"What does marriage bring to a woman?"
It is often said that the divorce rate of the older generation is low, but as everyone knows, some people have endured it with a lifetime of patience......
On April 11, an 80-year-old grandmother on the Internet said in an interview that she did not miss the death of her wife, and the video exploded, which aroused heated discussions among many netizens.
"Are you sad about the death of your wife?"
"Don't be sad, I really can't stand serving him, I've endured him for a lifetime....."
I don't know how much pain this grandmother has experienced, and she can say that she is not sad about the death of her wife, and even feels a little relieved.
Grandma said that she was in her 30s and unmarried, and her mother persuaded her to get married, otherwise she would have no one to take care of her when she was old.
Later, I met a man through the introduction of others, the other party was a teacher, I thought it would be a reasonable person, and my grandmother didn't care that he earned less than herself.
But who would have thought that after marriage, he would suffer a lot of grievances.
"As for him, he doesn't quarrel with you, he is cold and violent all his life, and once he ignored me for about a year. ”
Grandma narrated in a trembling voice, but she didn't know that behind such a voice, it may be the pain she endured all her life......
Regarding the death of her wife, her grandmother just felt that there was one less person in the family, and now she was the only one left in the family, and the children had settled abroad, and she planned to go to a nursing home.
When my grandmother was young, her mother persuaded her to get married, afraid that she would have no one to take care of her when she was old, but in the end, she got married and suffered so many years of grievances, but she had to take care of her husband, and now that her husband is gone, she still has no one to take care of her.
So, I want to ask: what is the meaning of marriage to women?
I once saw such a video on the Internet, the old couple quarreled, and the grandfather suddenly got angry and threw the bowl when he was eating.
Seeing this scene, the grandmother didn't say a word, nor did she dodge, and then silently cleaned up the mess, changed her clothes and cooked again, and even helped her grandfather fill a bowl.
Such a video does not hesitate to make everyone feel sad, and I don't know how many such moments my grandmother has experienced every day after marriage......
In the eyes of secular people, it seems that a lifetime of quarrels and quarrels has passed like this, but grandma has also suffered a lifetime of anger, and all kinds of sadness are only known to grandma herself.
There are many marriages of the older generation like this......
On the street, the old man and the old grandmother were angry and quarreled, and when they raised their hands, they made it look like they were going to hit the old grandmother, and the grandmother hid back in fear.
But Grandpa still didn't stop his move, with a vicious expression on his face.
On the lively street, there were many people around, but the old man didn't care about his grandmother's face at all.
Grandma's scared appearance of hiding back made many people feel extremely distressed......
In the heavy snow, the old couple walked together in the wind and snow, but the old grandfather was alone with an umbrella, and the umbrella only covered himself throughout the whole process, and did not lean a little towards the grandmother.
Grandma also knew that the umbrella would not face her, so she went out with a hat.
Judging from the twisting footprints, grandma also wanted to get close to the umbrella to avoid the snow, but the footprints were all seen by grandpa again.
Grandma may not have been drenched in the snow today, she may have been drenched in this snow for a lifetime......
There is such a passage on the Internet: "She came to the world for a trip, first lived at her father's house for a few years, then went to her husband's house to borrow for a few years, and finally settled down at her son's house, like a guest in this life, and finally turned into a fly in the wind, duckweed on the water......"
On the Internet, a netizen saw a thinly dressed grandmother on the street, standing helplessly in the cold wind, and went up to inquire only to find out that she had quarreled with her 90-year-old husband at home and was beaten out.
At that time, the netizen persuaded the grandmother to drive to her son's house to live, but the grandmother said that she had the smell of an old man and was unwilling to get into the netizen's car.
also said that his son didn't have much money and didn't want to drag the child down.
Many women of the older generation endured it, because some had no choice and were powerless to resist......
Therefore, I sincerely advise young people who are going to get married now to choose marriage carefully,
If the other half of your life chooses the wrong one, every step for the rest of your life may be wrong, and you will taste all the suffering......
So what do you think about this?
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