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Flowers bloom into the sea
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Preface
In an in-depth interview with "Willing Wise People", Guo Qilin revealed his heart: "I didn't cry because I fell while playing basketball, what really made me sad and cry was that when I fell, no one came to help me." Guo Qilin's father, Guo Degang, is focused on career development and travels all year round, and his mother Hu Zhonghui rarely accompanies him at home.
In this case, the young Guo Qilin could only grow up under the careful care of his grandparents.
Despite this, he has always had a deep yearning for a complete family life, and longed to be able to enjoy the company and care of his parents every day like other children.
It wasn't until Guo Degang's career made remarkable achievements that he suddenly realized that he had a son who had been forgotten far away, so he hurriedly took Guo Qilin back to take care of him personally.
As Guo Degang's fame grew, Guo Qilin's identity also changed, and the people around him began to treat him as the honorific title of "young master".
Due to the lack of intimate interaction with his father since childhood, there is an insurmountable gap between Guo Qilin and Guo Degang.
Just as he was trying to establish an emotional bond with his father, he found that Guo Degang was surrounded by many disciples who were studying the arts.
In order to prevent Guo Qilin from taking advantage of his status as a "young master" to act arrogantly, Guo Degang specially told his son that he could not taste the food at home until everyone else had enjoyed it.
Behind this seemingly illustrious aura of "young master", what is hidden is the loneliness and confusion that Guo Qilin cannot easily confide in the outside world.
At that time, the young Guo Qilin did not understand the concept of "divorce", but he often secretly wondered why other children were accompanied by their mothers, but his own mother was always absent from family life? As he grew older, Guo Qilin gradually understood the pressure and hardships of his parents, and now, he has transformed from a sensitive child into a mature man with a sense of responsibility and able to face life independently.
People can't help but wonder what is the situation of Hu Zhonghui, the mother who once left home and was absent when Guo Qilin was growing up?
【1】
Bumpy experience in the early years: The difficult road from a wild child to a cross talk master
In 1973, Guo Degang was born in a family full of books.
Due to his parents' busy work, he is like an unsupervised wild child, always running around freely.
Although his life is busy, Guo Degang was well-behaved and sensible when he was a child, and he always liked to run to listen to books in his spare time, and found the stories in the books particularly fascinating.
This kind of edification made Guo Degang have a strong interest in storytelling.
Soon after, he studied storytelling with Gao Qinghai, a famous artist at the time.
Don't look at Guo Degang's small size, but he is smart and diligent and studious, and within a few years, he has a lot of attainments in this art.
At the age of nine, Guo Degang officially embarked on the road of learning cross talk.
Although he was young, he had a lot of ideas and courage, and he dared to go to Beijing alone at the age of fifteen.
Beijing is a place where talents are abundant, and the newcomer Guo Degang was not appreciated, but served tea and poured water for the audience in the art troupe.
Seeing that the day of his life was far away, he had no choice but to return to his hometown.
After returning to Tianjin, Guo Degang was not idle, in 1989, he apprenticed to Tianjin cross talk actor and writer Yang Zhigang, and studied traditional cross talk in depth to consolidate the foundation.
Soon after, he also opened a cross talk class in the name of Yang Zhigang's apprentice, and his first wife, Hu Zhonghui, was one of the students of this class.
The two hit it off at first sight, quickly fell in love, and married half a year later.
After marriage, the relationship between the two was stable, but Guo Degang's career never improved.
Guo Degang, who had a longing in his heart, did not want to sink here, and in 1995 he once again took the name of Yang Zhigang's apprentice to Beijing.
The reality is more cruel than imagined, not only did he not usher in the opportunity, but he was squeezed out by his peers, and even food and clothing became a problem.
Looking at his wife, who was suffering with him, he wondered if he had made the wrong choice.
In order to subsidize his family, Guo Degang began to try other small businesses, but they all failed, and he was even saddled with heavy debts.
