On the spacious basketball court of the gymnasium, a fierce game is in full swing. On the court, the teenagers sweated and showed the vitality of youth. And on the sidelines, a middle-aged man watched quietly, his eyes were deep, as if he had penetrated the fog of time and seen a farther future.
This middle-aged man is Zhang Xiaofan's father, Mr. Zhang. He knows that children's growth is inseparable from the constraints of rules, and the establishment of rules needs to start from an early age. He firmly believes that habitual children are like killing children, and excessive indulgence and doting will only make children lose their way on the road of growth.
After the game, Zhang Xiaofan and his teammates excitedly discussed the wonderful moment just now. Mr. Zhang stepped forward, patted his son on the shoulder, and said, "Xiaofan, you played well, but do you think there is anything you need to improve in the game?"
Zhang Xiaofan was stunned for a moment, he didn't expect his father to ask like this. He scratched his head and said with some embarrassment: "I think I was a little negligent in defending and allowed the opponent to score a lot of points." ”
Mr. Zhang nodded and said, "That's right, that's where you need to improve." On the basketball court, every detail can make the difference between winning and losing a game. In the same way, in life, every little rule can also affect the trajectory of your life. ”
Zhang Xiaofan nodded as if he didn't understand, and he began to realize that his father's words were not groundless.
As the days passed, Zhang Xiaofan, under the guidance of his father, gradually understood the importance of rules. He began to learn to follow the rules on the court and respect his opponents, and to follow the family rules and respect his elders in life. He behaved more and more appropriately, winning the admiration of those around him.
However, the path to growth has not been easy. Once, Zhang Xiaofan had an argument with a classmate over a trivial matter. He felt wronged and complained to his father when he came home.
After listening to his son's complaint, Mr. Zhang did not immediately express his position. He pondered for a while and said, "Xiaofan, do you think you are doing the right thing? In the dispute, did you abide by the rules of our family and respect others?"
Zhang Xiaofan was stunned for a moment, he recalled the scene at that time, and he was indeed a little impulsive and did not control his emotions well. He lowered his head and said with some shame, "Dad, I was wrong. I should calm down and communicate with my classmates. ”
Mr. Zhang nodded with satisfaction and said, "That's right, this is the power of rules." It helps us to remain calm and rational in the face of problems and avoid making bad decisions on the spur of the moment. ”
This experience made Zhang Xiaofan more deeply aware of the importance of rules. He began to take the initiative to learn and follow the rules, not only on the pitch, but also in life. He is growing faster and faster, and he is becoming more and more recognized by the people around him.
With the passage of time, Zhang Xiaofan has become an excellent young man. He excelled in school and was loved by his teachers and classmates, on the pitch he was a skilled man who became the heart of the team, and in life he was well-behaved and earned the respect of those around him.
All these changes are inseparable from the rules that his father set for him since he was a child. Those seemingly insignificant details have subtly affected his growth trajectory. He was deeply grateful to his father for the rules that had once seemed cumbersome and constraining.
One day, Zhang Xiaofan and his father came to the gymnasium again. They stood on the basketball court, looking at the teenagers who were sweating, and their hearts were full of emotion.
Mr. Zhang said: "Xiaofan, look at these children, they are experiencing the grind of growth. I hope you will remember that rules are the cornerstone of growth, and they can help us to go further and steadily on the road of life. ”
Zhang Xiaofan nodded and said, "Dad, I understand." I will always remember your teachings, use rules to bind myself, and become a better person. ”
They stood on the pitch and let the sun shine on them. At that moment, they seemed to be one with the whole world, witnessing the power of growth together.
The lights in the gymnasium gradually dimmed, but the light in Zhang Xiaofan's heart became brighter and brighter. He knows that no matter what challenges and difficulties he faces in the future, he will stick to the rules he has set since childhood and use them to guide his way forward.
And the starting point of all this originated from the deep gymnasium, from the father's simple but profound words: "Habitual children are like killing children, and you must set good rules for your children from an early age." This sentence not only changed Zhang Xiaofan's growth trajectory, but also made him understand the true meaning of life.
On the road of growth, rules are like a beacon that illuminates the way forward. It teaches us to respect others, to control our emotions, and to take responsibility. And those children who have obeyed the rules since childhood will also show better quality and a more brilliant life in the future.
Zhang Xiaofan's story tells us that rules are not constraints, but help to grow. From now on, let's set good rules for our children, so that they can thrive under the constraints of the rules and become the pillars of society.