#给孩子一个快乐幸福的童年不好吗? #
In the past two years, there has been a very popular saying. "A happy childhood can heal for a lifetime, and an unhappy childhood needs a lifetime to heal. "As we all know, childhood has a great impact on a person's life, and for this reason, many people put happiness first in the name of love and freedom.
Before, I also thought that in order for a child to have a happy childhood, he would do whatever he wanted. Recently, I've started to wonder why childhood has such a huge impact on people's lives, and whether "happy parenting" can really lead to a happy life.
He thought of "Mr. Toad Goes to a Psychiatrist", which has a sentence about how children change their lives. The meaning of this statement is that the way you see the world is at the beginning of your life. Because in childhood, there are two questions that are tried to be answered: "How do I see myself, how am I?" and "How do I see others, how do they?" are both good and bad, exactly four combinations that make up a person's life coordinates.
I understand that the so-called life coordinates are that a person has determined his attitude and views on the world since he was a child, and in the rest of his life, you will continue to adhere to the attitude and views you have chosen, so the life coordinates you set for yourself in childhood will have an impact on your life.
To get back to the point, a happy childhood can be cured for a lifetime, so should we parents advocate happy parenting? I don't think so. Although childhood has a great impact on a person's life, it has a great impact on a person's life, that is, from a young age, you have already chosen your life coordinates.
Life coordinates are a person's attitude and view of the world, and happiness and happiness are actually a state and a feeling of human beings. Therefore, the happiness of childhood can help children because they are able to realize that they are loved, that they know who they are, that they feel good.
But this does not mean that children can seek happiness in a happy childhood. Educate children to have correct values, have a clear bottom line, and then give children love and freedom, so that children will have a happy childhood, and it will be the best contribution in life.