When my husband went home to sweep the graves of his grandparents on Qingming Day, he met his father-in-law who brought his new wife home.
When I came back, my husband said to me: "His father's new wife is not like his mother-in-law, who sneers at his father at every turn, and the old couple get along very well." "
When my husband said this, he should have been heard by the mother-in-law who loved to listen to us.
At dinner in the evening, her face looked like someone owed her money.
My husband and I should not be able to see, we should eat, we should drink, but we still have to say what we should say.
Before May Day, my husband and I were going to go to my husband's office in other places with our children, and my husband took the initiative to apply for an external transfer.
I'm a freelancer, so I don't delay working anywhere, and I bring my own Erbao.
Dabao lives in the school, and he can go directly to other places during the holidays, after all, although it is a foreign place, it is only half an hour to take the high-speed rail.
Originally, I wanted to lay the groundwork with my mother-in-law before the Qingming Festival, but because there were many things before the festival, I didn't talk about it.
After talking to my mother-in-law, my mother-in-law smoked her big cigarette pouch and pot, and said to us while smoking: "I don't think I've done anything wrong, if you want to leave, you can all leave quickly, and I will live well without you!"
Looking at her like that, I remembered a sentence in my heart: "She is stubborn, and she doesn't know that she is wrong until she dies!"
The wife who has lived for decades, as well as a pair of biological children raised by herself, are so annoying to her, she doesn't know that she is looking for reasons from herself, and she feels that she is very good, it is simply hopeless!
She is destined to be alone in her old age!
Before I married my husband, my parents learned from distant relatives who lived in the same village as my mother-in-law that my mother-in-law was particularly famous in their village.
The people are very powerful, the whole village has almost fought all over it, never lost, and no one cares.
The father-in-law is always cleaned up by her, and the typical wife is strict.
At that time, my parents did not agree with my marriage to my husband, saying that it was difficult to have a mother-in-law like her.
But I still insisted on getting married.
A few years after I got married, I realized it!
Why is my husband's personality so good?
Whenever she has any request, from not letting her husband smoke, to making friends with someone, she has to intervene and give her opinion.
Don't mention it to me, find faults, and quarrel with me from time to time. I was not a daughter-in-law to her at home, but a new member of the ranks of her subordinates who should be disciplined by her.
She's really the kind of self-respecting personality that has to listen to her for everything. It's a matter of not listening to her. At every turn, he cries, makes trouble, hangs himself, and uses both soft and hard.
The two objects that the sister-in-law talked about by herself were all disturbed by her. In the end, the sister-in-law found one according to her heart, and she was satisfied. But it didn't go on when it arrived.
Then she began to talk about her sister-in-law all day long, saying that her sister-in-law had made her worry and made her laughed at. As a result, the sister-in-law couldn't stand it anymore and stayed in the field for several years and didn't come back.
My father-in-law will never come back, and in the second year after my husband and I got married, my father-in-law took the initiative to divorce my mother-in-law.
At that time, several of our juniors were supportive. I feel that my father-in-law is too aggrieved this day!
My father-in-law has no status at all at home, and he is always reprimanded by his mother-in-law, regardless of whether anyone is in front of him or not.
It's nothing more than making less money, not being able to stand up, and things like that you can't hold up at home and outside.
In fact, in my opinion, my father-in-law, who has no job, can get back 3,000 to 4,000 every month by picking up waste and going to the roadside station to do hard work, and every time he doesn't leave a penny for his mother-in-law.
On the contrary, the mother-in-law pampered her all day long and did nothing. Finding fault with others all day long.
According to my husband, my mother-in-law scolded my father-in-law for almost most of my life, and my father-in-law has endured it all the time.
According to the earlier years, the father-in-law should be regarded as a son-in-law.
When the father-in-law who came to the northeast from the east of the country still had an old father and mother in the south, but after marrying his mother-in-law, his mother-in-law did not respect his father-in-law so much because of the good conditions in her family. I don't let my father-in-law go back to visit once a year.
When my father-in-law's father and mother were about to die, they sent telegrams, hoping that my father-in-law would come home to see him for the last time.
But my mother-in-law didn't show it to my father-in-law. The two old men have been buried for a while, and my father-in-law only knew.
This has always been a wound in my father-in-law's heart.
My father-in-law has been patient, just waiting for my husband to get married.
After unilaterally and resolutely filing for divorce, my father-in-law went to a factory opened by a fellow villager in another place to work for a shift.
More than ten years have passed.
In the past ten years, my father-in-law has found a new wife, and after the news came back, my mother-in-law said in a contemptuous tone: "What can I do, who can be too long with him?"
The result was a big disappointment for her.
I heard my husband say that when I went back to my hometown and met my father-in-law, I felt that my father-in-law seemed to be a lot younger.
My father-in-law's new wife is a very comfortable personality that makes people feel very comfortable getting along, which is the opposite of my mother-in-law's harsh and domineering image.
I am actually really happy for my father-in-law, if he doesn't take the initiative to escape from the clutches of his mother-in-law, he will be suffocated and aggrieved in this life.
As for my mother-in-law, who still thinks that she is a god and has nothing wrong, I feel that she is both pitiful and hateful.
It's a crow, when you see the black on others, you can't see the black on yourself!
There are only a few relatives in the family, and no one is proud of her, he and she never reflect on the reason, and they are too self-aware.
My husband's grandparents were local landlords in the early years, and my mother-in-law, as the only daughter in the family, was also pampered by his grandparents and grew up.
For so many years, we have bought a house, a car, a child, and raised children, including when my sister-in-law was financially embarrassed, she did have financial support.
Eating people with a short mouth and taking people softly, this is also the reason why a few of us who are juniors, even if she is so domineering, try to endure it as much as possible, and hide if she can't bear it!
In the words of my son, who is in his second year of junior high school, "My mother-in-law's idea is that those who follow her will prosper, and those who oppose her will die!
Human life is not only for basic survival, but more importantly, for spiritual relaxation.
My mother-in-law has never figured it out: when people are old, the relatives around them are the main reliance, not just money.
Think more from the perspective of others, so that your family is willing to stay by your side, and the family can be harmonious.
If she doesn't understand this point and changes, she is destined to be bleak at night!