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It turned out that her mother Xiaomin took the college entrance examination for the second time when she was 28 years old, and was admitted to a university in Yunnan to study stomatology. When she was pregnant with Yuyu, Xiao Min did not fall in class for a day, after giving birth to the baby, with the encouragement of her classmates, she took the baby to the school to continue the class, the little guy became the "class pet", and Xiao Min's grades were also among the best in the class. Xiaomin said, "I am 31 years old, I am a mother, and I am also a student who pursues knowledge, I will not give up the knowledge I crave because I am a married older girl, I think as long as I want to learn, it is never too late." ”
Graduated from undergraduate degree more than 10 years ago
After working for five years, I retook the college entrance examination
Xiao Min first went to college more than 10 years ago, when she majored in nursing. Because her lover worked in Beijing, she also came to Beijing after graduation, and worked in a hospital for 5 years.
Working in Beijing, Xiao Min broadened her horizons and wanted to continue to improve herself, transform from a nurse to a doctor, and take a step forward in her career, so she came up with the idea of taking the college entrance examination again. She first got the support of her lover, "My husband is more open-minded, has always encouraged me to find my own interests and hobbies, especially supported me to take the exam, so that I don't have any scruples, and he will earn money to support the family." ”
Xiaomin's parents are both studying medicine and support her return to school, and her parents-in-law also support her. She told her colleagues about the idea of going back to college, "and they encouraged me that I was really talented and that I could give it a try." ”
With the support of her family and colleagues, Xiaomin signed up for the 2022 college entrance examination. It has been more than 10 years since the last college entrance examination, and it is indeed not easy to re-learn mathematics, physics and other subjects.
A group photo of Xiao Min and her classmates
In September 2022, Xiao Min reported to the school and officially started her second college life. After entering the school, she found that she was not the only one who took the college entrance examination again after work, and some of her classmates were older than her, and their children had already gone to school, and they still chose to go to college again to enrich and improve themselves.
Xiao Min and his eighteen or nineteen-year-old classmates trained together, played games, participated in sports meetings, and returned to the youthful years. After the end of the military training, the class began to formally study, she is the oldest student in the class, she has experienced social tempering, and treats the younger 10-year-old classmates like big sisters, there is no generation gap, and the classmates are very admired.
Although Xiao Min is older in college for the second time, she chooses the major she likes, has a deep interest, and learns very hard, "you can't get mixed up because of your age."
The young classmates in the class often talked to her, especially the girls, who came to her dormitory. Some students are not very satisfied with the major, Xiao Min enlightened and said, "Even if you don't like this major, go to work first after graduation, if you feel that the work is not comfortable, there is still a chance to change, you must open your eyes, you see I am the best example, I have also refreshed your three views, right? As long as you want to move forward, you will have a chance, as long as you want to learn, you will have time." ”
Several female classmates came from remote areas, "I told them that girls must open their eyes and improve themselves. The greatest value is to improve yourself, as long as you improve your ability, other problems are easy to solve. "Xiao Min's four people in the dormitory are even more like sisters," the dormitory is nothing more than hygiene, eating and other issues, so I spread it out with everyone and said, usually eat together, study, go shopping, the relationship is very good." ”
Attend classes consistently during pregnancy
I felt the warm care of teachers and students at school
Xiaomin's second wish is to have a baby before the age of 30, which also comes true as planned.
Someone asked her if she wanted to take a break from school during pregnancy and come back to school after giving birth, but she said that she was not so hypocritical, she went to class normally when she was pregnant, basically did not ask for much leave, the school took very good care of her, and the teacher also cared for her, if she felt unwell during class, she could find them at any time.
The classmates are more enthusiastic, if the ground is too slippery on a rainy day, the classmates will take the initiative to support her, and the class will often change classrooms, there are many people coming and going, and the classmates are protecting her. "At first, I was a little embarrassed, but I was really touched by what they did. ”
When doing the prenatal checkup, the classmates also took the initiative to accompany her, took care of her, and helped her do prenatal education. ”
When I was about 6 months pregnant, there was a flu in Kunming for a while, and many classmates around me were infected, and some students were still in serious condition and needed oxygen, "My classmates all knew that I couldn't catch a cold when I was pregnant, and they all consciously wore N95 masks in class." If anyone has a cold, they will say Sister Wang, go and sit by the window and try to stay away from the sick classmates. Later, the school also arranged a single dormitory for me, and I would move back when my classmates had a cold. ”
Xiao Min's roommate's parents knew that there was such a big sister in the dormitory, and they also sent nuts and other nutritional products, and shared with her the precautions during pregnancy, so that the roommate must take good care of Xiao Min. When she was almost 38 weeks pregnant, Xiaomin was ready to go home to give birth, and her roommates also took her to eat Pizza Hut and visit the mall, which was full of rituals.
