I'm an aunt, and now I'm an emotional person when I see a lot of problems, and I may not be able to be calm.
Why?
It's because two days ago, I got into a fight with a netizen and quarreled with others for several rounds, why did I quarrel?
is because a netizen appealed on the platform:
''If a city woman wants to stay safe, stay away from the phoenix man. Being with a phoenix man is equivalent to guarding a powder magazine, and I don't know when it will explode.''
I was very unconvinced when I heard this!
I said in my heart, the phoenix man recruited you and provoked you, isn't the phoenix man just a boy who came out of the countryside?
That's how it is in my family anyway. Don't look at the ID card that says Beijing, but it's actually from Hebei's hometown, and now in the countryside, we still have relatives!
Why in recent years, the phoenix men who came out of the countryside have all been bad people?
They must have a treacherous heart, ready to stretch out their claws and persecute the only daughter of the city?
Not really.
There are many city girls around me who have tied the knot with Phoenix men, and in the end they are all living well.
Not only did this happen 30 years ago, but it still exists today.
At that time, in work and life, I still had a lot of contact with Phoenix men.
It turns out that when we are in the agency, we often encounter two kinds of people who are distinct!
One category is the children of the family, that is, the children of the courtyard at that time.
The children of the compound have their advantages.
For example, when I was a primary school student, I went in and out of a nursing home or a conference center with my parents who were big cadres, and watched how my parents received people and things and held meetings and chatted with them since they were children!
And what about the other kind of person?
That is the golden phoenix that flew out of the countryside, and these people are very talented. Excellent IQ!
Do you think, while herding cows, breaking corn or watching melons in the melon shed at night, while studying under such conditions, and there are no cram materials, tutorial classes, children's palaces, in such a difficult situation, they can still be admitted to prestigious schools with high scores, and finally assigned to our unit. These people must be amazingly talented!
And I later found out in contact that in fact, they are not all introverted, and there are often many people who are both high in business!
So I have always looked at the phoenix man differently, and sometimes in private, when chatting with several big courtyard disciples, everyone also admitted:
If we were put in that environment, we would definitely not have achieved this achievement. It would be nice to be an accountant in the commune!
So when I was young, I preferred a phoenix man to marry. Of course, the impact was fruitless after a few times, and I asked the phoenix to pull me down, and people didn't look at me. In the case of waiting for no bounds, ranking fourth, and having no hope of long-term promotion, I turned around and talked to a big courtyard disciple!
At that time, several high-ranking girls tied the knot with the Phoenix man. The story of their union has been passed down again and again, and it has been envied until now.
To add another note, many people take an example to represent the whole thing. It's not scientific.
As soon as it comes to phoenix men, they are all ungrateful, and they kicked their wives after flying Huang Tengda, in fact, there are such people. But definitely not the majority.
The combination of the Phoenix man and the high-ranking girl around me, I calculated that day, there were about eleven or twelve pairs. The real failures are only three or four pairs, and the rest of the days are very good!
Therefore, just because one or two phoenix men are ungrateful, it is wrong to say that the moral level of people in this group is not high.
Of course, the phoenix man I'm talking about is the previous generation of phoenix men, which means that they are all old phoenixes in their 50s who are about the same age as me, and their generation is still very popular. As soon as the degree of a prestigious university shines, a good job swings there, oops, there are many suitors, but this is not the case now!
That day, I helped people introduce a partner, the young man worked in the court, which was considered to be in the system, proper, and the person looked very energetic, more than 1.75 meters tall, and his appearance was quite delicate, without any village atmosphere and tackyness. At first glance, he is a weak scholar.
The university is also 985, an old political and legal school, and it is a graduate student, and it is a double degree, hey. In a word, the organization has tested it for you.
is such an excellent guy, asked three or four girls, all of them shook their heads and declined, what is the reason?
Alas, it's a long story.
The first girl was a primary school teacher, and when she looked at the photo of the young man, she thought it was good, but when she heard that it was from rural Shanxi. Parents do not have a pension.
The girl's head shook like a rattle, and said:
I don't dare to provoke him like this, I have to support his parents, what will I do if I get sick in the future? How much does it cost? No, no!
The second girl is a company employee, graduated from three books, and her family is well-off, and she heard that her family has four or five suites, which seems to be a businessman.
But such a girl was very sorry after listening to the guy's conditions, and said:
Even if it's a worker, we can't be a peasant. The rural in-laws will come to my house in the future and will not leave. Hmph, we're not welcome!
So let's go down further.
I asked a vocational girl, who is now working as a customer service in a small company, and her family is a demolition household, and the conditions are also very good.
The girl herself admired the young man very much, and agreed to meet, and the two had a good conversation, and when the girl came home and talked to her parents, the parents agreed.
Because her parents were farmers.
It's just that their village is closer to the city, so how else can they get so many houses by demolishing and relocating? Now the girl's father has got a car, and he can relieve his boredom by driving it, and he doesn't aim to make money.
Mother, do some housework, play two small cards if you have nothing to do, life is leisurely, they think that if they marry such a family, it is okay, after all, the man's work is so good, the person is so spiritual, and the education is so high, oops, the old couple is tempted.
But at this moment, a Tianjin aunt jumped out, and the aunt ran to his house and shouted at them, saying:
What do you think! Borrow someone and dare to go home!
In the future, his father will have no pension, and he will eat you all, and the more poor he is, the more he hangs the people!
Ever heard: Absolutely Pure?
If they are concerned about your suites, and beckon the people of a village to live in your houses, you say, "Boom!"
Even if you don't find a group of people, his father and mother, you can't keep it, and you will eat and drink with you every day in the future, can you afford it?
Besides, if you borrow a boy in the future, you will rise and become a big official. First, I'm going to have to kick your daughter.
Look at your daughter-in-law Nagasuke's unlucky appearance, competing with mustard gnocchi. It's dark, it's dry, it's pumping, is that handsome?
Just the girl, the man is not trying to make money, is he trying to make money?
He is going to be a big official, and your daughter is Qin Xianglian!
He's going to make a fortune, and your daughter is the gambling king's wife!
He's going to be bad. Your daughter is a refrigerator!
He's going to cheat, your daughter just guessed it!
Oops, what a good thing to lock you two up, the family's brains let the donkey kick!
With the old aunt's shouting, all the frightening. The girl's parents, their faces were also white.
They seem to have approached the six groups of serious cases, seen the rule of law, witnessed the tragedy of their daughter, and heard about a strange case, good guy, catch up with that kid again, he is the court, hey, hey, don't dare to provoke, don't dare to provoke!
When this news reached my aunt's ears, I was so angry that my hands were numb. Is there any basis for what you say?
Nothing is there?
Isn't this persecution paranoia?
The kid sits with that well, goes to and from work in a proper manner, just wants to find a partner, you don't like it, forget it, and arrange people like this, and push people into the field of big and important cases.
Recruit you and mess with you. Well, the girl had no idea at this point, and she came to me with red eyes. The girl said:
Auntie, I'm really Naisuke's little brother, but, but, the pressure on me at home is too great, alas, what should I do?
I don't have an idea about this matter, Auntie, I really wonder why people's prejudice against Phoenix men is so big now. This person didn't see a shadow, so he was drenched in blood, and he thought about dancing with a knife and a gun, and when he saw the scene of the crime, he saw a corpse and two lives?
Isn't this demonizing other people's good children?
You said that the little brother recruited someone to provoke whom, hey, people are still waiting to listen to my letter, but I, a big matchmaker, is really difficult!
