Hong Chaofeng's life was tragic
Hong Chaofeng was born into an ordinary fisherman's family, and his family was poor. In order to escape the poverty of their hometown, his parents decided to take a desperate gamble and take the family to take the risk of smuggling into Hong Kong to earn a living.
Unfortunately, the good times did not last long, and they were still unable to establish themselves in Hong Kong, so they could only set up street stalls to make a living by selling fish balls.
As a result, the young Hong Chaofeng was often ridiculed by his classmates, and the contempt and discrimination of various eyes were deeply rooted in his young heart. Gradually, Hong Chaofeng became withdrawn and introverted and had low self-esteem.
After school, he no longer wants to play with his classmates, but squats alone on the side of the street to help his parents, selling pot after pot of fish balls. A child who should be carefree at that age realized the hardships of life early.
Although living in poverty, Hong Chaofeng's parents did not give up their expectations for their children. They kept giving encouragement to Hong Chaofeng, hoping that he would change his fate by learning Xi and not have to follow their old path again.
This has become the driving force to support Hong Chaofeng's progress, and he is determined to let his family live a good life through his own efforts.
洪朝丰高考上名校，名利双收
At the age of 18, Hung was admitted to the best university in Hong Kong, the Chinese University of Hong Kong, and studied in the popular journalism department, determined to become a diplomatic reporter. In college, he was studious, dabbled in a wide range of knowledge, and actively participated in various extracurricular activities, such as the campus choir.
After graduating successfully in four years, with excellent academic performance, Hong Chaofeng entered the TV station as he wished and began his glamorous hosting career.
After accumulating a certain amount of popularity on the TV station, Hong Chaofeng switched to a radio station with a higher listening rate and hosted his own program. He is good at grasping the psychology of the audience, and innovatively set up a "singles club" column to explore some taboo topics in depth.
This made his show unique and its popularity skyrocketed. It is said that 1 in 9 out of a population of 6 million people in Hong Kong at that time was his listener and fan.
While his career reached its peak, Hong Chaofeng also began to actively get involved in other fields. He starred in a TV series and had emotional scenes with the popular Huadan Faye Wong; also continues to appear on various variety shows.
For a time, whether in the audio-visual range or in the entertainment industry, Hong Chaofeng has become a household name. However, behind this, there is a secret that no one knows.
The worries of married life
In order to hide his same-sex orientation, Hong Chaofeng held hands with his high school girlfriend Ye Guihao during college. The two went from being a campus couple until they entered the marriage hall.
But the real family life is very different from Hong Chaofeng's imagination.
The triviality and monotony of married life began to erode him, and the dull days continued to wear down his patience. What's worse is that the disease of bipolar disorder began to attack quietly at this time.
The mental pressure is accumulating day by day, and Hong Chaofeng feels like a volcano that will erupt at any time.
One day six years later, Ye Guihao filed for divorce. She claimed that married life had seriously hindered her personal development and could no longer be sustained. Hong Chaofeng did not show much reluctance in this regard, and even breathed a sigh of relief.
Because he has quietly fallen in love with an American male orchestrator, he is worried about how to come out to his family.
After the divorce, Hong Chaofeng returned to being single. He can't wait to start a new life and live with his three boyfriends one after another. But at the same time, because of the long-term suppression of his true desires, his emotional problems have also intensified.
This became the crux of a series of absurd things that he did in the future.
Meet the year of the rich woman and the tiger
In 1999, 39-year-old Hong Chaofeng was at a turning point in his career and life. One day, he received an arrangement from his boss to interview Bao Yongqin, a Hong Kong female entrepreneur and rich woman.
This seemingly ordinary work task has achieved the most mysterious love in his life.
Bao Yongqin is the ex-wife of former wealthy businessman Liu Luanxiong, she not only has a prominent family background, but also has a net worth of billions after starting her own business. It's a pity that her love life is not satisfactory, and she unfortunately suffered from breast cancer and had a bad fate.
During the interview that day, Hong Chaofeng found that the woman in front of him was extremely empty and lonely. She looked at Hong Chaofeng with eager eyes, as if she wanted to find solace from this hairy boy.
After the interview, the two began to contact frequently. Bao Yongqin took the initiative to invite Hong Chaofeng to her mansion for a small gathering.
After going back and forth, the two fell in love. Differences in age, family background, and identity seem to have become the spice of this relationship. Sometimes they meet in private, sometimes they appear in public.
The burning flame of love is consuming the few lives that Bao Yongqin has left.
Just 11 months later, during a trip to Europe, the two had a big quarrel and broke up. This cross-border love became a topic of gossip among Hong Kong people at that time.
Bao Yongqin died, and Hong Chaofeng fell into the abyss
In 2003, Bao Yongqin's cancer recurred, and in the end, she was unable to save her life. Before she died, she was confused, and repeatedly chanted Hong Chaofeng's name from her hospital bed. At this moment, the man who once loved her was caught in his own spiritual whirlpool and could not do anything.
The news of Bao Yongqin's death was a huge blow to Hong Chaofeng. He fell into an unprecedented depression, drank heavily all day, and was unable to function. Once upon a time, the pillar with infinite scenery has now become a strange person in the eyes of the public.
Family and friends were concerned about his unusual behavior and repeatedly advised him to see a psychiatrist, but were all refused. Finally, during a severe emotional outburst, Hong Chaofeng was admitted to the psychiatric ward of the hospital for 25 days of forced treatment.
In the past 10 years, Hong Chaofeng has been fighting against his heart. He sought help from Buddhism and meditation to try to regulate his emotions and face life anew. The son gave him monthly living expenses, which became his only source of income.
The long road to inner salvation is far from over. Greater suffering awaits him at the moment.
Tongue cancer made Hong Chaofeng feel painful
Just after Hong Chaofeng passed the lowest ten years of his life, new catastrophes followed. In 2017, he was diagnosed with tongue cancer and needed to remove two-thirds of his tongue.
This is tantamount to a bolt from the blue for a media person who eats by talking.
Hong Chaofeng became a disabled person. The remaining 60% of his speech function also seriously affected his work and life. Eating and swallowing are all problems, and there is a danger of choking at any time.
Every day he struggled with pain, and his whole life was like being beaten back to the beginning, and he had to Xi how to live again.
"I really didn't live as much as I died, and even had suicidal thoughts. Hong Chaofeng later recalled that period and was heartbroken.
Fortunately, in the most difficult time, his ex-wife Ye Guihao stood up again and took care of him through the difficulties. Not only that, but the son also gave financial help. The support given to him by his relatives has become the motivation to live.
Hong Chaofeng became a monk in his later years and appeared in love again
Hong Chaofeng, who has experienced ups and downs in life, made a shocking decision at the age of 60. He was ordained a monk and went to a temple in Thailand to practice penance.
The days at the temple were peaceful and peaceful, and Hong Chaofeng lived a life without contention. He put aside all the emotional baggage of fame and fortune in the past, and seems to have found peace in life.
Two years later, however, he suddenly announced that he had decided to return to the world and return to earth. Because during his temple practice, he met someone special. This is a man many years younger than him, and the two fall in love at first sight.
Hong Chaofeng declared that this is the real soul mate of the other half of his life. The other party gave him great moral support and rekindled his fighting spirit in life.
"I can finally leave the past behind and really start a new life. Hong Chaofeng said. He wants to spend the rest of his life with the people he loves and no longer be haunted by the shadows of his past.
After experiencing illness and the brink of death, Hong Chaofeng gained new vitality. He is determined to live in the moment and enjoy every moment he is currently with his lover.