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Some girls nowadays can really feel suffocating, selfish, not motivated, and only complain.
Just now I swiped a piece of content that made people feel suffocated, a girl cried online: There is no money at home, people are ugly, useless fathers, hard-working mothers, went to a broken college, can't find a job, and has a younger brother who goes to school.
This girl has a handful of snot and tears, and she doesn't look at the content, which makes people feel that she is so wronged, and when she looks at the content, it is suffocating.
"Mom went to work again, and left me alone at home, brushing a certain sound, brushing recruitment software, so confused......"
Young people who just want to enjoy and only complain
Among the relatives is such a girl, two years after graduating from college, and still relying on her parents to raise, but the family conditions are not good, the father often borrows money with relatives to make a living, and the daughter has not worked in her 20s, and has a bunch of cats and dogs at home.
The girl feels that no matter how hard and tired she is, that's your business, I just want a comfortable life, if you don't have money in your hands and feel that your life is tight, then your father has no ability and her life is not good.
What kind of mentality is this?
The girl in the video is really similar to the girl from a relative's house, and it feels very similar.
I don't know when it started, there are more and more such girls, these girls have nothing to do every day is to brush their mobile phones, of course, they will also brush their jobs, but unfortunately they have low eyes, because they really don't have any ability to get their hands on, and the resumes that are sent out are basically sunk in the sea.
When I can't find a job, I complain about my academic qualifications, complain about the poor environment, and young people have no way to live.
After that, he became obsessed with swiping his mobile phone again, and he didn't even want to go out of the house.
complained that he would not be reincarnated, thinking that he was not good-looking enough, and his parents were too unproductive...... Anyway, everything that is not satisfactory now is someone else's fault.
After complaining, he continued to rot, lying at home, waiting for pie to fall from the sky.
The bad habits of the Internet affect these girls
The pastoral style, the rotten style, and the enjoyment wind influence these girls, and they have formed a complete theoretical system.
"If you don't have a good life", it means that "reincarnation is not good", your parents have no ability, and your life is not good in the end.
didn't be like some heroines, born in a barren house on the last road, because she didn't look good, if she could grow a good-looking face, she could have a different life, so in the end, she still blamed her parents.
If you can't find a job, it's useless to study, it's a bad school, it's a bad major.
In short, he is miserable, and when it comes to emotion, he still cries and cries.
But after that point, I began to eat snacks again, swiped my mobile phone, shouted slogans, and promoted the idea of "Tian Girl", trying to find a man who could afford to support herself and serve me like a princess.
From an outsider's point of view, he is not lightly ill, but he is deeply involved in it, and he is moved by himself.
It is not easy for children to learn well, and when they learn badly, the same is true for young girls, let them work hard, they feel that they are PUA, these real poisonous chicken soup, they are willing to eat.
Since then, parents have endured so much
The previous concept was that no matter how poor your parents were, raising yourself is the greatest kindness, no matter how good other people's families are, and in the end, your own home is the warmest.
The old concept was that we are not having a good time now, it doesn't matter, we have to work hard, try to change the status quo, and life will always get better.
The current concept is, since you are so poor, why did you give birth to me and let me suffer. Since I was born, why don't I meet my basic needs, why can others have a way out if they don't study well, and why am I so miserable.
The current concept is that anyway, the social class is solidified, no matter how hard you work, you are poor, it is better to be a salted fish, one day at a time, my parents themselves have no ability, why do I need to have the ability.
In recent years, parents have become the biggest "evil people", and being poor and not being able to have children has become a set of theories, and has become a sharp blade for children to attack their parents.
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What the hell went wrong
Is there something wrong with education, or is there something wrong with the environment?
It's both that go wrong.
The network is open, children can get the content they want to see at will, without correction and guidance, the extreme content continues to push them, so that they go more and more on this road, people are too impetuous, or the network environment is too impetuous, because the network itself is a huge screening machine, positive people are busy with life and work, and people with rotten salted fish are busy surfing the Internet.
There is a problem with family education, because some parents spoil their children too much, feel too sorry for their children, and do not give them a little pressure and guide them to start from reality in the growth of their children, so that those negative concepts and thoughts can be taken advantage of.
Adult children don't know their parents' kindness, they don't know how to work hard, they only complain, there must be a problem with family education, and parents miss the best opportunity to guide and educate.
However, for some low-level families, parents have no way, in this era of information everywhere and the Internet is extensive, parents have to have a certain level to resist the invasion of negative ideas, in order to guide their children on a positive path.
But ordinary people who are busy making a living may not have this ability at all, and they can't see such cause and effect at all.
epilogue
Even if our parents don't give good guidance, but for us who already have mature cognition, we must know that parents are raised to be kind, and if we want to live a better life, we must be grateful and become better through our own efforts, rather than blindly immersing ourselves in past misfortunes and only complaining.
There will be no pie in the sky, put down the mobile phone, do something down-to-earth, you have to do something, in order to gain something, lie in bed and complain, only time slips away, and only negative is rotten in return, and there will be no possibility of improvement.
Parents really don't have the ability, and they don't work hard, are they really waiting for pie to fall from the sky?