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Zhao Benshan: The eldest son made his heart ache, the eldest daughter made him feel guilty, and the dragon and phoenix fetal daughter was the most uneasy

author:Moon Okuma

01.

In May 1991, Zhao Yufang followed behind her father Zhao Benshan and tried to persuade her father not to leave him, but Zhao Benshan had already made up his mind, and he and his wife Ge Shuzhen had already agreed that a pair of children and all the property belonged to her, and she was willing to leave the house, as long as she let herself go.

Although Ge Shuzhen's heart hurts, she understands that everything is a foregone conclusion, and it is useless to say more.

Zhao Benshan: The eldest son made his heart ache, the eldest daughter made him feel guilty, and the dragon and phoenix fetal daughter was the most uneasy

In fact, Zhao Benshan was also very uncomfortable, especially when he saw his daughter Zhao Yufang's eyes wet with tears, he had colic, and he almost changed his mind.

Zhao Benshan thought that his daughter would hate him, but what he didn't expect was that his daughter was sensible and made him feel distressed.

Zhao Benshan: The eldest son made his heart ache, the eldest daughter made him feel guilty, and the dragon and phoenix fetal daughter was the most uneasy

In October 1992, Zhao Benshan and Ma Lijuan held a wedding in Shenyang, Ge Shuzhen stood aside from afar, and asked her daughter Zhao Yufang to say a blessing to her father. Zhao Yufang walked in front of Zhao Benshan, and then whispered a word, Zhao Benshan didn't hear clearly, leaned over, and only heard his daughter say: "I wish you and Aunt Ma to grow old together, it's best to give me a cute little brother." Hearing this, Zhao Benshan almost couldn't hold back his tears.

In his heart, his daughter is very obedient, well-behaved and kind.

Zhao Benshan: The eldest son made his heart ache, the eldest daughter made him feel guilty, and the dragon and phoenix fetal daughter was the most uneasy

Even if he remarried and had a new family, Zhao Benshan vowed that he must give more love to this daughter in this life, and for the eldest daughter, Zhao Benshan's guilt in his heart is indescribable.

However, the accident came again, making him once again experience the pain of "life and death".

In the winter of 1994, Zhao Benshan, who was busy, received a call from his ex-wife Ge Shuzhen, and learned that his son Zhao Tiedan had entered the hospital, so he hurried to go, but it was still a step too late, and his son left......

Zhao Benshan: The eldest son made his heart ache, the eldest daughter made him feel guilty, and the dragon and phoenix fetal daughter was the most uneasy

Zhao Benshan was in a panic, and he wanted to cry, but when he saw Ge Shuzhen and Zhao Yufang on the side, they had already cried until they fainted, so they had to endure their grief, took Ge Shuzhen and Zhao Yufang into his arms, and comforted him softly.

During that time, Zhao Benshan was a little depressed, recalling most of his life, he always felt that nothing was right.

02.

Back in 1979, 22-year-old Zhao Benshan was introduced to marry 19-year-old Ge Shuzhen from a neighboring village, and the two lived a stormy life.

Zhao Benshan: The eldest son made his heart ache, the eldest daughter made him feel guilty, and the dragon and phoenix fetal daughter was the most uneasy

Zhao Benshan was so poor that he could only pretend to be blind outside and pull erhu to make some money, and Ge Shuzhen worked as a farmer at home.

At the end of that year, Ge Shuzhen gave birth to her daughter Zhao Yufang, and gave birth to her son Zhao Tiedan in 1982, but as soon as Tie Dan was born, he was diagnosed as a deaf and mute child, and also suffered from congenital hypochondrosis, emphysema, and heart disease, and the doctor asserted that the child would not live to be 10 years old.

The shadow instantly enveloped their dilapidated home, Zhao Benshan had to put most of his time and energy into his career, he hoped that he could at least make more money and let his wife and children live a better life in the future.

Zhao Benshan: The eldest son made his heart ache, the eldest daughter made him feel guilty, and the dragon and phoenix fetal daughter was the most uneasy

He is talented, but he has been sealed for more than 20 years, but fortunately, he met a nobleman, stepped onto a bigger platform step by step, and finally became famous in one fell swoop.

Ge Shuzhen is just willing to be that unknown woman, taking care of housework, and diligently farming at home. She didn't know that after Zhao Benshan became famous, her feelings for her were gone, and it wasn't until Zhao Benshan filed for divorce that she understood everything.

Zhao Benshan: The eldest son made his heart ache, the eldest daughter made him feel guilty, and the dragon and phoenix fetal daughter was the most uneasy

After the divorce, Ge Shuzhen took two children, although Zhao Benshan left her savings, she couldn't sit on the mountain, and her son's medical expenses were also a big expense, so she went to set up a stall and work as a waiter.

