From becoming famous at a young age to being infamous, and finally becoming a monk, it is hard to imagine that this incident will happen to a person, and this person is the famous host and actor of Hong Kong's smash hit in the last century - Hong Chaofeng.
And what is even more unexpected is that the person who exposed Hong Chaofeng's negative scandal is not someone else, it is Bao Yongqin, the ex-wife of Hong Kong wealthy businessman Liu Luanxiong......
An ordinary girl's counterattack
The first time I heard the name Bao Yongqin, I got it from the Hong Kong gossip media newspapers, and at that time, it was overwhelmingly reported that Liu Luanxiong ruthlessly abandoned his wife, regardless of his wife's breast cancer, lingering in flowers, etc.
Although they have not met, they are very sympathetic to this woman, but after learning about Bao Yongqin's past experience, in addition to sympathy, there is more admiration and sighing.
It turned out that Liu Luanxiong abandoned not only his original wife, but also a partner who accompanied him from downfall to success, which really responded to the popular saying "love to the end is all by conscience".
Speaking of which, Bao Yongqin's family background is okay, her father works in the customs, her mother is a standard housewife, the husband and wife have a total of 5 children, and she is the fourth, a family of seven lives in a crowded house in Hong Kong, although it is a little poor, but it is also warm and happy.
However, when Bao Yongqin was 9 years old, her father was rushed to the hospital for treatment due to a stroke, and since then their family's financial conditions have plummeted, and they only rely on their mother to do odd jobs to make ends meet.
The hardships of life did not knock down this strong ordinary girl, on the contrary, Bao Yongqin began to realize that only by studying could she change her fate and let her family live a good life, so she became angry and worked hard, and finally was admitted to the University of Waterloo in Canada with excellent grades.
Before that, Bao Yongqin used her spare time to work part-time at KFC for a year, and finally earned her own tuition, and insisted on working and studying in college......
Perhaps God heard the girl's call, so he arranged for her a prince charming with a lofty and wealthy family, that is, her ex-husband who made Bao Yongqin love and hate, Liu Luanxiong.
From 1973 to 1992, the two quickly fell in love and got married, at that time, Liu Luanxiong, who was not favored by his father and the family business, started a new chapter of entrepreneurship with the help of his new wife Bao Yongqin, and finally became a billionaire after many years.
And the first capital of Liu Luanxiong's entrepreneurship was that Bao Yongqin wore out her mouth and persuaded her mother to mortgage the house to the bank, which led to all the later things.
From the heartbeat of his youth, to his comrades-in-arms who share life and death, to his marriage in name only, in just 15 years, Liu Luanxiong has long been tired of pillow people after gaining extremely high social status and wealth.
From an ordinary girl to a billionaire woman, Bao Yongqin's success is obviously irreproducible, although the failed marriage made her exhausted, but at this time, Hong Chaofeng appeared......
It is salvation and an abyss
Many people may have never heard of the name Hung Chaofeng, but when you see that face, you will feel very familiar, because in the Hong Kong entertainment industry in the last century, he was not only a host with first-class field control ability, but also a golden supporting role in film and television dramas.
What's even more rare is that Hong Chaofeng is a top student who graduated from the Department of Journalism of the University of Hong Kong Chinese and the Department of Music of the University of Hong Kong.
Seeing this, some people may subconsciously feel that a person like Hong Chaofeng must be from a famous family to be able to have such a proud achievement, but in fact, he and Bao Yongqin have very similar life experiences, perhaps because of this, the two will cherish each other very much.
Hong Chaofeng moved to Hong Kong with his family when he was very young, and in his impression, his parents went out early and returned late every day, and their clothes and every corner of the home were full of fishy smell.
Fish balls, a delicacy that many coastal people like, is the means of survival of Hong Chaofeng's family, Hong's father relied on this craft to catch fish balls day and night, and sold them to wholesalers living in Kwun Tong and other places in Lam Tin, so as to feed a family of 8 people.
Facts have proved that God will never disappoint everyone who works hard, the year Hong Chaofeng graduated from primary school, the family's economic situation gradually improved, and even on his family's birthday, or every holiday, he can eat fresh abalone.
Later, he went to the University of Hong Kong to study vocal music because of the recommendation of his teacher, which laid a solid foundation for him to become a TV host in the future.Chinese
In addition to the experience of poverty when he was a child, in fact, Hong Chaofeng did not suffer too much, especially in terms of career development, which can be said to be quite smooth, handsome appearance, solid professional skills, and finally allowed him to successfully join the TV station, and became a smash hit host and artist in the Hong Kong entertainment industry with his super popularity.
However, the glamorous on the surface is all for others to see, Hong Chaofeng knows very well in his heart that he is not happy, although he got married and had children at the urging of his parents early, and married Bai Yueguang's girlfriend in college, but he always felt that something was missing, and his heart was empty.
It is undeniable that success in the secular sense has given Hong Chaofeng more power to choose freely, and he has also treated his wife sincerely for many years, mixing oil in honey, and even named his son Hong Ye, because his wife's name is Ye Guihao.
But this relationship never filled the gap in his heart, and it wasn't until Hong Chaofeng met a like-minded American man that he suddenly realized that what he had been longing for was ......
After a few more years, Ye Guihao also noticed that Hong Chaofeng had no nostalgia for this family, although she felt puzzled and angry, but for the sake of the next few decades, she still decided to divorce, which would be good for each other.
