sharing photos of herself dining at places of interest and high-end restaurants on social media.
It can be seen from the picture of her life that He Yanjuan lives an extremely wealthy life, and her consumption is all top luxury brands and services, according to media estimates, the total value of luxury brands on her handbags and clothing is as high as millions of Hong Kong dollars For this phenomenon, it is rumored in the industry that He Yanjuan may have received a huge amount of property breakup fees from the divorce of her ex-husband Wu Zhicheng, including cash and a luxury house worth tens of millions of Hong Kong dollars, so that she has such a strong financial strength to support such a luxury lifestyle.
With the support of these superior conditions, He Yanjuan's life can be described as a rich party, she no longer needs to work hard in the entertainment industry, and she has also got rid of the life mode of ordinary salarymen, and immersed herself in various high-end banquets and celebrity gatherings all day long.
Since He Yanjuan ended her marriage, her luxurious lifestyle and rapid devotion to a new love relationship have aroused widespread doubts and confusion. People added a discriminatory label to her as a "money worshipper", and her relationship with a certain company giant was jokingly called "grandson love", making her concept of love the focus of social attention.
He Yanjuan's real life is completely different from the image of Sister Hong Kong in our usual imagination, she has bid farewell to the entertainment industry and completely returned to the life of ordinary people, and she has not revealed any negative emotions caused by emotional trauma, her every consumption behavior and speech and demeanor show that she is immersed in the beauty of life, this unique emotional thinking mode, makes the outside world's evaluation of her polarized and full of doubts.
In the eyes of her close friends, He Yanjuan doesn't seem to care about other people's eyes, she is still known as "the most successful Hong Kong sister" For He Yanjuan personally, the so-called success may be to enjoy the current rich and leisurely life state, she devotes herself to it, and interprets what is real success in her own unique way.
He Yanjuan was born in the post-90s, and compared with women in the post-80s and even earlier, her social environment and emotional needs are significantly different. This means that her pursuit of freedom and ideal life is stronger, and at the same time, she attaches more importance to self-feelings and independent choices.
She is eager to control her own destiny and dominate her own emotional world, and she does not want to be bound and wronged, and the unhappy marriage experience in the past may make her more aware of what she really needs in her heart, and the rich property she gets after the divorce has undoubtedly laid a solid material foundation for her to realize her ideal lifeHe Yanjuan did not choose to re-devote herself to acting and public life, but chose to devote herself to the perfect life defined by herself, she got rid of the shackles of traditional concepts, and pursued the freedom of mind and life, which is the unique emotional choice of women in her time。
To sum up, He Yanjuan's lifestyle is the product of the combined effect of her own emotional appeal and external environment. After an unsatisfactory marriage, she knows better than other ordinary women what kind of life she yearns for.
This unique lifestyle and unique interpretation of the meaning of success is a vivid portrayal of the women of her time, which deserves our deep consideration and due respect.
As to whether He Yanjuan's current living situation can be recognized as a certain degree of "success", we should not be too rigid to adopt a single criterion. As far as He Yanjuan herself is concerned, she is able to meet every day freely at this moment, enjoy the beauty of life to the fullest, and realize her unmet self-needs in marriage, which is her unique understanding of success in her heart.
Rather than focusing on her superficial wealth accumulation and social status, she was finally able to use these external conditions to satisfy her inner desire for happiness.
The praise from relatives and friends, known as the "most successful Hong Kong sister", undoubtedly further strengthened her firm belief that her life has reached a perfect state.
Therefore, success is not a static, one-size-fits-all concept, but varies from person to person and from time to time. We can't just measure whether a person is truly successful based on the pursuit of material comforts or climbing social heights.
He Yanjuan's unique personality and unique understanding of the criteria for success in life are worthy of in-depth reflection. She is fully committed to her own life's journey, which is her unique interpretation of success.