After the death of his son Tie Dan, it hit Ge Shuzhen and Zhao Benshan very hard.

Since then, Zhao Benshan's inner debt has been even greater.

He usually always "takes care" of his eldest daughter Zhao Yufang, often goes to see her, and gives her money, and pays attention to her studies.

Zhao Benshan: The eldest son made his heart ache, the eldest daughter made him feel guilty, and the dragon and phoenix fetal daughter was the most uneasy

03.

In 1999, 20-year-old Zhao Yufang was admitted to the English Department of Dalian University of Foreign Chinese, she got the admission notice and immediately made a phone call to her father Zhao Benshan, Zhao Benshan learned that he was happy all day.

He wanted to tell Ge Shuzhen several times to let her go to Dalian to accompany his daughter, but after thinking about it, what qualifications did he have to ask for it? As a result, Ge Shuzhen thought the same as him, and really went to Dalian to be an "accompanying mother."

Zhao Benshan: The eldest son made his heart ache, the eldest daughter made him feel guilty, and the dragon and phoenix fetal daughter was the most uneasy

In 2003, Zhao Yufang graduated from university and entered the office of the Dalian Public Security Bureau.

After the establishment of the "Benshan Art College of Liaoning University" in the second year, Zhao Benshan called Zhao Yufang many times and asked her to resign and go to the school.

Zhao Yufang thought about it for a long time and agreed to her father's request, but Zhao Yufang wanted to pull Ge Shuzhen over, but she didn't agree.

Zhao Benshan: The eldest son made his heart ache, the eldest daughter made him feel guilty, and the dragon and phoenix fetal daughter was the most uneasy

The father and daughter are closer together, and they often talk to each other, Zhao Yufang often says, "Dad, you have a few more gray hairs on your head." Zhao Benshan felt very uncomfortable, he seemed to have not taken a good look at his daughter for so many years, at that time he and Ge Shuzhen did not divorce, nor did they fulfill their obligations as fathers, so that their daughter lacked the warmth and love of the family, and when she grew up, she had a new family.

He said "I'm sorry" to his daughter several times, but her daughter just smiled and said, "Dad, don't apologize to me, you don't have anything to be sorry for me......"

Zhao Benshan: The eldest son made his heart ache, the eldest daughter made him feel guilty, and the dragon and phoenix fetal daughter was the most uneasy

In 2008, Zhao Yufang got married, Zhao Benshan was very happy, he didn't close his eyes all night, and at the wedding scene, he choked up several times, lowered his head and his eyes were full of tears.

The husband is an ordinary person, although the family background is inferior to Zhao Benshan in all aspects, but they are true love.

When his daughter and son-in-law got married, he only had one word of advice, live a good life.

This is also his greatest wish.

Zhao Benshan: The eldest son made his heart ache, the eldest daughter made him feel guilty, and the dragon and phoenix fetal daughter was the most uneasy

04.

This wedding is very grand, it is said that Zhao Benshan prepared 3 million as a dowry, and the house and car are ready. The wedding scene was full of luxury cars, and many of Zhao Benshan's old friends came to drink the wedding wine, all of whom were figures with heads and faces in Tieling.

With a family, the father and daughter have fewer opportunities to tell those words that contain true feelings, but they both bury each other's feelings in their hearts.

Zhao Benshan: The eldest son made his heart ache, the eldest daughter made him feel guilty, and the dragon and phoenix fetal daughter was the most uneasy

Many years later, someone asked Zhao Benshan what he wanted to say most to his daughter Zhao Yufang? Zhao Benshan replied, "I'm still sorry."

In the year of his daughter's marriage, he and his second wife Ma Lijuan already had a pair of dragon and phoenix fetal daughters, born in 1997.

But he didn't expect that the pair of children were in stark contrast to their eldest daughter Zhao Yufang, and they didn't let themselves worry at all.

Zhao Benshan: The eldest son made his heart ache, the eldest daughter made him feel guilty, and the dragon and phoenix fetal daughter was the most uneasy

As soon as "Niu Niu" Zhao Yinan and "Niu Niu" Zhao Jiaxuan were born, Zhao Benshan's career has achieved great success.

Therefore, he is a proper rich second generation, different from his peers around him, and has lived a worry-free life since he was a child. Zhao Benshan is very fond of these children, and he usually buys whatever he wants, and all his wishes can be realized.

When they go to school, they spend more pocket money a week than others in a year, so their classmates are willing to play with them.

Zhao Benshan: The eldest son made his heart ache, the eldest daughter made him feel guilty, and the dragon and phoenix fetal daughter was the most uneasy

At the same time, this also gave them an inexplicable "sense of superiority", usually in school, not good at all, caused a lot of trouble to Zhao Benshan, Zhao Benshan received a call from the teacher at two ends in three days, he was usually busy with work, and had no time to educate the two children, so he had to tell Ma Lijuan to let her be stricter!