On the other hand, when Bao Yongqin was stiff with Liu Luanxiong, she was suddenly diagnosed with breast cancer, and after half a year of electrotherapy and chemotherapy, she was already emaciated, not only her hair fell out, but even her proud beautiful face disappeared, and it was false to say in her heart that she was not desperate.
But as long as she thought of Liu Luanxiong's Yingying Yanyan and his ruthlessness towards herself, a fire ignited in Bao Yongqin's heart, which made her survive the difficult chemotherapy period and signed a divorce agreement during her cancer treatment, which shows that she is not a weak woman who can be defeated by difficulties and setbacks.
However, God didn't seem to intend to let go of this woman who had gone through ups and downs, not long after she finally defeated breast cancer, lung cancer was diagnosed again in 1995, and at the same time she broke up with her then-boyfriend Xiao Yongfeng.
Time came to 1998, Bao Yongqin was invited to participate in an interview show, it just so happened that the host was Hong Chaofeng, because the two had similar growth experiences, and they also suffered emotional injuries, and they were confused and hesitant on the way to find love, so they hit it off and soon fell in love.
Is it salvation or the abyss? If you think about it, there seems to be no right answer to the question of feelings......
Fall off the altar
Although it was rumored that Hong Chaofeng was with Bao Yongqin because of money, according to his own interview later, he was a famous host with an annual salary of 2 million at that time, and his life was worry-free, and he couldn't find a rich woman older than him to support him.
In any case, the two do have a sweet past, but they can't hide their personalities and unsuitability in all aspects, and they finally broke up, and even broke up.
One clamored to disclose the secrets of Bao Yongqin and Liu Luanxiong, and even asked for a breakup fee of 1.1 billion, and the other broke the news that Hong Chaofeng was a bisexual person who played with feelings...... Love to such an extent, I don't know if the two of them will be in a trance when they are in a development conference, how did they come together with such a person in the first place?
And just when a group of netizens were immersed in the atmosphere of eating melons, it was immediately revealed that the news of Bao Yongqin and Hong Chaofeng's low-key reunion was revealed, such a shocking reversal, people can't help but suspect that there is still a relationship between them, but is this really the case?
Sure enough, the two broke up again half a year later, as for the reason, the outside world is not clear, only know that after the sexual orientation was exposed, and Bao Yongqin's responsibility Hong Chaofeng also had a foreign boyfriend in the mainland during his relationship with him.
As a public figure, he should have brought more positive and positive influence and effects to fans and the public, but Hong Chaofeng obviously didn't think so, he was trapped in the whirlpool of so-called sincere love and couldn't extricate himself, and once wondered if there was something wrong with his psychology and spirit.
Of course, the breakup with Bao Yongqin was not decent, and this poor woman finally died of illness, this news was another heavy blow to Hong Chaofeng, at that time he did not realize that he would also suffer almost exactly the same torture as his ex-girlfriend......
With the exposure of negative news about Hong Chaofeng's harassment of female reporters and shooting sexy women's photos, he went from a smash hit artist to a street rat, and was later diagnosed with bipolar disorder, followed by lymphoma.
And seeing Hong Chaofeng so down, I can't help but remind people of Andy Lau, the king of heaven, who once said frankly in an interview: If you have a good character, your art is good, whether you are popular or not, you have just entered the industry or have been in the industry for 30 years, as long as your character is still there, I think everyone is the same.
Think about it carefully, doesn't what happened to Hong Chaofeng just show that Andy Lau's words are not wrong at all?
It is often said that adversity sees the truth, and when Hong Chaofeng's career fell to a low point and he was suffering from cancer, his ex-wife and son took the initiative to take care of him, and tried every means to treat him and help him get out of the predicament, which also became the only light to save Hong Chaofeng in that dark time.
At that time, Hong Chaofeng had been rated as the "Four Crazy Kings" with Lan Jieying and others because of all kinds of almost crazy behaviors, but under the guidance of his ex-wife and relatives, he gradually realized that he could not go on like this, so he actively cooperated with the treatment, and even published two autobiographies "After the Wind and Rain" and "No Wind and Rain" during the anti-cancer period.
Under the influence of his friends, this former popular host, who was hurt and confused, finally decided to become a monk and devote himself to Buddha, taking this opportunity to repay the bitter fruits he had committed in the past.
On the other hand, it was only when he recited the scriptures in the temple that Hong Chaofeng could feel that he was alive, that his soul was purified and sublimated, and in the following years, he had three brief ordination practices in Thailand and found his truest self.
"I want to live an ordinary life, love people with my soul, and be loved."
This is what Hong Chaofeng said later in an interview, so it seems that he has probably found his own meaning and direction in life, which can be regarded as a blessing in misfortune.
It is worth mentioning that in 2020, Hong Chaofeng announced that he would come out in a high-profile manner, although he is over sixty years old, he still firmly believes that love will favor him, but I don't know, when he dreams back at midnight, will he think of his ex-wife who was hurt by him, and the Bao Yongqin who died of cancer and loved and hated him?
epilogue
Everything is fate, not by anyone, everyone in the world suffers, only people cross by themselves. I hope that everyone can find hope in pain when encountering difficulties and setbacks, as long as they have walked this road without help, the future will be flat!
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Liu Luanxiong was originally paired with Bao Yongqin: A rich woman, or a virtuous helper?The Paper 2020-07-04 07:50
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