46 parents jointly asked the 7-year-old boy to transfer to another school!
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Forty-six parents petitioned for their transfer#
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aroused heated discussions among netizens
46 parents collectively petitioned
A 7-year-old boy is required to transfer to another school
March 29,
In the parent group of a class in the first grade of a primary school in Wuhan
Parent Wu (pseudonym) said
The child was at school on the day
The new transfer student, Xiao Ming, kicked the private part
"I kicked 3 times, and the child was in a lot of pain"
Soon, a parent replied
His own child was also beaten by Xiao Ming
A parent told reporters:
"Xiao Ming was called his parents in the first few times
At that time, he and his parents were better apologized
Also wrote a letter of guarantee"
At that time, other parents were also willing to forgive Xiao Ming
Give him a chance to make amends
"But what we didn't expect was this
Xiao Ming not only did not change
Instead, he beat other classmates several times for no reason
even threatened classmates not to tell their parents"
Another student's parent also told reporters
This time, a parent told Xiao Ming in the group
She asked the child
"It turned out that he (Xiao Ming) often beat my child
He also threatened, 'No prosecution permitted
If you dare to sue, you will kill her.'"
Said a parent, who asked not to be named
Because Xiao Ming has been beating his classmates for no reason for a long time
Let the students who are only 7 years old
I started to be afraid of going to school
"[The kids] said they didn't want to go to school in the morning"
On April 1,
Parents of 46 other students in the class
Jointly submit a "petition" to the school
Let Xiao Ming transfer schools
Otherwise, they dare not let their children continue to go to school
Parents hope
The school can advise Xiao Ming to complete the transfer before April 30
and install public video in classrooms
Before the other party completes the transfer procedures
Xiao Ming's mother should fulfill her promise
Take it home and teach it
On April 2,
Under the coordination of the police
Xiao Ming's mother
To the parent of a student who was previously beaten
Signed a security bond
Promise to be beaten, verbally abused, intimidated, etc. in the event of a recurrence
Behavior that harms the whole class
took the initiative to let Xiao Ming transfer to another school
Xiao Ming's mother:
Child's Exam "Show ADHD"
For the "petition" of parents
Xiao Ming's mother, Ms. Wang, said
I have been kicked out of the parent group
I don't know what happened next
"The child has been brought home and is not in school
The school asked me to take it back and change it to go back to school."
But for the better
Ms. Wang herself does not know
"I think he's moving
It's the kind that can't sit still."
Ms. Wang told reporters
Xiao Ming is a very smart child
It wasn't like that before, at most I didn't listen to lectures
"He once told me that it was because he wanted to be noticed by other students
will fight with classmates
I also told him that it was not right to do so."
Ms. Wang said
I had taken Xiao Ming to the hospital for a check-up before
"Show ADHD
But doctors say 80% of the children have it
I didn't give a medical certificate or a prescription for medicine."
Therefore, Ms. Wang believes
Xiao Ming's various performances
Just because he wanted to play with his classmates
But he couldn't communicate properly
"Then I clap or slap (classmates) with my hands"
Ms. Wang told reporters
Now she's trying to consult a psychiatrist
"It's what someone else recommended on my phone
Haven't (taken him) to a special test yet."
Netizen: Parents need to face up to the problem
In this regard, some netizens said
"Parents need to pay more attention"
Expert: Transferring doesn't solve the problem
The journalist noted
Like Xiao Ming, he was beaten up by his classmates many times
A special child who is "angry with the public".
This is not an isolated case
The head teacher of a primary school in Chengdu said:
"At present, more schools will choose to let parents accompany them"
For such students, the school is also a headache
"Every child has the right to an education
Withdrawing a child from school is not in accordance with the provisions of the Compulsory Education Act
However, classes are held separately
It also requires a large amount of teaching resources
These are all things to be taken into account."
The reporter inquired and found
At present, most special education schools are recruiting students
Children with ADHD are rarely involved
Special Education Resource Center of Wuhou District, Chengdu
Deputy Director Cai Xiaoli said
For children with ADHD or mania
They are far from reaching
Criteria for going to a special education school
But in ordinary schools
They are also prone to some out-of-the-ordinary behavior
"These children generally have emotional and behavioral problems
Often because of a certain environment
or the event does not meet their needs
and trigger emotional changes or excessive behavior
Or even hurting or attacking others
But not all accompaniment is effective
Like the cases we've been exposed to
ADHD children are asked to accompany their parents after reading
The mood has worsened."
For children with ADHD who are asked to transfer schools
Cai Xiaoli said
These children actually have slower neurological development
Poor self-control
Because I didn't pay attention to it, I thought that it would be solved by transferring to another school
"But even in a new environment
Beatings will continue to happen
A vicious circle that goes on for a long time
will make the child feel that he is not accepted by society
This leads to a more serious anti-social mentality"
Cai Xiaoli suggested
Parents of children with ADHD should pay attention to their children's psychological problems
Actively seek out a professional psychological institution for treatment
"At the same time, school teachers and parents
Specialized training and learning should be carried out
Learn how to communicate with these children
Only by understanding the psychology of children
in order to prescribe the right medicine"
"Problem students" have the right to education
However, it should not harm the rights and interests of other students
"Problem students" also have the right to education
There is no doubt about it
But it should not be built on
Harm other students on the basis of normal education
The practice of "parents jointly persuading them to quit" is also the same
A desperate move to protect their children from harm
That's it
What needs to be explored is how to mediate the conflict between the two sides
Let both parties have a better school environment
First of all, parents must face up to their children's problems
Prompt treatment for your child
Secondly, for schools
Just because "parents jointly persuaded to quit"
The education of "problem students" was abandoned
This is repudiation
As a school teacher
It is necessary to be patient and do a good job of explaining to parents
What's more
It is necessary to adopt an educational approach tailored to special circumstances
Help "problem students" to continuously improve their emotions and behaviors
So as to protect the rights and interests of each child
Create a better educational environment for them
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Editor: Gong Zijun