In the northeast corner of the town, there is a historic teahouse called "Time Station". In the teahouse, the tea is fragrant, and people sit around a table, drinking tea and chatting, sharing their stories. Wangcai is a frequent visitor to this teahouse, he is not only a master of tea tasting, but also a good listener and teller.
In the afternoon of this day, the sun shone obliquely into the teahouse, and Wangcai was sitting by the window, listening to the chatter of several old people next to him while tasting the dragon well. Suddenly, a young couple hurried in, their faces a little anxious and confused.
"Boss, find us a quiet corner. The man's voice was low and tired.
The teahouse owner led them to an empty table next to Wangcai, and when the couple sat down, the woman began to sob. Wangcai looked sideways slightly, secretly guessing in his heart that the couple must have encountered some problems.
The man sighed and spoke slowly: "We got married not long ago, and I thought we could live a happy life, but I didn't expect that there have been frequent quarrels recently, and I feel that my marriage is in jeopardy. ”
The woman raised her head and said with tears in her eyes, "Did we do something wrong? Why is marriage so difficult to manage?"
Wangcai put down the teacup, looked at them gently, and said softly: "Actually, if husband and wife want to be long, they must remember these seven things that they can't do. Would you like to hear it?"
When the couple heard this, they immediately stopped crying and looked at Wangcai curiously. Wangcai smiled slightly and began to tell the story.
"First, don't say things that hurt the other person. Verbal injuries are often more difficult to heal than physical injuries. He paused and continued, "Second, don't betray the other person's trust. Trust is the cornerstone of a couple's relationship, and once it collapses, it is difficult to rebuild. ”
He took a sip of tea and continued, "Third, don't ignore the other person's feelings. Marriage is a matter for two people and requires mutual care and understanding. He looked at the couple and said, "Fourth, don't get in the way of family responsibilities. It is the duty of husband and wife to share family responsibilities. ”
Wangcai's tone gradually became serious: "Fifth, don't indulge in bad habits, which will seriously damage the relationship between husband and wife and family harmony. He shook his head and sighed, "Sixth, don't give up on self-growth. Husbands and wives should motivate each other to make progress together. ”
He concluded: "Seventh, don't forget your original intention. No matter how time passes, remember why you chose to come together in the first place. ”
After listening to Wangcai's words, the couple fell into deep thought. They begin to reflect on their actions and whether they have neglected these important principles. Seeing this, Wangcai said softly: "Marriage is not easy, and both parties need to work together. As long as you remember these seven things you can't do and manage them with your heart, I believe that your marriage will be long-lasting. ”
The couple looked at Wangcai gratefully, and they decided to re-examine their married life and try to change the status quo. Tranquility was restored in the teahouse again, and Wangcai continued to taste his tea, but his heart was full of blessings for the couple.
At the end of the story, Wangcai sat in the corner of the teahouse, looking at the sunset outside the window, and his heart was full of emotion. He understands that marriage is not easy, but as long as both parties keep in mind these seven things that cannot be done and manage them with heart, they will definitely be able to overcome difficulties and spend their lives together.
This story teaches us that husbands and wives need to respect, trust, care and understand each other, share family responsibilities, continue to grow themselves, and always keep their original intentions in mind. Only in this way can we create a happy and happy married life. At the same time, we should also learn to listen to the stories of others, draw wisdom from them, and provide lessons and inspiration for our own married life.