Recently, some netizens broke the news on social platforms that they met Huang Lei's family of five on the plane, and pointed out that Huang Lei and his daughter Huang Duoduo are very "big", and they are extremely dissatisfied with this. As soon as the post came out, it immediately sparked a heated discussion on the Internet.
According to the netizen, there were Huang Lei's father and daughter on the flight he took that day. After taking off, Huang Lei and Huang Duoduo frequently got up to go to the bathroom, and did not take the initiative to give up their seats to other passengers during the period.
Before landing, the crew broadcast a radio to remind passengers to take their seats, but Huang Yan's father and daughter still stood in the aisle and talked.
After that, the netizen wanted to go to the bathroom, but Huang Duoduo blocked his way, and Huang Duoduo didn't politely get out of the way. According to the netizen's description, Huang Duoduo "seems to treat others as nothing".
As soon as this post came out, it immediately attracted heated discussions among netizens. Many netizens said that what netizens said was true, and Huang Lei's father and daughter were indeed "big shelves".
They believe that as a public figure, Huang Lei should be polite and make a good impression, and should not be so impolite in public.
Some netizens also analyzed that when they see a star on the plane, they will inevitably have some unrealistic expectations, and once the star's performance does not meet their expectations, it is easy to feel disappointed.
However, there are also some more rational netizens who give different views. They pointed out that the various "impolite" behaviors of Huang Lei's father and daughter on the plane that netizens said were actually excusable.
For example, it is normal to be active on the plane, and you don't need to ask the passenger next to you to give up your seat every time you get up.
The fact that they did not take their seats immediately before landing may also be because the father and daughter still had a conversation that had not ended. As for not politely getting out of the way when the aisle meets, it may be because the aisle space is already small, and it is difficult for Huang Duoduo to dodge immediately.
These rational netizens said that it is normal to feel disappointed when they encounter celebrities in public and see that they do not meet their expectations or service standards.
But we also have to put ourselves in the shoes of others, celebrities are ordinary people after all, and it is impossible to consciously regard themselves as "public figures" from time to time. We should not treat others with oneself and ask others to abide by our own "service standards".
Coincidentally, this is not the first incident in which netizens complained that they encountered a celebrity on the plane. Some netizens broke the news before, saying that a certain actress had an arrogant attitude on the plane. It seems that the bridge of "Gao Fu Shuai" is being staged in reality.
In fact, whether it is the complaints of netizens or the justifications of other netizens, there is a certain amount of truth. It is understandable that netizens ask service stars to have a good public image and polite attitude, and celebrities should indeed pay attention to their manners.
But on the other hand, you can't ask too much for celebrities, you need to understand that they are also ordinary people, and they can't maintain their public personality all the time.
Maybe we just need to look at this event from a different perspective and mentality. You must know that everyone will have times when they are tired and bored, maybe Huang Lei and his daughter were not in a good mood at that time, and their attitude was not gentle enough in the face of sudden encounters.
It's not meant to be a shelf. In such a situation, we, as bystanders, may be able to be tolerant and understanding, giving space instead of rushing to criticize. This will make both parties feel better.
In fact, psychological research has found that in public places, when the number of people increases, individuals tend to avoid interaction, and this "social inhibition effect" may be more obvious in celebrities.
One is a physiological defensive response, and the other is also related to the desire to be alone. Chance encounters on airplanes are more likely to cause celebrities to have this kind of avoidance.
But on the other hand, celebrities and opinion leaders in the entertainment industry who are in the public eye should also be aware that their words and actions in public may have an impact on the general public.
Even if it is just a small move, it will be magnified and interpreted. Therefore, when dealing with such occasions, it is still necessary to pay attention to some basic manners to leave a good impression on the people.
In any case, I hope that everyone can know how to put themselves in the shoes of others in their daily life, be more tolerant, and be less critical and criticized. This will make our society warmer and more harmonious.
It is also hoped that celebrities will be aware of their social responsibilities and cooperate in creating a polite and friendly social atmosphere. I believe that as long as each of us can make a little change, our lives will be better.