Xiaomin's daughter Yuyu
On October 7, 2023, her daughter Yuyu was born, although Xiaomin is a novice mother, she has always been quick in her work and quickly adapted to her new role.
Although the school approved maternity leave, she also struggled, originally thought about taking a break from school for a period of time, or leaving the baby at home, and going back to school by herself to hold on to the final exam, but teachers and classmates called her and encouraged her to continue to return to school with her child. The "rice partners" in the school were especially enthusiastic, and posted a video to show off the food and toys and baby products bought for the baby in advance, mobilizing her to say, "If you haven't come to class for a day since you were pregnant, none of us will persuade you, the previous was very good in school, and now you should stick to the scheduled classes and exams, and overcome difficulties anyway." ”
Xiao Min didn't want to give up the pre-planning because of the child, so she decided to take the baby to college after the full moon, and the elderly at home were reluctant to have children, so she discussed with them, said her thoughts, and said that if it was difficult to take the baby at school, she would ask them to come over to help, and finally got a unanimous agreement.
The little guy has become a "class pet"
"I can't hold it at all during recess"
As soon as she was out of confinement, Xiao Min took Yuyu and took a car from her hometown back to Kunming for more than 4 hours, and in order not to affect her roommates, she rented a house next to the school.
Her classmates all reached out to help her wash the quilt early, and when she went to class or did experiments, she asked her classmates to help bring it. In order to take care of Yuyu, the students were also divided into groups and groups, and they all learned to make milk, change diapers, and bathe the baby. The counselor also said that when it is inconvenient to go to class, you can give the baby to her.
Xiao Min took Yuyu to class
Maybe because she started "going to college" when she was in her mother's womb, Yuyu is very adaptable to classes and dormitories, and is very well-behaved. Sometimes the whole class goes to class, Xiaomin brings the baby to the class, "a class for 45 minutes, the baby has no sound in the classroom at all, sits on my lap to play, and sleeps when he is tired." Unless in some freer non-professional classes, her classmates make faces to tease her, she will rip off the pacifier and play with them. ”
The little one has become a "class pet", and more than 50 "aunts" and "uncles" often buy her toys, and when they see her, they rush to hug her, sometimes passing them on, and they also pass them on to the teacher's hands. "I told my classmates, you have to listen to the class, I hold the child in class, you can only hold it during the break, the baby can't be my turn during the recess, everyone rushes to hug, and it will be passed to the teacher after a while. The teacher also likes her very much, because this semester there are several professional teachers who also teach us in the first year, knowing my situation, they can't put down the baby. ”
Being favored by so many people, Yuyu has always been happy, "Many netizens asked me if I could record a video of her crying, but in fact, she cried too little, and I rarely saw her cry." ”
Although it was tiring to take the baby to school, Xiao Min did not relax his studies, and the test results came out, and he passed all more than 10 courses, and his grades ranked in the top three in the class. She also taught some students who failed the course, saying, "I didn't fail the course when I was pregnant, are you embarrassed to fail the course? They will say yes, Sister Wang, I will read the book well next time." ”
Not only did she go to college for the second time, but she also gave birth to a baby during her studies, which did not affect her studies, and even some teachers were very envious of her and planned to replan her life.
Xiao Min hugged Yuyu to take graduation photos
Because the third grade was going out for an internship, they took graduation photos in advance a few days ago, and Yuyu became a star at the shooting site without accident, and teachers, classmates and school leaders rushed to hug her. My daughter enjoys enough love at home and at school, and Xiao Min feels that her vision and personality will develop differently, "I hope she will be a healthy and happy little girl in the future." ”
The road to studying medicine is relatively long, not only internships, but also regular training and other stages after graduation, but Xiaomin is not afraid, and may continue to go up in the future, "I am 31 years old, I am a mother, and I am also a student who pursues knowledge, I will not give up what I want to learn because I am a girl, married, and old, as long as I want to learn, it is never too late." ”
Purple Cow News Reporter |
Editor|Xu Shaoda
Editing|Wan Huijuan
Editor-in-Chief|Chen Dichen
Images and video footage are provided by the interviewees