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What can make a middle-aged man slap himself in the face?
Sometimes it's not the pressure of life, it's a deep powerlessness.
Yesterday afternoon, a video touched many people's hearts.
In Hangzhou, Zhejiang, a father found his child playing games. In just 10 minutes, more than 6,000 pieces were gone.
What he didn't expect was that in a few days, more than 13,000 had rushed in.
collapsed and helpless, there was the picture of slapping himself 10 times in a row, and every time he hit his face.
Some people think that his actions are a little too extreme.
More people empathize with this father and feel the sadness and despair at that time.
The hard-earned money was consumed in a few days.
But what worries him even more is that a child is abolished like this.
The slap in the face was because he felt sorry for the rest of the family.
He didn't take his anger out on his son because he felt that it was his own problem first.
A sentence of self-reproach that "the son does not teach the father's fault", as written in the comment:
"This father's distress is not about money, but about his son's future future."
Seeing more follow-ups, the father sent his son to the police station, and the recharged money was quickly returned due to public opinion.
He hopes that children can recognize their own mistakes and do what they do, and they can take responsibility and solve them by themselves.
I believe that this unforgettable experience will really make children aware and reflect.
Being a parent is sometimes really hard.
I saw someone say that parents must not have spent time with their children.
The truth is that I don't know when, even after a meal, the child took the phone.
Some people blame why children should know the payment password.
The fact is that some games are topped up with passwordless payment, and many children don't have much concept of money.
So, when a child makes a mistake, it is never the most terrible.
The scary thing is that parents, who are the leaders of their children's lives, never learn how to write responsibly.
I can't see my own fault, and I will never throw the pot on someone else's head.
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was drowned in the hot search yesterday, in fact, there is another incident.
In Dali, Yunnan, when a girl went to the toilet after the security check at the airport, the toilet door was suddenly opened, and a little boy was standing at the door.
Both the girl and the boy were taken aback.
But what I didn't expect was the next series of operations of the boy's mother.
The frightened girl just blurted out the sentence "someone".
The boy's mother comforted her baby, "You're not wrong, it's this woman who is rude." ”
Obviously he was offended, and he became rude.
The girl was angry and couldn't come forward to theorize, but who expected the boy's mother to come up with another sentence that was even more annoying:
"You see, that's why there are so many crazy people in the Chinese. ”
It is unreasonable to fight, and it has risen to the national level.
These two sentences were said by the boy's mother to the child in English.
But what she didn't expect was that the girl she slandered spoke English very well and understood every insult she had.
A six-year-old boy enters the women's restroom and opens someone else's door.
But all parents who have some rights and wrongs should apologize as soon as possible.
This wonderful mother, but when she came up, she dumped the pot and directly blamed others for her mistakes.
The grandmother on the side staged the moral kidnapping of "he is just a child".
Avoid the important and light, arrogant and rude.
While threatening to hit someone, he provokes others with his words.
In the end, this mother also used the ultimate move:
"You see, she scared both of my children. ”
watched the whole video, to be honest, the girl who was abused has been very calm.
She didn't blame the child who offended her, she just hoped that the mother could apologize to herself for her slanderous words and unreasonable attitude.
However, some parents will never realize the crux of the problem.
I also thought that I had blessed my children in a "defense battle".
As everyone knows, their blind protection will only teach the child badly, and it will only make the child's future worrying.
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Why are you writing about this topic today?
Because he is also a parent, in contrast, he is really angry and embarrassed.
Someone desperately pulled the child out of the fire pit.
Some people push their children into the abyss step by step because of ignorance and arrogance.
In the movie "It's Coming", there is an impressive story.
It's obviously a comedy, but every time I watch it, it's creepy.
In the lively and crowded hot pot restaurant, as soon as a family of three sat down, the boy began to behave as a demon.
Called the waiter and ordered a bunch of dish names:
"Remember, none of that. ”
was so teased and played, and it was staged twice in a row, and as soon as the waiter leaked a little gloomy, the parents couldn't sit still.
"What kind of service attitude, what are you doing so fiercely, the child is still young!"
forced the boss to apologize with a smile, but the bear child didn't stop.
Sitting on the stool like a big pendulum, it kept shaking, hitting the man behind him who was eating well.
The man turned around and persuaded the mother to take care of the child, but the mother only replied with a look of impatience.
Seeing that the man behind him was not moving, the boy began to throw things in the back again.
The clean shirt was stained, and the hot pot that I had just eaten was poured into the drink.
The good-natured man couldn't help it, and just stood up to warn the bear child.
The boy's father took the lead and started the mode of the wicked suing first:
"Inexplicably, why are you pointing at my baby?"
The mother added oil and vinegar to the side: "Now I have to beat the baby"
You think that's the end of it?
While the man went to the bathroom to wash his clothes, the bear child picked up the garbage on the table and threw the man's mobile phone into the hot pot.
There is no need to endure it.
The man stepped forward to fight with the bear child's parents, but the bear child sneaked away and ran around in the crowded hot pot restaurant.
At this time, the waiter was also approaching this end with a pot of boiling water.
In the shouts of "Xiongqi", a pot of boiling water was accurately spilled on the child's head......
This is where the story comes to an abrupt end.
But the tragedy "based on a true story" will not stop when the movie ends.
I've read a sentence:
"Parents are educators like teachers, they are no less than teachers, they are wise creators of mankind, because the wisdom of the child extends from the roots of his parents before he is born into the world. ”
If a parent, it will only be "habitual" and will not care.
If you are a parent, you are used to taking out the shield of "the child is still young".
Then sooner or later, he will be severely educated by this society.
High-speed rail, subway, restaurants, cinemas, ...... We have seen too many bear children arrogant, unreasonable, and do whatever they want.
But the really bad thing is always the inactive bear parent standing behind him.
A sentence of "I can't control him" will leave all the responsibilities of a parent.
A sentence of "he is not sensible yet", just let the child do whatever he wants.
A sentence of "how old you are, how old is he", and all the mistakes are blamed on the other party.
But the child really can't control it, and the parents really can't control it?
The boy steals the game card in the supermarket, and the mother has no partiality and connivance.
Instead, the child was sent to the police station to "turn himself in", not beating or scolding, but really educated.
A letter of guarantee will be remembered for a lifetime.
The little boy took the rice dumplings on the side of the road and walked forward.
The shopkeeper didn't see it, but the boy's father found out about the situation, took the child back and paid for the zongzi, and insisted that the child admit his mistake and apologize.
The father who wears a work hat may not have a very high education, but he can tell the difference between right and wrong.
On the high-speed rail, worried about the noise of a child over a year old, my mother bought two catties of garlic for her to peel.
There are things to do, and the child is quiet all the way.
Everyone is a first-time parent.
Everyone is groping their way forward.
But as long as we are willing to use a little heart, we can avoid causing trouble to others, and we will be one step closer to a qualified parent.
Lead by example instead of inaction.
Words and deeds are substituted for loud noises.
"Every child is born a blank sheet of paper, parents are the ones who paint, and the key to what the blank paper becomes is the parents. ”
There is a long way to go, and we encourage each other.