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Text: Cold Snow Mountain
Edited by Hanxue Mountain
Preface
Have you ever been fascinated by a person's story on an ordinary day?
What is it about his life that you will never forget, is it his determination to pursue his dreams, or is it his unique understanding of his inner world?
Or is it his pure and persistent feelings?
Let's look at the life journey of a 40-year-old single actor and appreciate his extraordinary light in the ordinary.
The beginning of the play
In 1983, Xu Haiqiao came to this world in an ordinary and extraordinary way.
As an only son from a poor family, his childhood was very simple, but deep down he had already ignited an infinite yearning for art.
Since elementary school, Xu Haiqiao has loved acting and likes to show off his talents in front of his classmates.
Whenever there are campus cultural activities, he always looks forward to standing on the stage and showing his skills.
Once, the school held a theatrical evening, and Xu Haiqiao played a campus clown.
His exaggerated expressions and funny movements made the teachers and students in the audience laugh.
In this way, an acting dream quietly sprouted in his immature heart.
With the advent of adolescence, this dream became more and more determined.
Xu Haiqiao developed a strong interest in theater and was determined to embark on this extraordinary path in the future.
It starts with a dream
After graduating from high school, Xu Haiqiao was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy as he wished.
It was on that ivory tower campus that he began a new chapter in his artistic life.
During that period of study, Xu Haiqiao suffered all kinds of bitterness.
During the day, you have to devote yourself to intense rehearsals, and at night you have to review your homework.
Sometimes they are so busy that they turn day and night upside down, sleeping on the benches in the classroom.
But he never gave up, just because of his inner attachment to his dreams.
Graduation is imminent, and Xu Haiqiao is full of infinite longing for the future.
But at this moment, the cruel reality came to him fiercely and gave him a heavy slap in the face......
寂寞蹉跎
In 2007, Xu Haiqiao participated in a talent show "Dream of Red Mansions" and won the top three in the national "Baoyu" group, thus officially starting his career as an actor.
The following year, he starred in the TV series version of "Dream of Red Mansions" adapted from the novel of the same name, playing the role of Liu Xianglian in the play.
Although it is only a small role, for Xu Haiqiao, this is already a dream opportunity.
Since then, he has starred in many film and television dramas one after another.
But under the spotlight, who would have thought that Xu Haiqiao was living an almost obscure life.
For countless nights, he practiced his lines repeatedly in the mirror, and every word was heartfelt;
Sometimes I don't even care about eating, and I am only immersed in the creation of the character.
But when the camera goes down, he is still a small supporting role that no one cares about.
During those days, Xu Haiqiao was tormented.
But he didn't give up, because he knew that as long as he could give full play to each role, his ideals and efforts would not be in vain.
Opportunity has arrived
Just when Xu Haiqiao was confused about his future, a fairy tale drama called "Flower Thousand Bone" opened a turning point in his career.
The play is based on the novel of the same name and has been widely acclaimed.
The crew was looking for a suitable candidate to play the role of "Killing Qianmo" at that time.
After layers of selection, Xu Haiqiao was finally selected and became one of the most watched supporting roles in the play.
Since then, he has made his debut on the screen.
In the play, Xu Haiqiao vividly showed the personality of this complex villain, which left a deep impression on the audience.
His nuanced emotional rendering, coupled with superb acting skills, makes the character image very vivid and three-dimensional.
In this way, a name that would only be slightly mentioned among the mass artists became a household name overnight.
The audience called him enthusiastically and attracted countless fans.
The career gradually became popular
The huge success of "Flower Thousand Bone" has brought Xu Haiqiao a succession of job opportunities.
He is no longer just passively taking on the show, but can have more choices.
Immediately afterwards, he joined hands with the popular little flower Dan Marco to co-star in the costume drama "Reborn Celebrity Superstar".
The plot revolves around two people, telling the story of a young actor who has never met a talented person and a successful agent.
Although the play failed to finish as scheduled, the wonderful performances of the two in the play are still impressive.
In particular, the image of the business elite created by Xu Haiqiao not only has the style of being in charge, but also interprets the most simple side of human nature, which has aroused great resonance among the audience.
Since then, Xu Haiqiao has starred in many popular film and television dramas, such as the martial arts drama "Walking with the Phoenix", the urban drama "Paradise Lost in Middle Age", etc., all of which are brilliant works.
He interprets characters of different identities with ease, leaving a distinct artistic imprint on the audience.
