Is a marriage test so scary?
It was revealed on the Internet that the largest blind date corner in Hangzhou was organizing a blind date party, and the boys who participated in it actually collectively asked for a marriage inspection, and the "mothers-in-law" immediately dispersed when they heard about it, and most of the girls were directly angry and cried, saying: Disrespect for women.
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I have to say that times have changed! Some people commented that boys require both husband and wife to do a marriage examination, which is the last bottom line for boys.
After reading the content exposed on the Internet, netizens commented: "Marriage inspection" is like a demon mirror, and only people with ghosts in their hearts will be afraid.
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"Both men and women must have a marriage inspection!"
"It's not too much, doesn't the woman want to check how much money the man has?"
"All I can say is that this will be a great feat for the boys"
"It's better to be white, white paper to white paper, newspaper to newspaper"
"There were originally 10 blind dates, but all the marriage inspections were gone"
"Girls require boys to have a house, a car, a deposit, a high degree of education, humor, and a considerate care of others, can't boys make demands on girls?"
The boy met all the girl's requirements, but the boy's requirements were not met by the girl, so the two parties parted unhappily!
"Do you dare to marry a girl who has not done a marriage test?"
There are many girls who believe that the marriage inspection is disrespectful to women and is "trampling" on the dignity of women.
They felt that it was sufficient to produce a medical examination report of both parties before the marriage, proving that both parties were in good health and free from infectious and genetic diseases and other defects.
If the marriage inspection stops there, they can accept it!
After seeing the reactions of many women, I can't help but think of a blind date show I watched before.
In the show, the program team arranged a blind date between an elite man in Shanghai and a woman of the same age.
In the eyes of the matchmaker, regardless of the conditions or age, the two are evenly matched, and they should be able to find a common language soon.
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In fact, at the beginning, it was indeed as the matchmaker thought, it was more harmonious, and the two people at the table also talked and laughed, and soon discussed the topic of feelings.
The man said that he is not young, and his parents have been urging him to get married, and he wants to find someone who can accompany him until he is old.
The woman also nodded in agreement, saying that she was not short of money and just wanted to find someone who cared for and took care of her.
Just when the matchmaker thought everything was going well, the man suddenly proposed: "I have a request, the two sides check each other's opening records and marriage inspections, since they are rushing to get married, then it is better to be open and honest, I don't know if you are willing?"
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Unexpectedly, this sentence made the woman's face change instantly: "What are you talking about?"
The man then explained that the reason for this was to give each other a better understanding of the past. Whether it is the previous relationship experience or the current physical state, after two people understand each other and recognize each other, the relationship can last longer.
The woman said that this kind of behavior is a sign of disrespect, and that if you love someone, you have to accept all of the other person, and if two people are together, do you have to leave each other because of some physical problems? If you can't trust, there's no need to be together.
So the two broke up unhappily and angrily scolded the man: I'm too tired to marry you!
Seeing that all this was changing so quickly, the matchmaker couldn't help but ask the man why he made such a request!
Unexpectedly, the man asked the matchmaker: "I gave her a 200,000 dowry, and her name was added to the house, and I only had these two requirements, do you think it is too much?"
This time, I asked the matchmaker, and she didn't know how to answer.
Netizens who watched this episode of the show left messages in the comment area
Netizen: Eight sedan chairs are carried by everyone's ladies, three books and six hires, and they are hired perfectly.
Netizen: At least prove that there is no infectious disease in the body! Both sides must be examined.
Some people also said: It's not too much, don't women ask for a house, a car, a deposit, and a high dowry? It is also reasonable for men to ask for a certificate of identity, which is also a tradition.
Of course, some netizens retorted, saying: For the sake of fairness, the man must also provide marriage inspection and love records, and it is unfair that a man cannot fall in love many times, but he asks a woman to be complete.
If the marriage examination of girls becomes the primary condition for men to choose a mate in the future, I don't know if the marriage rate will be affected by then.
And those couples who get married after the marriage examination will have emotional rifts because of their "distrust" of each other?
Therefore, the times have really changed, and future marriages may be polarized, on the one hand, there is mutual tolerance of free love, and on the other hand, there are clearly marked conditions, and the conditions meet the expectations of both parties to get married.
I don't know, this situation is good or bad for marriage!
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