My name is Liu Ming, and I am a 35-year-old ordinary office worker. I was born in a warm family, my parents were ordinary workers, and they were very caring for me and my brother. My wife Xiaoling and I were college sweethearts, we met on campus and fell in love with each other in college life. We are now married for five years and have a lovely daughter.
In our family, the wife is a cheerful, lively person who always has a smile on her face and adds a lot of joy to our lives. However, sometimes I also feel a little confused because she always hides her thoughts and doesn't want to share them with me.
One night, I was sitting on the couch with my wife watching TV, and I suddenly noticed that she had been frowning and seemed a little unhappy. I asked with concern, "What's wrong with you, honey?" and my wife sighed deeply, but didn't answer my question.
I knew she was a person who wasn't good at expressing her feelings, so I gently patted her on the shoulder and motioned for her to share her thoughts with me. My wife looked up, a hint of hesitation in her eyes, but finally decided to talk to me about her.
"Actually, sometimes, women have a lot of thoughts in their hearts, but it's not easy to talk to men. "For example, there are times when I want you to touch my hair, gently touch me, and give me a sense of security. But I'm too embarrassed to tell you. ”
When I heard this, I was moved in my heart, it turned out that my wife sometimes has such needs, but she is reluctant to say it directly. I gently took her hand and said softly, "My dear, whatever you think in the future, you can tell me, and I will try my best to satisfy you." ”
My wife smiled sweetly when she heard me, and I felt warm in my heart. At this time, a question suddenly occurred to me: "Then what else do you have that you haven't told me?" My wife smiled and said, "Actually, there are two other places, but I don't want to tell you yet." ”
I was amused by her and couldn't help laughing, I knew that maybe this was a kind of careful thinking on the part of women, and there were some things that they were willing to bear silently on their own, and were unwilling to say it to men. I decided that in the future, I would be more attentive to my wife's mood and take care of her with my love and tenderness.
Conclusion: Communication is a very important part of marriage. Sometimes, women have a lot of thoughts and feelings in their hearts, but it is not easy to talk to men. Respecting each other's feelings and understanding each other's feelings is the key to maintaining a harmonious marriage.
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