## If someone borrows these things from you, no matter how good the relationship is, you have to refuse!
### Description:
It is very important for friends to help and share with each other, but sometimes we also need to learn to say no. Whether it's because you're in a bad mood, afraid of damaging an item, or something else, don't feel like saying no. Here are a few of the situations I'd like to share with you, and why you can choose to refuse to lend these things, even if you have a good relationship.
### Body:
**1. Personal items:**
"Wow! This lipstick is so beautiful! Can you lend it to me?"
Of course, sisters have to support each other, but personal belongings are more intimate things. Everyone's lipstick can be inflicted with little bacteria on the lipstick, and although you are a good friend of mine, I still don't recommend you to share it with my lipstick. I recommend you go to the counter to try it out or buy your own.
**2. Expensive items:**
"Brother, can you lend me that cool motorcycle of yours for a day?"
My motorcycle is really cool, but it's also a property that I hold dear very much. Although we have a good relationship, I am still not able to lend you money for safety reasons and a sense of responsibility. If you really want to experience the cool of a motorcycle, I recommend renting one or considering buying your own.
**3. Important documents and documents:**
"Little sister, can you lend me your ID card?"
Everyone's ID card is a very important personal document. It involves our identity, rights and personal information security. No matter how good we are, we can't borrow and disclose other people's personal information at will, so as not to cause unnecessary trouble and risk. Therefore, it is important to take care of your ID documents to avoid selling, losing and losing them.
**4. Precious Memory Items:**
"Lao Tie, can you lend me the album you traveled with back then, I want to reminisce!"
Photographs record our fond memories and they are valuable treasures. Although this album contains some beautiful moments from our shared experiences, I am not able to lend it to you out of the need to protect them. However, we can sit down together, savor the good things of the past, reminisce together, and enjoy those unforgettable moments.
**5. Intimate Items:**
"Sister, can you lend me your diary to see?
A journal is often a place where we record our inner secrets and stories, and they embody our true emotions and thoughts. No matter how good our relationship is, I can't show my intimate story to others. I hope you can understand, and please protect your own privacy and confidentiality.
### Conclusion:
In interpersonal interactions, rejecting someone else's request can make us feel a little awkward and uncomfortable. But good friends should be able to understand and respect each other's choices. I would like to take this opportunity to urge everyone to take care of each other and learn to think from each other's point of view. Whether you are borrowing something or borrowing money, you need to be cautious and rational. Only in this way can we maintain good interpersonal relationships and grow together.
*The above are all personal suggestions, the situation varies from person to person, please deal with it yourself according to the actual situation. *