But Ma Lijuan is a typical "loving mother", she can't be ruthless at all, just just say a word or two.

This also leads to the fact that after Niu Niu and Niu Niu grow up, their personalities are a little arrogant, if it weren't for the second generation of stars, it would be nothing, the key is that they are Zhao Benshan's children, and they will be magnified by everyone and become the focus.

Zhao Benshan: The eldest son made his heart ache, the eldest daughter made him feel guilty, and the dragon and phoenix fetal daughter was the most uneasy

05.

Zhao Yinan is 27 years old, but he has not made any achievements in his career, he has started a business several times before, but they have failed, it is reported that Zhao Yinan's various investments have been wasted, but this money is not distressing for him at all.

After appearing on the Internet many times, he acted in a very high-profile style, and later it was exposed on the Internet that "golden pipe smoking", "raising a 600,000 foreign purebred dog", and "angry netizens"...... A series of things ruined Zhao Yinan's only remaining reputation.

Zhao Benshan: The eldest son made his heart ache, the eldest daughter made him feel guilty, and the dragon and phoenix fetal daughter was the most uneasy
Zhao Benshan: The eldest son made his heart ache, the eldest daughter made him feel guilty, and the dragon and phoenix fetal daughter was the most uneasy

Zhao Benshan saw the scolding everywhere, and he was probably speechless for this son.

is also speechless, as well as her daughter Zhao Jiaxuan.

Zhao Jiaxuan is a little better than her brother, she began to appear on stage at the age of 8, performed at some large-scale galas, and performed well, very early, she had already obtained the piano grade 10 certificate, and then went abroad to study.

Zhao Benshan: The eldest son made his heart ache, the eldest daughter made him feel guilty, and the dragon and phoenix fetal daughter was the most uneasy

In fact, she still has a bit of literary talent, she should have inherited her father's excellent genes, and she has shown her face in major film and television works later, including "Liu Laogen 4" in 2021, in which she played the role of "Tian Yumeng".

Zhao Benshan: The eldest son made his heart ache, the eldest daughter made him feel guilty, and the dragon and phoenix fetal daughter was the most uneasy

The acting is a little jerky, and it still needs to be improved.

However, her dream is not to be an actress, but to become a strong business woman, after the rise of the live broadcast industry, Zhao Jiaxuan stepped on the wind and became a female anchor.

Zhao Benshan: The eldest son made his heart ache, the eldest daughter made him feel guilty, and the dragon and phoenix fetal daughter was the most uneasy

usually starts broadcasting, she will show her private life, but every time she will be said to be "showing off her wealth", such as when she orders a takeaway, some people say "a takeaway of 100,000 yuan", and she also publicly talks about her family many times in the live broadcast, such as the private jet, she admitted frankly that "I can't sell it if I want to, and the parking fee costs 20,000 ...... a night"

Zhao Benshan: The eldest son made his heart ache, the eldest daughter made him feel guilty, and the dragon and phoenix fetal daughter was the most uneasy
Zhao Benshan: The eldest son made his heart ache, the eldest daughter made him feel guilty, and the dragon and phoenix fetal daughter was the most uneasy

said it so lightly, but her fluttering sentence has already overwhelmed most ordinary people.

06.

But Zhao Jiaxuan is more direct, she said before that she is the most low-key among her friends, and she also admits that she really doesn't have much strength, all because she has such a good father, there is nothing that can't be admitted.

Zhao Benshan: The eldest son made his heart ache, the eldest daughter made him feel guilty, and the dragon and phoenix fetal daughter was the most uneasy
Zhao Benshan: The eldest son made his heart ache, the eldest daughter made him feel guilty, and the dragon and phoenix fetal daughter was the most uneasy

It seems that she is still much more frank than most of the rich second generation.

But such a personality has made Zhao Jiaxuan recruit a lot of black, and there are netizens on the Internet basically every day, scolding her, and it is estimated that they are very happy.

Zhao Benshan: The eldest son made his heart ache, the eldest daughter made him feel guilty, and the dragon and phoenix fetal daughter was the most uneasy

Later, even getting married attracted a lot of abuse.

Anyway, Zhao Jiaxuan and Zhao Yinan have never given Zhao Benshan peace of mind.

Zhao Benshan: The eldest son made his heart ache, the eldest daughter made him feel guilty, and the dragon and phoenix fetal daughter was the most uneasy

However, Zhao Jiaxuan said that she quit the Internet after giving birth, and it may be difficult to see her news on the Internet in the future.

What is the future path for this pair of young masters and princesses who have never experienced storms?

In the dead of night, Zhao Benshan sat alone in front of the window, not knowing what he was thinking.

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