Family style tutoring is the most valuable asset of a family and the best legacy for future generations. In order to thoroughly study, publicize and implement General Secretary Xi Jinping's important exposition on paying attention to the construction of family education and family style, and guide the cadres and masses to cultivate family and country feelings, cultivate good family style, and jointly create a civilized family, Inner Mongolia Civilization Network plans to launch the special topic of "Family Style and Family Education Inheritance". Today, I will tell you the story of Xiao Yan's family.
Xiao Yan's family, who lives in Quanshan Street, Jining District, Ulanqab City, is a big family of four generations, with well-behaved and lovely daughters, hard-working husbands, in-laws who have inherited the past and the next, and elderly grandmothers (mother-in-law's mother-in-law). Her husband, Qiao Jiadong, is an organization cadre in the Organization Department of the Ulanqab Municipal Party Committee, who works hard and has never complained. Xiao Yan is a cadre of the Ulanqab Taxation Bureau of the State Administration of Taxation, she has always kept in mind the mission of "gathering wealth for the country and collecting taxes for the people", and has done her job conscientiously, and has been rated as "outstanding civil servant", "outstanding communist party member" and "outstanding party worker" many times, and won the third-class merit twice. In their family, there are no quarrels, no calculations, no complaints, more filial piety and love, tolerance and harmony, and positivity. In 2022, Xiao Yan's family was rated as the third "Civilized Family" in the district.
Xiao Yan (second from left) family.
Firm love for the party and patriotism, dedication and dedication. Most of the family members are members of the Communist Party of China, accept the party's education and leadership, diligently contribute to the development of the cause of the party and the country, and serve the broad masses of the people enthusiastically. Qiao Jiadong's father is a rural doctor, rooted in rural health work for 42 years, silently working in ordinary posts, and treating countless diseases for the people. I remember that on Chinese New Year's Eve a few years ago, when the family was sitting around for a Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, a villager hurriedly knocked on the door, and it turned out that her husband had fallen into a ditch on a tricycle, and his arm was twisted and out of position. The next morning, the patient sent a few catties of home-grown white noodles, and took his father's hand and said, "Thank you so much for this Chinese New Year, otherwise you have to go to Jining to see a doctor." But the father politely refused the patient's wishes. There are too many such cases, Xiao Yan often jokes: "Dad is really a good doctor who serves the people, since I married into the family, I haven't seen my dad rest, and he is also on call outside of 8 hours of work, so I should award my dad a 'model worker' award." ”
Always adhere to filial piety and love for relatives, and keep a family in harmony. "Family and everything is prosperous" and "filial piety comes first", these ancient sayings summarize the true meaning of being a person and running a family. Grandpa passed away 10 years ago, and grandma has been taken care of by Xiao Yan's in-laws, especially in the past 5 years, in order to solve the inconvenience of living in a bungalow and for grandma to enjoy her old age in peace, Xiao Yan's mother-in-law moved into their small home with her mother-in-law. "Three women" get along in harmony, filial piety and love for relatives, mother-in-law accompanies grandma every day, takes care of daily life, bathes grandma once a week, leads two laps every day, and cooks grandma's favorite meals, which truly reflects the demonstration and role model of filial piety, and the family is happy.
Strict self-discipline, lead by example, and teach children scientifically. Parents are the mentors of their children, and the family is the first school of the children. In their home, there are more than 2,000 books of all ages, and the honor wall is full of large and small awards won by children. Since the child went to primary school, "watching TV" has been replaced by "reading books and learning", Xiao Yan herself used her spare time to study by herself to obtain the judicial examination and intermediate economist qualification, and her husband Qiao Jiadong has studied as an on-the-job graduate student. Under the guidance of their parents, children have developed the habit of reading since childhood, and have passed the Guzheng amateur grade 10 exam, and their academic performance is often ranked in the top few of the whole grade. Xiao Yan and Qiao Jiadong's families struggled together, grew together, made progress together, and felt the joy and happiness brought by struggle.
Always be polite and friends with your neighbors. It is difficult to quench the thirst of the near in the distant water, and the distant relatives are not as good as the close neighbors. Urban life is fast-paced, and the community is the home where everyone lives together. Xiao Yan actively participates in community and community activities, strictly implements the management system of the neighborhood committee and the management committee, especially during the period of normalized epidemic prevention and control. Teach children to be polite, warm and helpful, and get along harmoniously with their neighbors.
Family is everyone's starting point and foothold. Personal growth is inseparable from the nurturing and support of the family, to create a beautiful family environment and atmosphere, family members will have a sense of harmony, happiness, and can take the initiative to assume their own responsibility to the family, and actively promote the consolidation and development of this atmosphere. The happiness of every family will effectively promote the harmony and stability of the society, and the families of Xiao Yan and Qiao Jiadong will persevere and spare no effort to maintain the "small family" and protect "everyone".
(Source: Inner Mongolia Autonomous Region Civilization Office)
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