A 37-year-old leftover girl who has never been in love, has never been married, and has never had children. Many people around me think that I am abnormal, always look at me with strange eyes, and there are some discussions about me behind my back. But I don't bother to pay attention to them, I've gotten used to them over the years. Besides, people live in this world for themselves, not for others.
The freedom, happiness, and ease of being single are not enjoyed by others.
When I was young, I still planned to get married and have children, but I often found that there were many girls around me who were married, quarreled with their husbands all day long, and some even met men who had domestic violence. Some sisters said that her husband was often out with other women, and the children at home were not cared for. When I saw this, I really slowly felt that getting married was a very scary thing.
One of the main reasons why I don't get married and have children is that the pressure of raising children is too much. From the beginning of pregnancy, women begin to suffer, and they are even more guilty when they give birth to children. I have some girlfriends around me, who were in good shape before they had children, but after a lifetime of children, their whole bodies have changed. Some people have children and suffer from depression.
Having children began to spend money since childhood, from buying milk powder, to studying, to worrying about their work, and worrying about their marriage, starting a family, and buying a house in the future. By the time they get married, I'll be old myself, and I'll have the opportunity to enjoy life.
People have been in this life for decades, and I want to live happily and easily for a lifetime. #大龄剩女##当今社会, what is the biggest problem faced by older leftover women##现在有些单身大龄剩女被冷嘲热讽, what do you think about it#