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After the divorce, is the woman still willing to live as a husband and wife with her ex-husband?
Generally speaking, if a couple has reached the point of divorce, it can be said that their relationship has completely broken down, and there may not be much affection between them anymore.
For one party, at least because of the thought that they can't continue, they will desperately choose to divorce and end the relationship that makes them feel painful and troubled.
So the question is, after divorce, is a woman still willing to live a married life with her ex-husband?
Many people may not understand this topic, but they are also curious. Let's hear what the three ladies have to say.
1. Ms. Su, 38 years old: Occasionally it depends on the atmosphere.
It's been almost a year since my ex-husband and I divorced. We don't have any feelings anymore. It is true that there have been many conflicts in our lives. The problems have accumulated to the point where we can't afford it.
Later, on one occasion, I had a heated argument with my mother-in-law, and my husband scolded me. This incident sparked a complete conflict and made us decide to break up anyway.
After the divorce, I didn't actually have much affection for him, but since we both have children, we still need to have some contact and get along when we meet.
Both men and women reach middle age and still have normal physiological needs. When they have been together for a long time and often together, sometimes in a certain atmosphere, they still have an impulse towards each other.
So, in this case, we still have a sense of intimacy.
Then let it be. Anyway, when we were both single, no one would be bothered by it, and no one would blame or laugh at us.
Therefore, I think adults should be responsible for their own actions, and as for other things, they don't have to worry too much.
2. Ms. Yu, 36 years old: That's true. I will not ask for it, nor will I refuse.
My husband and I are divorced and we have no children. Although we are divorced, we still live in this new house. The house was bought by us together and no one wanted to leave on their own initiative, just like going back to the previous shared house. For everyone, it seems to be child's play, but the divorce is a long story, and it is inconvenient to talk about it in detail.
After a month of stalemate like this, my husband, no, my ex-husband, who should say it, sometimes makes demands in this regard. And I still have some feelings for him, so I didn't refuse.
I think his behavior proves that he still cares about me. After all, if there was no emotion factor, I'm afraid he wouldn't have this impulse on me.
On the contrary, now we no longer live a "husband and wife life" because of husband and wife, but have a different feeling, a more pure, simple need, a deep exchange and collision of emotions.
I wonder if I haven't thought about starting to look for a new development partner lately, and my relationship is in a state of empty space. If this continues, our relationship may have more room to grow.
My attitude is not to ask, but I also do not refuse.
3. Ms. Wu, 40 years old: No, that's weird.
Over the years, I have always thought of my ex-husband as a weak and incompetent person. I don't like men like that. If I thought I could still endure it and continue to live with him, I wouldn't have insisted on divorcing him.
Even after the divorce, I am still alone, but at least I feel happy inside, my life is going well, and I don't get upset, angry, disappointed, or complaining because of him.
Now, my life has changed a lot, I'm happier and more relaxed, and that's the biggest positive thing I've gotten since my divorce.
Now that we are divorced, it means that the original relationship is over, and it is absolutely impossible for me to have any intimate behavior with him again.
Isn't it weird to still have sex after a divorce? I can't.
conclusion
Is a woman willing to live as a couple with her ex-husband after divorce? This question mainly depends on what is the reason for their divorce and what are their thoughts and attitudes towards each other?
But what women need to know is that some men still live as husband and wife after divorce, not because they still care about your previous marriage, but because they have not yet found their next home.
There is no suitable outlet for this physiological need, so he will think that his ex-wife is the current candidate.
If you just feel that there is still an intimate relationship between two people, or a way to make yourself happy and relieve loneliness, then it is not a big problem.
But if you still miss each other and still want to get back together, then you have to see if the other person is willing to get back together with you.
If this is not the case, it is advisable to end the relationship with him as soon as possible and not to delay your chance to find a new life and happiness.