The bitter history of the nameless on the list
However, just when his career was in full swing, Xu Haiqiao's private life did not seem to be satisfactory.
For a long time, he was plagued by "bachelors".
According to relevant sources, Xu Haiqiao has been in love with an actress for many years, and the two are planning to get married.
However, just as he was about to stride down the red carpet, everything suddenly changed.
That woman became popular all over the country with a hit drama and was sought after by countless fans.
Love seemed to gradually lose its allure to her, so she went straight to find a new love, leaving Xu Haiqiao alone in the same place.
Filial piety is cherished
Faced with the sudden breakup, Xu Haiqiao was naturally heartbroken.
But at the same time, life goes on.
The unforgiving years do not stop for anyone.
So, Xu Haiqiao gritted his teeth and continued to embark on a lonely journey of life.
He never revealed the specific reason for the breakup to the outside world, nor did he sell or comment on the matter.
All this is only left in a small corner of his inner world.
Mother was very understanding
Fortunately, there is one person who has always understood and supported Xu Haiqiao, and that is his closest mother.
The relationship between the two can be described as "the same as the son".
When Xu Haiqiao's career was at a low point, his mother never blamed him, but just waited quietly on the sidelines.
And when the child is singing all the way, the mother is secretly cheering for him.
When he was frustrated in love, his mother stretched out her warm arms and hugged the 40-year-old boy tightly.
The degree of harmony between the mother and son can be reflected from Xu Haiqiao's participation in a reality show.
In the program, he repeatedly emphasized that every Chinese New Year's Eve, he would go to his mother's side and accompany him.
This is not only the grace of nurturing to be repaid, but also the display of a pure heart.
Heart-to-heart for the good fate
It is often said that when adult men are at the peak of their careers, they are often the least willing to hold hands.
But this is not the case with Xu Haiqiao.
He has never given up the hope of building his own happy family, but fate has not yet come.
Even if there are occasional scandals in his life, he insists on treating friends of the opposite sex as friends.
Occasional love road
In fact, Xu Haiqiao's love history is also colorful.
Since he stepped into the film and television industry in the 90s of the last century, he has had scandals with several female artists in the circle one after another.
It's just that they all parted ways later for various reasons.
For example, when he fell in love with a little flower, the relationship between the two was once very strong.
It's a pity that the other party had a new love after his career took off, and finally ended in a breakup.
However, Xu Haiqiao has never commented publicly on this matter, and he seems to be a very low-key and humble gentleman.
To this day, his expectations for marriage have never changed, but at the same time he seems quite cautious.
Perhaps, this is inextricably linked to his early experience.
Indifferent to fame and fortune, live freely
In the entertainment industry, Xu Haiqiao has always been regarded as a person who is indifferent to fame and fortune.
Many people say that his inner world is very different from that of most entertainment stars.
Instead of pursuing the vanity of fame, it is better to live a free and easy life.
Although he also owns a number of fan stands, he prefers to focus on the work itself.
Unlike other celebrities, Xu Haiqiao rarely appears in the headlines of gossip news.
This is not because he deliberately avoids it, but because of his unique understanding of life.
He longs for a pure love affair, not a superficial world of flashes.
The so-called "wind and snow, Chang'an flower bottom" may be his best annotation of life.
A heartwarming life behind the scenes
From the outside world, Xu Haiqiao's life is indifferent.
As everyone knows, behind the spotlight, he is still a caring good son and a good brother.
During the Spring Festival, he would find time to spend with his mother and have a happy and warm time.
Whether it is purchasing New Year's goods or making dumplings, he tries to do it himself.
Occasionally, I will bring my sisters, and the family is happy, so lively.
This warmth of family affection is the biggest motivation for Xu Haiqiao to move forward on the road of art.
In his heart, fame, fortune and status are insignificant, and only family affection is the eternal sustenance.
epilogue
Life is often unsatisfactory, but Xu Haiqiao uses his life to interpret an actor's most persistent dream.
He has overcome obstacles on the road of art and witnessed the growth of his career step by step.
Although he has gone through many detours and even been hit hard by emotional wounds, he still maintains a positive heart.
This peaceful and indifferent attitude to life may be his greatest spiritual wealth.
In general, Xu Haiqiao gave us a good inspiration with his life: dreams are worth sticking to, and family affection is worth cherishing.
A 40-year-old single man is writing his own wonderful life in a unique way.
And all this will surely inspire countless people to never give up and forge ahead on the road of life.