It was an autumn afternoon, and I was standing at the gate of the courthouse, clutching the divorce agreement that had just been signed.
At this moment, I left the house with nothing, and all this was because I betrayed my marriage and pursued a moment of excitement and novelty.
My ex-wife's sentence "You will regret it" was like a thorn in my heart, but at that time, I just sneered and responded, thinking that it was just an emotional catharsis of her betrayal of me.
However, what I didn't expect was that my ex-wife's sentence "You will regret it" was really fulfilled later.
01
My ex-wife and I used to be an enviable couple, we had a stable job, lovely children, and a warm home.
However, as the years went by, I gradually felt that life had become boring and uneventful. I began to crave some new thrills, some sensations that would make my heart skip a beat.
That's when I met her, a young, beautiful, energetic woman. Her appearance made me feel as if I had found a new passion for life.
My relationship with her soon warmed up, and I was addicted to the novelty and excitement. I also slowly began to ignore my ex-wife's feelings and even began to speak coldly to her.
I knew I was doing something wrong, but I couldn't control myself. The warnings and tears of my ex-wife only made me more bored and disgusted.
During that time, my ex-wife also tried to communicate with me, hoping that I would change my mind, but I was obsessed with it and only wanted to pursue novelty. Eventually, after a heated argument, I filed for divorce and chose to leave the house clean, leaving all my possessions to my ex-wife.
02
The day before the divorce, she looked at me with disappointment and determination in her eyes. She said, "Since you have chosen her, go and pursue your happiness." But I'm going to tell you, you'll regret it. ”
I sneered at the time, I didn't think so, I was about to start a new life with a young and beautiful wife, how could I regret it?
After the divorce, I lived with that woman. In the beginning, we did have a great time, and every day was full of excitement and freshness. But as time went on, I began to discover who she really was.
In fact, she is not a person who knows how to care and understand me, because she only sees her own interests, she only values my money and status, and has no real feelings for me.
As time went by, the contradictions and quarrels between us grew, and later, when she saw that I had no savings, she left me without hesitation. I, on the other hand, fell into endless loneliness and remorse.
I began to miss the kindness of my ex-wife and the warm home. The happiness I once had, now a distant memory. I tried to contact my ex-wife in the hope of salvaging the relationship, but she had become so disappointed in me that she was no longer willing to give me any chance.
03
Only then did I realize that it was I who destroyed the otherwise happy family with my own hands, and it was I who made my ex-wife suffer endless pain. I began to work hard to change myself, hoping to regain my ex-wife's forgiveness and trust.
However, my ex-wife's heart has been broken too deeply by me, and she no longer wants to believe me. She told me that she used to love me dearly, but now she has let go of the relationship and started a new life. She wanted me to let go of the past and start over.
I was very sad to hear my ex-wife's words. I know that the mistakes I have made are irreparable, and I can only suffer in silence. My ex-wife's former sentence "You will regret it" is like a thorn in my heart at this time, making me regret it.
Looking back, I know that I made an unforgivable mistake. I lost a wife who loved me, cared for me, understood me, and a family that could have been happy. All of this is because I betrayed my marriage and pursued a moment of excitement and freshness.
It's a pity that I understood too late, because in this world, there is no regret medicine to take. Therefore, we must cherish the people in front of us, make good use of every opportunity, and don't let happiness slip away from us.
04
Now, I can only cry silently in the dead of night and regret silently. I know that all this is my own doing, and I can't get forgiveness from my ex-wife, and I can't restore the happiness I once had. I can only use this pain and regret for the rest of my life to remind myself never to make the same mistake again.
My ex-wife's sentence "You will regret it" pierced deep into my heart like a sharp sword. I can't forget the look in her eyes, I can't forget her determination. I know that this is the biggest regret and lesson of my life.
Hopefully, my story will serve as a wake-up call for those who are making mistakes, so that they can pull back from the precipice and cherish the happiness in front of them.
I also hope that everyone who is going through a marriage crisis can think calmly and not ruin their life's happiness for the sake of impulsiveness and novelty.
Here, I would like to say to everyone in the marriage: please don't forget your original intention, and never forget your determination and confidence when you chose this marriage.
The red carpet at the wedding is very short, but a lifetime is very long, don't bury the husband and wife for many years of hard work and dedication because of impulse.
Otherwise, like the man in the article, he will end up alone and live the rest of his life alone.