Preface
In this age of excellence, we often focus too much on our children's academic performance and neglect our own physical and mental health. A well-known actor suddenly had angina and couldn't breathe when tutoring her children's homework, which made people wake up: what made her on the verge of collapse? It turns out that she is not only a school bully, but also a conscientious mother, her son can cook by herself, and her daughter is fully talented... And this celebrity mother has also gained valuable life inspiration in the hospital, how will she rebuild a new concept and show a unique parenting philosophy?
The child star debuted in a sitcom and became popular
A person can become famous with strength at such a young age as 11 years old, and he is definitely the pride of the sky. In those days, the competition in the entertainment industry was already quite brutal, but she still stood out from the many children and became famous in one fell swoop. Is it her natural cute appearance or outstanding acting skills? This has aroused the curiosity of countless people.
She is Guan Ling, who played the role of "Jia Yuanyuan" in the well-known sitcom "I Love My Home", she was lively, cheerful, smart and clever, and she left a deep impression in the hearts of the audience. Who would have thought that this cute little girl would later...
Yes, she not only continued to embark on the road of acting, but also had a prosperous career, winning awards large and small years after year, which can be described as a popular little flower. But just when people thought she was going to make her all the way, a sensational news came out.
Recently, Guan Ling revealed that he had experienced a "thrilling" thing, which made everyone look sideways. As a well-known actor who is active on the screen, is she in good health? What does she say about herself? The wonderful details are unfolding one by one...
He was admitted to the hospital with a sudden "heart attack".
When people reach middle age, most of them will encounter one physical condition or another. But when a person who has always had a tough body suddenly has a health problem, it's shocking. When the 42-year-old Guan Ling celebrated his birthday, everything seemed to be calm. But not long after, a sudden "accident" completely broke this tranquility.
The reason is just because of tutoring children with homework at home? Doesn't it sound unbelievable? But there is no doubt that Guan Ling suddenly had heart-wrenching symptoms because of this small parental responsibility.
At that time, she was just patiently discussing writing skills for composition and reading comprehension with her children, but just before going to bed that night, bursts of heart-rending pain came, and Guan Ling felt unprecedented pain... Anatogina and she couldn't breathe! She had never had such a terrible experience.
In the face of this sudden change, Guan Ling, as a mother, was not only worried, but also worried. After all, there are two young children in the family, and if something really happens to her, the whole family will be turned upside down. So the next morning, she immediately rushed to the hospital, determined to find out.
What happened to this former child star? The symptoms may sound like a sign of heart disease, but she is just tutoring her children at home! Could this little thing alone make her bedridden? What is the reality, there are more fierce things to come
The results of the examination are safe
Just when tens of thousands of families across the country were anxious, the former child star Guan Ling underwent a series of examinations in the hospital. What will happen in the end?
Surprisingly, at the doctor, Guan Ling not only did not get a "dangerous" diagnosis, but was made a small joke: "It can't be diagnosed with heart disease!"
It turned out that although the symptoms seemed dangerous, the test results were not much of a problem. The doctor told her that the carotid artery lining was slightly thickened, and plaque had not formed for the time being, which was not a major problem.
Everything is under control, which is undoubtedly the best news for Guan Ling and her family. The crux of the matter doesn't seem to be fully unraveled, though...
In front of the doctor, Guan Ling told the reason for his physical condition - just tutoring the child's homework. After hearing this, the doctor shook his head and seemed to come up with some unique insights into the child's academic performance.
What is that? Let's sell it for now. After all, for the vast majority of parents, their children's learning is a top priority. Once upon a time, for an assignment, they were anxious, thunderous, and even arguing.
Now, however, an expert and scholarly figure has stepped forward and offered a new perspective on the matter of "learning". He said, is it really that important for girls on campus to get their grades, and when our physical health is threatened, should we think twice?
Let's stay here for now. A question has been solved, but a deeper question has emerged. This is like opening a new window of vision, let us all look forward to what kind of revelation Guan Ling and her partners will bring.
"Frustration" in tutoring homework
Now, let's focus on Guan Ling's own situation. As a knowledgeable intellectual, she was actually "stumped" by two elementary school students?
