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In a village far from the hustle and bustle of the city, 52-year-old Sister Liu's life was as peaceful as an ancient well.
Since the death of her husband, she has relied on her in-laws for her life and shouldered the burden of the family with her weak shoulders. In those years, she was like a tenacious tree, standing tall in the wind and rain, taking care of her in-laws until they passed away one after another.
The death of her in-laws is both a relief and a new beginning for Sister Liu. She began to think about her future, and the idea of remarrying came to her mind.
At that time, it was not easy for a widow to remarry, and Sister Liu had to face not only the discussion of the villagers, but also the worries and opposition of her family and relatives.
At this time, a young man walked into Sister Liu's life. He is 12 years younger than Sister Liu, and he has not been able to marry a wife because of his poor family. He took the initiative to approach Sister Liu, help her with housework, chat with her, and gradually won her favor.
Sister Liu feels that although the age difference between the two is very far, love has nothing to do with age, as long as you truly love each other, you can overcome all difficulties.
However, when Sister Liu told her parents about the idea of remarrying, she was strongly opposed by them. They believe that this man is too young and has no sense of responsibility to give Sister Liu a stable home. But Sister Liu insisted on marrying him, and she believed in her choice.
In this way, Sister Liu married this young man under pressure. She thought that her married life would be as she wished, full of happiness and warmth. However, reality dealt her a heavy blow. Married life is miserable, and happiness seems to have become a luxury!
After marriage, the man did not become Sister Liu's dependence, but became lazy. He had nothing to do all day, only to reach out to Sister Liu and ask for money. Sister Liu not only has to take care of her elderly parents, but also has to support this unsuccessful husband. She felt physically and mentally exhausted and began to doubt her choice.
One day, Sister Liu came back from selling things outside, but found that the house was in a mess, and her husband was still sitting at home with nothing to do. She couldn't help but complain, hoping that her husband would share some responsibilities for the family.
However, the husband said indifferently: "You said that you are not too young, do you want to give me children? Or do you not have children at all? I married you so that you can give birth to me, in order to pass on the family lineage, but what about you? I run around all day long, and I can't even see anyone." ”
After listening to her husband's words, 52-year-old Sister Liu's heart was like a knife, and she wondered why she had to take great pains to maintain this marriage, as if she had raised a son, and had nothing to do all day long. She treated this man sincerely and wanted to live a good life with him, but he only thought about the things of the husband and wife, and did not consider her feelings and needs at all. She felt that her efforts had been in vain, and she had completely lost confidence in this man.
After 2 years of suffering, after some careful consideration, Sister Liu decided to end this unhappy marriage. She was ruthless and filed for divorce from her husband. The husband didn't expect that Sister Liu would really file for divorce, he was a little panicked, but he still had a high-minded attitude.
Sister Liu didn't give him any more chances, and she resolutely ended the marriage where the old cow ate tender grass. She understands that she can't go on like this, she has to plan for her future, and she has to find happiness that truly belongs to her.
After the divorce, Sister Liu began to re-examine her life. She no longer blindly pursues love, but pays more attention to her own growth and progress. She began to learn new skills, expand her social circle, and strive to increase her value. She believes that only by becoming better can she attract a better partner, and that young people have no sense of responsibility.
After a period of hard work, Sister Liu's life is gradually on the right track. She met some like-minded friends and met some people who had a crush on her. She began to believe in love again and that she could find a partner who was truly suitable for her.
In the process, Sister Liu also learned how to better handle interpersonal relationships and face the challenges of life. She has become stronger and more confident, full of hope for the future.
In the end, by chance, Sister Liu met a man of the same age, mature, stable and responsible. They appreciate and respect each other and have had many wonderful times together. Sister Liu feels that she has finally found her own happiness, and she is full of expectations and confidence for her future life.
This experience made Sister Liu deeply realize that marriage is not child's play, and it requires careful consideration and hard work. The marriage of the old cow eating tender grass is not necessarily happy, the key is whether the two parties truly love each other and whether they can share family responsibilities. When choosing a partner, be sure to keep your eyes peeled and not be fooled by superficial phenomena.
Similarly, Sister Liu's story also tells us that in the face of life, only by relying on one's own efforts and wisdom can we create happiness that truly belongs to oneself. We must believe in our own abilities and worth, and bravely pursue our dreams and happiness.
According to surveys, the divorce rate in rural areas has been on the rise in recent years, and there are many couples with large age differences. This reflects the change in people's concept of marriage and the pursuit of a happy life.
However, we should also recognize that marriage is not just a matter for two people, but also a union of two families. When choosing a partner, we should think more rationally, taking into account factors such as the family background, personality habits, and life goals of both parties to ensure the stability and happiness of the marriage.
Sister Liu's experience is representative. It provokes us to think about marriage, love, and happiness. We should learn from this and learn to respect, understand and tolerate each other in marriage, and share the responsibilities and obligations of the family. Only through the joint efforts of both parties can we create a happy life that truly belongs to us.
Sister Liu's incident also gave us a wake-up call. Marriage is not child's play, especially remarriage, you have to keep your eyes open and see clearly what kind of person the other party is.
The fact that the old cow eats the tender grass sounds beautiful, but in fact?
The stakes are significant. Sister Liu is an example, I thought that I had found a younger man and could have someone to rely on, but what did I turn out to be? I had to support the family by myself, and the man didn't want anything but a child.
So, women, when looking for a man, don't just look at age, but also look at quality, look at responsibility, and see if you are sincere. Only then can the marriage be happy. Although Sister Liu took a detour, fortunately, she finally understood this truth and stopped the loss in time, which can be regarded as a blessing in misfortune.
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