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A quick knock on the door in the early morning woke up Peng Meimei, who was almost old. She hurried to the door, only to be told by anxious neighbors that Sun Genbao had fallen on the street and had been taken to the hospital.
Hearing the news, Peng Meimei was immediately in a hurry, and rushed to the hospital before she even had time to put on her clothes.
Outside the emergency room, Peng Meimei was so anxious that she was at a loss. Suddenly, a gentle nurse came over and patiently told her that the doctor had diagnosed Sun Genbao with severe coronary artery disease and needed to be hospitalized immediately.
Peng Meimei suddenly fell into an ice cave, and her heart was mixed. The two of them have always depended on each other, and never imagined that there would be such a day.
At this time, a kind middle-aged woman came over with her daughter, saw Peng Meimei waiting anxiously alone, took the initiative to ask about the situation, and enthusiastically helped Peng Meimei fill in various admission procedures.
Looking at the warm interaction between the mother and daughter, Peng Meimei couldn't help but feel envy and sadness, and tears slipped involuntarily. She wishes that she also had such a child who could give her warmth and support during this difficult time.
Finally, after the formalities were completed, Peng Meimei rushed to Sun Genbao's ward in a stormy manner. Seeing her husband's pale face, she was distressed, held his hand tightly, and asked with concern, "Honey, how are you feeling now?" Sun Genbao shook his head weakly, barely squeezing out a smile, he knew the anxiety and helplessness in his wife's heart at the moment.
During the long days in the ward, Peng Meimei always took care of Sun Genbao. She carefully fed him medicine and patiently helped him wash and change his clothes, for fear that anything would go wrong.
However, at this moment, what she envies the most is the warm scene of those young people taking care of their parents in the ward. She often fantasizes that if she had children herself, she might be able to find more comfort and support in such a difficult time.
After careful treatment by medical staff, Sun Genbao's condition finally improved, and he was finally discharged from the hospital and returned to his warm home. Peng Meimei was relieved, and secretly determined to take care of him more carefully, so that he could enjoy the most comfortable life in his old age.
This crisis made Peng Meimei really feel the price of her Dink decision back then. Whenever relatives and friends in the neighborhood asked why she didn't have children, she would say with tears in her eyes: "I regret it so much, I was so selfish at that time."
Now I know how lonely and lonely it is to spend my old age alone.
The famous director Er Dongsheng and ordinary teacher Luo Xiaowen were once a high-profile golden couple. The two fell in love at first sight at a drinking party, quickly fell in love, and got married in a short period of time.
However, late at night on the second day of the wedding, Er Dongsheng suddenly made a request to Luo Xiaowen that shocked her ----- become a Dink couple.
Luo Xiaowen, who was born in a traditional cultural family, has always regarded forming a happy family as the ultimate dream of life. But she also understands that to love someone is to respect his choice, so she chose to silently accept her husband's decision.
Since then, they have lived in a two-person world like a fairy couple.
Er Dongsheng devoted himself wholeheartedly to his career, while Luo Xiaowen stuck to his position as a teacher and took care of a group of innocent and lovely children. The two traveled hand in hand, traveled around the world, and tasted a variety of delicious foods.
But in this happy time, Luo Xiaowen's heart is always full of envy and yearning for those friends who have an innocent and carefree childhood. In order to cooperate with her husband's decision, she buried this desire deep in her heart and endured unspeakable pain alone.
Time flies, and in a blink of an eye they are no longer young, their temples are gray, and their faces are covered with the marks of time. Suddenly, the media reported a shocking news that Er Dongsheng had actually given birth to a two-year-old daughter with another woman! This was tantamount to a thunderbolt from the blue, hitting Luo Xiaowen's inner world.
She angrily asked her husband for hiding all this, but Er Dongsheng said that he was not surprised by the appearance of this child.
After a brief truce, the marriage ended in divorce. At this time, Luo Xiaowen had already missed the golden age of childbirth. Er Dongsheng's actions aroused strong repercussions from all walks of life, and he once promised Luo Xiaowen to "Dink to old age" together, but he broke his promise and was finally condemned by everyone.
