Re-watching Su Su's personal introduction, it's simply terrifying!
I finally understood why she couldn't talk well with other guests, because she didn't know how to communicate with people at all.
Su Su's personal label is: "Northeast Little Pepper who fights violence with violence"
About some of the thunder points in Susu's love:
She said that there is something to say, if you can't do it, you can quarrel, you can always win or lose when you quarrel, and even quarrels may sublimate feelings, because quarrels may tell a lot of points that you can't usually talk about, and points that are stuffy in your heart. ”
In the introduction of Su Su's emotional outlook, Su Su said that "I prefer quarrels to cold violence", one is that quarrels can win or lose, and the other is that quarrels may heat up feelings.
Su Su believes that there are two major advantages to quarreling in a relationship, one is to be able to win the other party, and the second is to enhance each other's feelings. This point makes people feel really magical, first of all, there is actually no right or wrong in the relationship, if the desire to win or lose in the relationship is so strong, it is better to go to the exam, anyway, the exam can always be divided into high and low.
Second, there are so many ways to enhance the relationship between the two parties in a relationship, why do we have to rely on quarrels to warm up? This is very incomprehensible. You can prepare a little surprise for each other, go out to travel together, eat and go shopping, etc.
In addition, it is believed that most couples do not like to quarrel in a relationship. Now that we've established an intimate relationship, what's not to sit down and chat properly, it's important to settle it through a fight.
The reason why Su Su wants to put her career in front of love is that she was affected by the third relationship, because the other party was a very good person at that time, but put her career in front of her.
After reading this introduction, I seem to understand a little why Su Su cried and said, "Where can there be simple feelings in the adult world, of course, there are many other things!".
Of course, putting other people's three views on oneself is a very irresponsible behavior for one's own life. Everyone has different choices, and the first thing to do is to make sure that your choices are thought through the brain, rather than following the choices of people who you think are good.
Essentially, this kind of learning the choices of others without thinking about it for yourself is a sign of laziness.
After reading the two points that Su Su wrote in her self-introduction, she suddenly understood her attitude towards Lao Wang and Yang Yang.
First of all, according to Su Su's emotional outlook, she has put her career first, so feelings are just a spice in life, not a necessity. So it's okay to be sad, but don't over-consume yourself.
Secondly, Yang Yang is what she didn't like at first, she probably always thought that she was a person who stood in a high position, and she should accept all the good things about Yang Yang, and then she could refuse at any time, so many times she couldn't even feel the least respect.
In the end, whether it is Lao Wang or Yangyang, from the perspective of Su Su's feelings, it is probably not as pleasant as "quarrelling", so it may be possible to enhance the relationship.