What is the best relationship between people?
Someone said, "A true friend is one who does not dislike you when you are down, and does not envy you when you are successful." ”
"Mencius" has a saying: "If you are poor, you will be good to yourself, and if you are good, you will help the world." ”
The relationship between friends is like a mirror that can reflect our true appearance.
A good relationship will benefit each other, and a bad relationship will only hurt each other.
- Gratitude is the starting point of friendship
The writer Mai Jia once said:
"The affection between people does not fall from the sky, but begins with a drop of water. ”
All encounters are reunions after a long absence.
In the vast sea of people, it is not easy for us to meet and get to know each other.
When friends get along with each other, what they are most afraid of is "forgetting each other in the rivers and lakes".
In this life, it is lucky to meet a person who is willing to pull you when you are in trouble;
Thanking others for their help will make us grow better;
There is a good saying: "The friendship of a gentleman is as light as water, and the friendship of a villain is sweet." ”
The best state of communication between friends is: no jealousy, no resentment, no indifference, no perfunctory.
Sincerity is the most important thing in people-to-people interactions.
Between true friends, know how to be grateful for each other's contributions;
know how to cherish each other's sincerity;
Know how to make the other person feel that you care about him or her.
Be grateful to others who have helped you, and be grateful;
Gratitude is the starting point of friendship and the best catalyst for feelings.
- Getting along is a two-way street
Writer Gladwell points out in his book "Outliers":
"The reason why people think of genius as extraordinary is not that they are superhuman, but that they put in continuous effort.
10,000 hours of training is a necessary condition for anyone to go from ordinary to world-class master. ”
No one can succeed casually, and success is the result of countless failures and grinding.
No one's life is smooth sailing, and no one will live it smoothly.
On the road of life, we will meet many people, some of whom have accompanied us for a certain distance, and some of whom are just passers-by.
Only those who are willing to share your happiness with are the ones who are truly helpful to you.
Friends are not friends of wine and meat, they are not friends who scold you when you are beautiful, and abandon you when you are down.
It is someone who can be with you and care for each other whenever and wherever you are.
It's rare to have a confidant in life.
Friends who are affectionate and righteous, support each other, and share weal and sorrow are the best friends to cherish and have.
- Sending charcoal in the snow is the highest state of friendship
A person is most afraid that he can see the sincerity of his friends when he is most depressed.
Some friends, once you have a bad time, they will leave you.
But there are also friends who, no matter how down, are willing to walk side by side with you.
In the TV series "Ode to Joy", there is a pair of good girlfriends Xiao Ai and Andy.
Andy's best friend, Guan Guan, has a wealthy family, a job, and a boyfriend.
Guan Guan's family background is average, but he is righteous and often lends money to Guan Guan.
Once Guan Guan encountered a problem on a business trip abroad, so he asked Xiao Ai for help.
Xiao Ai didn't say a word, so he transferred 300,000 yuan to Guan Guan.
Unexpectedly, the friendship between the two came to an abrupt end.
After Andy returned to China, she began to stay away from Xiao Ai and Guan Guan.
It turns out that Andy is not the one who refuses to help because of a lack of money, but because she feels the need to waste time on someone who is not worthy.
At a later party, Guan Guan and Xiao Ai met again.