For Luo Xiaowen, she originally thought that Dink's life could bring unfettered freedom, but the result was the opposite, and it became an indelible pain in her life.
Kang Hui, a well-known CCTV host, and his wife Liu Yajie's marriage has always attracted much attention. They have been together for many years, their married life is low-key and harmonious, and the only thing they lack is the arrival of their children.
In a Chinese society with a deep traditional culture, this is undoubtedly a subversive choice, but they have firmly chosen to become the Dink family.
At first, the Kang family's parents were adamantly opposed to this, especially the strict father Kang's father, who believed that having no heirs was a great disrespect to the ancestors. As a result, the father and son had sharp disagreements and fell into a cold dispute.
Fortunately, Xianhui's mother, Kang's mother, patiently mediated, and gradually calmed down the family turmoil. Although the parents finally stopped interfering forcefully, they still regularly mentioned the birth event, which made Kang Hui have mixed feelings in his heart.
On the one hand, he wants to stick to his decisions, but on the other hand, he can't completely ignore his parents' expectations and parenting grace.
As time went on, Kang's father and mother, who were originally opposed, began to change their minds and enthusiastically expressed their willingness to help manage their children's household chores when they retired, so as to relieve the pressure on Kang Hui and his wife.
But even so, Kang Hui still frankly said that he was busy with work and really had no time to take care of his children, and this responsibility did not stop his parents from still eagerly looking forward to it.
Even though time flies, Kang's father and mother gradually changed from opposing to understanding and supporting their son's decision, giving them endless love, but in his later years, Kang Hui still has no children under his knees, which is still a regret hidden deep in their hearts.
When Kang's father passed away, he specially asked his son to hurry up and give birth to a child, and this last wish undoubtedly left an eternal wound in Kang Hui's heart. Since then, Kang's mother, who is alone, has frequently revealed endless loneliness, which makes Kang Hui feel guilty.
No matter how much his mother pleaded for persuasion, he was unwilling to change his decision.
In the end, one day, Kang's mother passed away due to illness, and she left calmly and calmly, leaving behind deep regrets--- which was her lifelong dream of being able to hold her grandson.
The death of the two relatives pierced the deepest wounds in Kang Hui's heart like a sharp blade.
In the memoir, Kang Hui deeply reflected on his original life choice, and he said frankly that if he could choose again, he would definitely listen to his parents' teachings and never let his pale parents pass away with regrets.
Some choose to become the Dink family, while others cling to the traditional belief that children must be raised to adulthood. Whatever choice you make, the most important thing is not to leave regrets.
The growth of Dink families does not mean that the public opinion environment is becoming more relaxed, and many people are still full of doubts about the choice of these families. There are different reasons why they become the Dink group, some people see the two-person world as the focus of their lives, some pursue a higher level of life, and of course, some people are worried about not being able to give enough love to their children.
This phenomenon reflects the individual's deep thinking about values and responsibilities. However, any choice comes with challenges and risks, and in the Dink family, they face the pressures of loneliness and social prejudice, living expenses on their own, maintaining intimate relationships, and coping with social discrimination.
So, will those who choose to become Dink couples end up regretting their decision? The answer may be far from what the world thinks.
In fact, many members who have joined the Dink group with firm beliefs have long been fully mentally prepared for this. Not only can they enjoy a leisurely retirement, but sometimes even if they have a longing to have children, they can feel the great entanglement and joy in raising young children, and their lives become more colorful.
Children are not only the continuation of life, but also the sustenance of parents' hearts. This deep friendship between relatives is the warmth and sweetness that the Dink family cannot feel.
For parents, children are their greatest concern in this life. Even when their children have grown up, parents will always care about their daily life and remind them to pay attention to their physical health.
When parents are old and frail and bear the burden of their old age alone, the company of their children is their precious spiritual comfort.
However, for families who choose to live in Dink, they often cannot have such warm affection. When they are sick or have difficulty moving, they can only endure loneliness and helplessness alone without the company of their children, and this mental torment undoubtedly makes them feel painful.
So, don't be held back by prejudice and be brave enough to pursue your own way of life. Because your life is only complete when you are worthy of your heart.
Whether you are a dink or a parent, as long as you have no regrets, your choice is the most correct.