Text/Flying Fish
The encounters between people are actually guided by fate.
Fate is coming, we can't stop it, fate is gone, we can't stay.
Between people, because of fate and meet, but the encounter is always accompanied by separation, there is always a gathering and dispersion in life, there is no banquet in the world, whether it is a husband and wife, or a lover, in fact, there is no guarantee that two people will be together forever.
Because the world is full of changes, people's hearts are easy to change, and love always has a shelf life.
Two people who love each other may also walk and walk and break up.
A relationship will slowly fade because of getting along.
Whether it is a husband and wife or a lover, the appearance of these three signs indicates that fate has ended, and separation is a matter of time.
1. They no longer tolerate each other and care about a little thing.
Whether it is between husband and wife, or between lovers, from the past to tolerate each other, accommodate each other, understand each other, appreciate each other, to the current pickiness, look at each other unpleasantly, and worry about each other everywhere, it shows that there is no relationship between two people.
Between two people, there is no longer tolerance, and they always can't get along with each other, so the life of two people is not easy, there will be no happiness, as long as the internal friction continues, it is also each other who is tormented.
Between two people, if there is no affection and they don't love you, then it's good to get together and disperse, in fact, it's good for each other, internal friction, and not letting go of each other, which is sad.
When you really love someone, you will tolerate each other, accommodate each other, and coax each other to be happy, but if you don't love each other, fate will come to an end, and all that remains is to complain and blame, and you can't go on because you are too careful.
Second, no more sharing, nothing more to say.
Chen Qiaowei in "Half-familiar Lovers 3" shared her story when she said that when she was very young, she gave up her studies and career for love, followed the person who loved her to form a family, and gave up her studies in order to support each other.
Later, because of the other party's work, the two began to separate the two places, and gradually there was no desire to share, and there was nothing to say, and the relationship became weaker, so they separated.
Whether it is a husband and wife or a lover, once there is no communication and exchange, then the relationship will fade, not that there is no love, but that the relationship is gone, and there is no feeling between two people, and they can't go on.
In any relationship, there is no longer sharing, no more communication, two people return to the state of strangers, then meet from the sea of people, and they will return to the sea of people, and there will be no more intersections.
3. Always quarrel and calculate each other.
Whether it is a husband and wife or a lover, once there is a mutual calculation, then the relationship is not innocent, maybe there is no emotion, and they don't care about each other, so they will calculate each other.
In life, two people always quarrel because of a little thing, no one lets anyone, everyone wants to win, and in the end they fight back and forth, and their feelings are gone.
If two people calculate because of interests and money, then it means that there is no love, only care about themselves, don't care about each other's feelings, and don't think about each other, they become selfish, so they refuse to give up,-for-tat, such a relationship, after a long time, will be very tired and tired, and eventually lead to the breakdown of the marriage and the end of the relationship.
Therefore, whether it is a husband and wife or a lover, two people come together because of fate, we must cherish fate and don't live up to each other's goodness.
When two people really come to this point, there are signs, and these three signs appear frequently in life, indicating that the fate between you has ended, and perhaps separation is the liberation of yourself and the fulfillment of each other.
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