In the countryside, there are many sayings, which are the ancestors' observations of life and the summary of life experience. It is easy to understand, but it is rich in philosophy and has a very profound historical and cultural heritage.
Today I would like to share with you a saying about the house: "If the house is pure yang, it is difficult for a child to become a family". What does this mean, and what is the truth in it? Let's explore it together.
1. What does "the house is pure and yang" mean?
The house refers to the house where people live, and the house where the living person lives is called the "yang house". "Pure yang" refers to the layout, structure, orientation and other conditions of the house that are too masculine and lack feminine elements.
According to the traditional architectural culture, the balance of yin and yang is very important inside. If the house is too masculine, or too feminine, it is not conducive to living.
3 manifestations of the house "pure yang".
1. If the house is built too tall and too big, it stands out from the crowd, and such a house is prone to loneliness, arrogance, and impulsiveness. It is not conducive to family harmony, it is easy to have tensions in family relations, and it is difficult for children to have a good life.
2. The direction of the house is too focused on one direction, such as east, south, and north, and ignores other directions. Such a house can easily lead to an imbalance in the fortunes of family members, which is not conducive to the harmonious development of the family.
3. The design and layout of the home are too masculine, such as: glass, metal and other reflective materials are used too much. Or, there are too sharp lines in the home, etc. Such a house will make the occupants feel uneasy, nervous, and irritable, affect their physical and mental health, and easily destroy the harmony of the family.
2. What does it mean to "have a hard time starting a family"?
"It is difficult for children to start a family", this sentence refers to living in a house that is too masculine, and it is difficult for the children in the family to start a family and live independently.
There are two main reasons for this statement.
1. As we mentioned above, living in a house with pure yang, the child's personality will become more lonely, arrogant, strong, stubborn, and self-centered. And the family is not harmonious, lacks a sense of family responsibility, and lacks the ability to care for others. With these defects, it is naturally difficult for children to find a suitable partner and get along with their families.
2. Modern people have higher and higher personal requirements, not only income and stable work, but also good family relationships and social skills. The children who grew up in the pure yang house are less suitable for the changes in the social environment. More fear of setbacks and the influence of the solar calendar, which can lead to marital difficulties.
3. What is the truth?
Is there any truth to the saying "If the house is pure and yang, it is difficult for a child to start a family"? Everyone has a different opinion.
From a scientific point of view, the layout, structure, and orientation of the house will indeed affect the comfort and even physical and mental health of the occupants. As for whether it will lead to "children who are difficult to start a family", further scientific research is needed to prove it.
From a cultural and sociological point of view, this sentence reflects the importance that traditional culture attaches to the concept of family and the balance of yin and yang. The family is the basic unit of society, and the individual is the constituent element of the family. Children's growth is inseparable from the support and love of the family, "if the house is pure yang", is an important factor affecting family harmony and children's growth.
This proverb tells people not to underestimate the impact of external factors such as housing on family harmony and children's growth. At the same time, it is also a warning and reminder that the care and guidance for children is also a contribution to society.