In the most difficult times, creditors come to collect debts every day.
In order to repay the debt, Guo Degang had to sell the marriage house.
This incident completely deteriorated the relationship between him and his wife, Hu Zhonghui.
At this moment, Hu Zhonghui found out that she was pregnant.
For the sake of the child, the two can only temporarily let go of the conflict.
In 1996, Hu Zhonghui gave birth to a son for Guo Degang.
Faced with the joy of a new life, Guo Degang's heart was full of worries, how should the life of a family of three continue? He could not even solve his own food and clothing every day, let alone the money for his children's milk powder.
Although Hu sometimes complains, she remains hopeful for the future.
【2】
Marriage tragedy: career difficulties, family imbalance, and helpless choices in the battle for sons
Back in that period, Guo Degang was at a low point in his life, his career was not improving, and his family life was also in trouble due to neglect of care.
At this time, he was unable to make a breakthrough in his career or provide stable financial security for his family, which put Hu Zhonghui, who was his wife, under tremendous pressure.
She not only has to take care of the young Guo Qilin to ensure the healthy growth of her children, but also has to work day and night for the family's livelihood and worry about it.
Faced with such a husband who has nothing to achieve in his career, Hu Zhonghui's inner exhaustion and disappointment gradually accumulate, and his former love for Guo Degang is ruthlessly exhausted in the difficult life day after day.
Finally, at a certain point in 2000, Hu Zhonghui could no longer endure this hopeless life, and she made a painful decision to divorce Guo Degang and end the marriage that left her physically and mentally exhausted.
During the divorce process, there was a heated dispute between the parties over the ownership of the children.
Guo Degang insisted that his son Guo Qilin, as the bloodline of the Guo family, should follow him, and he even questioned Hu Zhonghui: "My son and my surname are Guo, it is the blood and blood of our old Guo family, he must live with me, do you want him to be angry with his stepfather when he grows up?"
【3】
Remarriage meets true love: husband and wife work together to create a double harvest of career and family
After breaking up with Hu Zhonghui, Guo Degang did not stop chasing his dream of cross talk, but met an important person in his life in the process, his current wife Wang Hui.
At that time, Wang Hui was in the prime of his youth, not only beautiful and outstanding, but also had made achievements in his career.
In contrast, Guo Degang's life is not easy, his cross talk career is still in its infancy, and his life situation is relatively difficult.
These practical difficulties did not stop Wang Hui from devoting herself to and supporting Guo Degang, she accompanied Guo Degang wholeheartedly, even in the face of the pressure of her family's opposition, she did not waver.
Wang Hui said firmly to Guo Degang: "Even if you need to secretly take away the household registration book, I will marry you." Under Wang Hui's perseverance and perseverance, she and Guo Degang spent one spring, summer, autumn and winter after another, and the husband and wife fought side by side to create their brilliant careers.
Bidding farewell to his marriage to his ex-wife Hu Zhonghui, Guo Degang, with the selfless dedication and full assistance of his current wife Wang Hui, has not only achieved great success in the field of cross talk, but also has become more and more happy in family life, achieving a double harvest of career and family.
【4】
After Hu Zhonghui divorced, he went to Japan to work hard to become a "rich woman", and he had a harmonious relationship with his son Guo Qilin, and they were happy
After the divorce, Hu Zhonghui did not usher in a turning point in her life, but fell into a lot of pressure, which made her almost breathless.
Faced with the difficult situation, after some careful consideration, she decided to cross the ocean and seek a new way out of life for her relatives in Japan.
Hu Zhonghui, who first arrived in Japan, faced a severe language barrier that limited her scope for finding work.
In order to survive, she had to do low-end manual work that didn't require too much language, such as serving dishes and washing dishes in a restaurant, or working as a tally clerk in a supermarket.
These jobs were hard and the income was meager, but Hu Zhonghui did not give in, but with tenacious will and unremitting efforts, he accumulated wealth bit by bit and improved his living situation.
