Text/Flying Fish
Life is not easy, but also impermanent, we all have to cherish it, live in the moment, be kind to the people around us, do our best, and treat ourselves well.
Wind and rain life, you will get old in a flash.
After the age of fifty, people have also reached the stage of knowing the destiny of heaven, we must see the current situation of our own life, but also understand the relationship between ourselves and our families, if the relationship is not good, it may affect our happiness in old age.
After the age of fifty, I have gradually entered the old age, and I want to have blessings in my later life, enjoy the joy of family, and enjoy the filial piety of my children to you, so I must also know how to respect my children, don't rely on the old and sell the old, and don't interfere too much.
People who have a bleak evening are actually because they are not having a good time.
After the age of fifty, if these three signs appear in your life, it is often the beginning of life suffering, so don't be careless.
1. When you are idle, you don't do it for yourself, but go around others, trying to control your children, and the more you can't get the children's good.
After the age of 50, if you are idle, you don't have anything to do, you don't think about doing something for yourself, you will only revolve around your family, around your partner and children, around your parents and siblings, and never think about whether you can cultivate a hobby, and give all your time and energy to others.
In fact, such people think that if they work hard, they can use their own efforts to bind other people's lives, but this is not the case.
For example, the more you revolve around your child and do everything for your child, the result will only be that your child complains about him.
Children actually need to have their own space to develop, you don't need to worry about everything, and you don't want to manage so much, if you manage too much, there will be no sense of proportion, but you are interfering in the child's life.
That's why children want to stay away from you, and even because of your interference and control, they have no freedom and no right to choose, so they will turn their faces against you, have conflicts, don't want to live with you, and don't even want to go home, then when you are old, the child has a bad relationship with you, which is the beginning of life.
Second, the fate of husband and wife has come to an end, and they live their own lives.
Some couples have passed the age of fifty, in fact, fate has come to an end, there is no affection between husband and wife, only to make a show, make do with each other, but there is no communication, no care, only care about themselves, just strangers to live.
Li Yijin's father in "Fireworks People" finally lost his home, and his wife divorced him, just because he made this husband and wife fate.
He never cared about his wife at home, and even bullied his wife, what kind of temper did he have against his wife, he didn't treat his wife well, he never took his wife seriously, and even caused his wife to almost do stupid things.
After his wife saw his character clearly, she no longer made do with life, but filed for divorce.
Their house is also the wife's mother's, after the divorce, the wife's mother sold the house and replaced it with a big house for his wife, while Li Yijin's father can only rent a house to live outside, and has no income, so life is very hard.
3. I have lost all my property, and the hard days have really come.
After the age of 50, if people are greedy in their hearts, do not know how to be satisfied, always want to get more, always want to live better than others, and are jealous of what others have, and they have no ability, they will only follow others to invest blindly, and eventually lead to their own loss of property.
After the age of fifty, when you have an accident, no money, and a depressed life, then the hard days really come.
If you have no money, the scenery is gone, but your heart is still very high, you are unwilling to work, you can't stand the anger, and you can't endure hardship, then the rest of your life will be even worse.
After the age of fifty, if the above three signs appear, you must make yourself correct, otherwise life will be very hard.