I saw such a question on the Internet: What kind of experience is it to have a friend with negative energy around you?
One of them replied, "Pain, that's what I feel the most." I feel that the friend with negative energy is the biggest source of negative energy in my life.
The most terrible thing about a person is that he has lived himself out of a walking garbage truck, full of negative energy.
As a result, the emotions of his negative energy are constantly transmitted to the people around him, which also makes himself more and more tired and his life more and more painful.
Writer Bai Luomei said in "Lovesickness":
"Human emotions are a contagious disease, and when you can't infect a person, you must be infected by it. ”
Many people are not doing well, it is nothing more than their own energy being consumed too much.
Psychologist Winnicott once said that everyone is actually an energy ball, and if you know how to charge it regularly, it will become larger and show a bright color.
However, if you don't know how to maintain and cherish it, once it shrinks, it will become dull.
People with negative energy, wherever they go, will let themselves live a chicken feather.
Only people with positive energy can make this life more hopeful, more energetic, and happier.
To entangle negative energy is to harm oneself
The biggest stupidity of a person is to stay with people who are full of negative energy, and think that they can change the other person.
In fact, those people with negative energy have already lived their lives to the point of being a chicken and a dog, or even lifeless.
Benjamin Franklin said, "One rotten apple is enough to spoil a basket of good apples."
If a person discovers the problem after being exposed to negative energy, he does not stay away in time, and even wants to wake up the other party.
Then, in the end, you will only hurt yourself. After all, the more a person tries to wake people up, the less likely it is.
Nietzsche said: Staring into the abyss for too long, the abyss will gaze back.
Instead of dwelling on people with negative energy, it is better to learn to be kind to yourself and let go of the helping complex.
Even if you feel bored and lonely, you would rather let yourself read some classic books and heal yourself with exercise.
In normal times, develop the habit of waking up early, have some hobbies to decorate life, and even listen to music, watch movies, and water flowers.
In this way, it is better than meddling in one's own affairs and dealing with those who have negative energy.
Oscar Wilde once said:
"For my own sake I must forgive something, for a man cannot get up night and night and plant thorns in the garden of the soul. ”
The best state of a person's life is to be willing to accept the trivialities in life and calmly face the trivialities of firewood, rice, oil and salt.
Of course, we will always meet some rotten people, villains, some so-called people who are full of negative energy.
At this time, we must learn to stay sober, know restraint, and know how to forgive some people and some things.
Then, stay away calmly, or even forget, don't hurt yourself because of the person who has taken care of negative energy.
A person's greatest sobriety is a person who stays away from negative energy
In "The Story of Irrigation Garden", it is said: Everyone sweeps the snow in front of the door, and does not care about the frost on the tiles of his house.
If you get too close to people with negative energy, your energy will be sucked dry by them sooner or later, and your life will become negative and decadent.
A person's greatest sobriety is to manage himself, not to meddle in his own affairs, and not to meddle in other people's karmic lives.
After all, when you are entangled by people who like to complain, pulled by people who are used to calculating, and even lost by some people who will only blindly ask for it.
Then, you will definitely become more failures, at least if you grow up in a negative energy environment, you will eventually grow into a person full of negative energy.
Just like the "kicking cat effect" in psychology, when we pass on our dissatisfaction to the people around us, it will produce a series of vicious chain reactions, and in the end, hurt others and hurt ourselves.
So, learn to manage your own energy, cherish your own energy, and keep your own energy.
In this way, you will be able to retain your energy, mental strength, and be able to become stronger and more independent through your own sunshine.
Cartoonist Jimmy once said:
Don't dwell on an awkward matter for too long, if you dwell on it for a long time, you will be annoyed, it will hurt, it will be sad, and it will be heartbroken.
For the rest of my life, instead of entangled myself, pulled myself, and consumed myself in some negative energy things.
It's better to learn to calm down, slow down, be alone, and stay away from people with negative energy.
In the end, when you are good enough, everything will be what you want to see, and it will be the choice you want to get.
The greatest decency of a person does not respond to negative energy
I've seen such a sentence:
"The world is only as good as the gaze you look at. ”
The greatest dignity of a person is to know how to stay away from people who are full of negative energy, and who dare not respond to negative energy.
Because for them, taking care of them is actually letting themselves do some wrong things and go the wrong way.
Instead of allowing yourself to be constantly consumed by others, especially those who are full of negative energy, it is better to learn to be kind to yourself.
Then, cherish your own things and energy, build a high-energy self, and finally be able to achieve the life you dream of.
Writer Feng Tang said: Only people with high energy can continue to succeed.
You must let yourself live more and more positive energy, because only then will the rest of your life be filled with all kinds of new hopes.
Strive to improve yourself, do yourself well, and live this life with a clear conscience.
Slowly, you will find that you have lived the life you want and the life you have always dreamed of.