Everyone knows that Guan Ling is not an ordinary person. She has been a talented girl since she was a child, and she made her debut on the screen at the age of 11 and won the love of countless audiences. What's even more remarkable is that when she grew up, she was not blinded by fame and fortune, but always maintained the excellent quality of being diligent and studious.
Beijing Institute of Technology's bachelor's degree in international trade, no problem! Master's degree in management and economics, poor ni has also gotten it! All the way from childhood fame to high education, Guan Ling is simply a portrayal of a model scholar.
But such a knowledgeable person would feel helpless and frustrated when facing his two children? In front of everyone, Guan Ling bluntly laughed at himself: "I was stumped by two elementary school students. "
It turned out that she was only in such a dilemma when she was tutoring her children to write essays and understand reading materials. This made countless parents feel empathy in their hearts: "Tutoring homework is really sad!"
In the face of the natural "roadblock" of children, even doctoral students who are rich and wealthy are inevitably confused. After all, every child's nature is an innate personality that is not afraid of heaven and earth, and in the face of their straightforward questions, no one will inevitably be speechless.
Therefore, when the friends in the mother's group saw Guan Ling confiding in their hearts like this, they all expressed their empathy. For them, children's homework has always been a hard bone, and Guan Ling's "collapse" is completely understandable.
So, how did Guan Ling tutor the two little angels in the family? What specific knowledge points made her feel too tricky? More importantly, looking at the interaction of this family, can we learn some valuable experience? Now, let's continue to look down...
A parenting philosophy that teaches by example over words
As a mother, on the road of educating her children, Guan Ling can be said to be walking between two extremes.
On the one hand, she has always been tightly controlled and meticulous about the children's performance. Even a small essay or reading question is enough to make her difficult and fall into "frustration". But on the other hand, she has always advocated the concept of "teaching by example is more important than teaching" in her life, focusing on comprehensively cultivating children's life ability.
For example, Ji Guanggun, the eldest son of Guan Ling's family, can cook by himself at a young age. During the winter and summer vacations, he arranged the food for a family of four. Not only is the son inseparable from the spatula, but what is even more admirable is that he is well-behaved and sensible, not at all as naughty and flamboyant as other children.
And Guan Ling's secretly good intentions are what his son is today. She knows that grades alone are not enough, so she has led her children to various interest classes from an early age in order to develop multiple abilities.
Whether it is piano, chess, calligraphy and painting or ball sports, Guan Ling is patiently by his side, following the good and instructive, teaching by example. She firmly believes that only by all-round development can children be able to shine in society in the future.
"Of course, it is important to get a good grade, but what is more valuable than a score in life is the ability to survive independently and the love of life. As a star who has lived in the spotlight since she was a child, she may have long been downset about "false fame". Following the pace of her thoughts, it is not difficult to find that Guan Ling's education of children actually contains a more profound philosophy of life...
What kind of philosophy is it that is worth each of us to experience? And what kind of inspiration will it bring to Guan Ling, a "mother who is a top student"? Let's wait and see, and continue to explore.
Valuable lesson: Take care of your physical and mental health
Luckily, she was quick to draw conclusions. Guan Ling openly and honestly warned everyone to learn to relax their minds and not always focus on the tip of the bull's horns. After all, each of us has limited energy and physical strength, and if all the anxiety and negative energy are consumed on children's learning, it is tantamount to putting the cart before the horse, and the final loss will only be oneself.
"Enjoy life and pay attention to the present" - these eight words have become Guan Ling's philosophical life motto. It may seem ordinary, but it is full of valuable lessons she learned from this experience. This is exactly what she wants to share with everyone, guiding everyone to face everything with a more positive attitude.
After all, no one wants to repeat Guan Ling's experience. But if we are in the same predicament, is it so easy to reform ourselves? Life is so full of unknowns and challenges, let us all hope that Guan Ling can show us a new path.
epilogue
Everyone's life journey is destined to be full of thorns, but as long as we have a yearning for a better life, we will definitely be able to bloom again under the sun. After experiencing physical and mental exhaustion, Guan Ling finally regained her love for life, and she advocated "enjoying the moment and paying attention to physical and mental health". No matter how difficult it is on the road of parenting, you must live for yourself; No matter how much pressure and challenge, we must continue to learn and move forward bravely with a more positive attitude. The meaning of life is not how much to change others, but the unremitting pursuit of self.
What do you think about being calm when tutoring your child's homework?