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What will happen to a person who always pretends to be rich and ostentatious?
Most of the time, they will be remembered and destroy their future.
As long as you are richer than others, you will become the target of the public, and it is doomed to be excluded, and only by occasionally pretending to be poor can you protect yourself and be invincible from now on.
Pretending to be poor is not really poor, but it shows that people are really confident and don't have to prove themselves through external things.
A person pretending to be poor in these three aspects shows that he is really hidden and very smart.
01: Pretend to be poor at class reunions to avoid being taken advantage of
Now class reunions have changed their taste, and they used to be for communicating feelings, but now they are all about taking advantage of each other.
Some people want to use your connections, some people use your resources, and some people don't want to develop you into potential customers so that they can make a lot of money.
How many people are eager to use their whole wealth to pretend to be wide once they participate in the class reunion, which is actually the stupidest part. It doesn't do these people any good to let them know that you have money, they may come up and share your value, and in the end you will have a hard time coping.
Only by occasionally pretending to be poor at the class reunion can you avoid the worries of others, even if you become a marginal figure in the class reunion, but so what? These people will no longer look at you, and you will be safe.
02: Pretend to be poor in the original family to avoid causing conflicts
On a certain platform, a blogger cried like this.
She has worked for many years and finally saved 150,000 yuan, and when she was about to use the money to travel around the world, her mother suddenly asked her to give all the money to her brother to get married.
She didn't expect her mother to be so partial, she wanted to go with all her money, she couldn't tear her face with her mother, but she didn't want to give this money, she was in a dilemma for a while, and it was extremely painful.
This is the dilemma that many people face in their original family, don't feel that all your relatives are for your good, many people are just staring at the little money in your pocket and want to take it for themselves.
Once you pretend to be broad, others will take advantage of you, and even move out of your parents to take your money, and you can't guard against it at all.
Even if fellow relatives did not do such a thing, you should not feel glad.
In case you pretend to be wide and provoke the jealousy of others, they will only alienate you.
In particular, there can be no distinction between high and low in a family, once the high and low are separated, the feelings will be dispersed, it is better to pretend to be poor occasionally and deal with them in a confused way, so as to maintain the basic feelings.
Unless it's a critical time when you can lend a hand, it's best not to show your wealth, it's all for your own good.
03: Pretend to be poor in front of the salesperson to avoid being disturbed
Many people have such troubles, those salesmen always come to the door again and again, tirelessly send messages, obviously they have refused, but they still don't give up.
In fact, this is because you have given them the opportunity and let them smell the business opportunity.
For example, if you reveal your wealth and attract them to constantly attack you, if you pretend to be poor from the beginning, others will think that you will not be able to buy their products, and they will naturally stop pestering you.
Pretending to be poor in front of these people is the only solution, don't think that they will look down on you, in fact, the look down on strangers really doesn't matter to us, they don't bother to take care of you, you are more pure.
Pretending to be poor is not to deceive people, but to avoid being taken advantage of by people with intentions.
People live for a lifetime, and occasionally pretend to be poor in these three aspects to live a better life, otherwise you will only cause trouble if you blindly show up, and finally be embarrassed.
One day you can avoid the whirlpool of humanity and only hold money in your hands, and you will really live to understand.
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