The postgraduate entrance examination is a selective examination, and naturally some people are happy and some are worried. When you go ashore, you can see all the Chang'an flowers in one day, and if you fall into the water, will you be sad and cry?
Now, the results of the postgraduate entrance examination have come out one after another, and some candidates have successfully passed the test, while some candidates have failed the retest. In the face of success and failure, although the performance of each candidate is different, of course, there is no escape, the elation of going ashore, and the scene of solitary healing when falling into the water.
No, a candidate in Guangdong, Chen, is a person who fell into the water. He rushed from Guangdong to Sichuan to participate in the re-examination, and he himself held the belief that he was bound to win. However, when he arrived in Sichuan, because of the lack of adaptation to the water and soil and the great pressure on himself, he did not perform well in the re-examination, and finally missed out on his favorite school.
Back at the hotel, he felt like a failure when he recalled his hard work and the selfless support of his family over the past year. When I went out, I was still full of confidence, but now how can I face my parents and myself?
Finally, he couldn't hold back his tears. And this cry was crying for hours. At 1 a.m., he felt his emotions still hadn't been fully vented. So, he put his feelings like this on the Internet-
I was brushed up in the retest, and I will never be able to reconcile with myself! I am so sad that the road I have taken has been in vain. So, life and ideals are always at odds with each other.
However, we are all bystanders, and we don't know how much energy and effort he put into this graduate school entrance examination, how much effort he has expended, and what kind of sacrifices his family has made for him.
And from this point of view, he should be a person who is very demanding of himself and has self-esteem. Otherwise, how could he collapse so much that he couldn't let himself go because of an exam?
Although he is just a small and transparent network, netizens have left him messages after seeing his post, with a lot of warmth and warmth.
It was this post with only one sentence of copy and three pictures that received 130,000 likes, nearly 30,000 comments and more than 20,000 retweets. From here, we can also see that netizens are concerned and worried about him, and they all hope that he can cheer up.
"I majored in applied mathematics in college, and I began to prepare for the public examination in my junior year, and then took the provincial examination twice, the national examination twice, and various examinations such as state-owned enterprises, banks, community workers, and teachers 37 times, of which 12 interviews were not passed, and I was devastated by failures again and again, and finally in 2019, he took the provincial civil service examination. In 2024, he signed up for the part-time postgraduate entrance examination, and has successfully passed the written examination and re-examination. Looking back now, he is most glad that he persevered. ”
Yes, compared with the experience of this netizen, this Guangdong candidate has suffered a failure in the postgraduate examination, what can it be? Isn't this just a trivial thing? Every experience in life is a wealth of life, why do we need to be entangled in the gains and losses of an exam?
If you want to go to graduate school, then organize your mood and start again, if you want to work, you need to take the public examination or find a job. Where is there no road in life?—— there is no name on the list, there is a road under your feet, and there is your own wonderful life everywhere.
Or this netizen said it well: "You can cry, but don't give up, when the sun rises the next day, those things that can't knock you down will make you stronger." ”
Another Ph.D. student in his thirties also told him about his experience. "I've been studying for 8 years, and this year is the last chance to defend my case. During the period of writing the thesis, it was very stressful, often writing from early morning to dawn, and then writing until dark, sleeping only 2 to 3 hours a day on average, and finally writing the thesis under this high-intensity workload, and now the paper is sent for blind review, the result is unknown, and I am terrified every day. ”
Although he was worried every day, he comforted the candidate and said: "Everyone has times when they fail and go wrong, but in the end, everyone embarks on a new journey, and you will be the same." ”
Failure is something that everyone will encounter, and when we encounter failure, we can't be depressed, let alone despair, because where there is a wonderful life, learn to treat it calmly, where is there no time when there is no bright bloom again?
may have drawn strength from netizens, and when he received his mother's WeChat, he instantly cried into a tearful person. And my mother's WeChat only has one sentence: "If you are out alone, take the plane home." ”
After all, the wandering in a foreign land is rootless, and where is the down-to-earth and quiet at home?
At this time, he cleaned up his mood and wrote a long paragraph: I survived, congratulations to myself. In the same way, I have seen your experiences, shed tears for you, be healthy, love yourself a little more!
In the end, he also talked about his plan: "There is still a chance to see the adjustment, if the adjustment is not successful, I will go to work, and I will not take the test again! Thank you again, I hope we can all meet the soft-hearted god." ”
There are mountains and rivers everywhere in life, and at any time, we should not give up on ourselves. Many times, one of your persistences may be waiting for the sun in your heart. For yourself, come on!
Dear readers, what do you want to say about the fact that candidates can't let go of themselves because they failed the list, and get out of the haze under the persuasion of netizens and their families?
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