Is it so difficult for a child's homework? Could it be that a master's student who graduated from a regular university even had such a hard time tutoring a homework problem in the second level of primary school, and in a hurry, he was even admitted to the hospital!
But what I never expected was that after falling asleep at night, Guan Ling's heart suddenly became uncomfortable, and in the end it directly became angina pectoris and had difficulty breathing.
I rushed to the hospital early the next morning to have my heart checked. Fortunately, the results were good, and the doctor told her that she was only a little thickened intima and had not yet formed any plaques. This also made Guan Ling feel relieved.
This incident quickly rushed to the hot search as soon as it was announced on the Internet, and netizens fried the pot in the comment area!
Viewpoint 1: The pressure of education
- Netizens commented: "Now children's education is the biggest headache for parents, and when children come back from school every day, it is time to test parents." Guan Ling's situation is a warning."
- Netizens said: "Seeing Guan Ling hospitalized for tutoring children's homework, I really feel the same way. Parents pay too much for their children's education, and stay with their children until about 11 o'clock every night"
- Netizens said: "Guan Ling is really not easy, he has to work, take care of the children, tutor homework, and turn the shaft"
Point 2: It can't be forced
- Netizens believed: "Every child's learning ability and understanding style are different, Guan Ling may be too demanding when tutoring children, and sometimes you need to give children some time and space to understand by themselves." ”
- A netizen said: "I think parents should let go appropriately, let their children learn to complete their homework independently, and don't sit in front of their children, which invisibly causes pressure on their children." ”
- Netizens left a message: "Seeing that Guan Ling collapsed because the child didn't understand the question, and estimated that he didn't understand it for a while and was confused, I want to say that education requires patience and methods"
- Netizens said: "Today's children's homework is so difficult that even parents can't stand it!"
- Netizens think: "Teachers should assign more meaningful homework, so as not to make children and parents so miserable." ”
Point 3: Expectations are too high
- Netizens said: "In today's society, the burden on parents is too great, on the one hand, they have to work to make money, and when they return home, they have to be responsible for their children's education." Guan Ling's situation is a microcosm that needs to be reflected on and changed. ”
- Netizens commented: "I feel sad to see Guan Ling hospitalized because of tutoring children. Parents are not omnipotent and should not take on too much responsibility and pressure. ”
- Netizens said: "Is this the legendary 'cophobia'?"
Viewpoint 4: Mental health
- Netizens left a message: "Family education is very important, but you can't ignore your own mental health. Guan Ling's incident reminds us that we must take care of ourselves while educating our children. ”
- Netizens believed: "Family education is a long-term process that requires patience and persistence. Take care of your mental health and avoid excessive anxiety affecting yourself and your family. ”
- A netizen said: "My child is too, and every time he tutors homework, he has to be half angry. ”
These views reflect netizens' views and attitudes towards the Guan Ling incident, and also reflect netizens' concerns and thoughts on issues such as the pressure of education and mental health.
I find this topic very interesting and valuable to discuss. At the same time, I also hope that parents can give their children more space and freedom, so that children can grow up healthy and happy.
Finally, I would like to say a word to worried parents: don't let homework become a generation gap between you and your children, learn to communicate and understand, and let your children feel your love and care.
It is reported that Guan Ling, who has a master's degree from Beijing Institute of Technology, became popular with the sitcom "I Love My Home". She is optimistic and intelligent, has a high talent for acting, and now at the age of 42, she has a son and a daughter.
What do you think about your child's education as a parent?