With the passage of time, Hu Zhonghui relied on his diligence and wisdom, and his savings gradually increased, and his quality of life also improved.
Perhaps in her heart, this is already a small goal, but Hu Zhonghui is not satisfied with the status quo, but chooses to continue to struggle and move towards a higher goal.
According to relevant media reports, Hu Zhonghui used the accumulated funds to start his own company.
Under Hu Zhonghui's careful management, the company's scale and strength have increased day by day, and it is even reported that its business has expanded to the United States and become an influential multinational company, so Hu Zhonghui is also respected by the outside world as a "rich woman".
Judging from the current situation, Hu Zhonghui's living situation is undoubtedly satisfactory.
She has achieved great enrichment not only on the material level, but also on the spiritual level.
From the usual news reports, we can see that she maintains a good parent-child relationship with her son Guo Qilin, and there is no estrangement between mother and son, and this harmonious parent-child relationship makes many people envious.
In addition, although Hu Zhonghui and Guo Degang finally chose to separate, they each found their own happiness.
More importantly, their son Guo Qilin has grown up very well under the careful education of his father Guo Degang, which has also become a great pride in their respective lives.
Looking back on the past, Hu Zhonghui and Guo Degang's choice may have caused controversy, but now they are both living happily ever after, which is enough to show that there is no need to judge the past right or wrong too much, and the important thing is that everyone can find their own path to happiness.
【5】
The woman behind Guo Degang, the biggest hero behind the rise of Deyun Club
Just as Hu Zhonghui's life was gradually on the right track and began to walk out of the shadow of his marriage with Guo Degang, an important person also appeared in Guo Degang's life - Wang Hui.
Nowadays, when Wang Hui's name is mentioned, the first thing that comes to mind is "Guo Degang's wife", but few people know that this woman joined the Jingyun drum master as early as 13 years old, and at the age of 14, she successfully held a personal special performance in Tianjin and became famous.
Therefore, when Guo Degang met Wang Hui, a sense of inferiority spontaneously arose in his heart.
At that time, he was poor, divorced and with a child, and couldn't help but think to himself, how could such an excellent woman be willing to accept such a down-and-out self?
Wang Hui didn't mind that.
She noticed this man who worked quietly and tenaciously early on, and took the initiative to show favor to him, and the two soon established a deep friendship.
In the process of dating, Wang Hui gradually learned about Guo Degang's bumpy past, and instead of alienating him, she was always looking for opportunities to help Guo Degang.
Whenever she has a performance, she will negotiate with the organizer to give Guo Degang the opportunity to perform on stage, so as to help his career development.
Guo Degang was deeply grateful to Wang Hui for his selfless assistance, but this gratitude made him more cautious and did not dare to show his heart to Wang Hui.
He knows that the more he cherishes this relationship, the more he needs to take care of it carefully, for fear that a rash confession will destroy the existing friendship and cause the two to not even be friends.
The turning point came in 2002 by an unexpected incident.
That year, Wang Hui was invited to perform in Taiwan Province.
Unexpectedly, the flight she was planning to take unfortunately crashed in Penghu, and Wang Hui was stranded in the hotel for some reason.
At this time, the typhoon mixed with heavy rain hit the local area, the base station was damaged, the communication signal of the hotel was extremely poor, and the landline phone rang constantly, Guo Degang was so anxious that he kept dialing Wang Hui's home phone to try to get her news.
It wasn't until late at night that Wang Hui finally dialed the landline phone and reported her safety to her family, which temporarily lowered the hanging heart of Guo Degang, who was worried about her safety.
Guo Degang's father once told him that a young man had called home several times in the morning.
Wang Hui knew that this young man was Guo Degang, so after she returned from Taiwan, the two naturally established a relationship.
There are no romantic confessions between them, no grand ceremonies, everything seems to have a heart and come together naturally.
In 2002, Guo Degang and several like-minded friends co-founded Deyun Club.
In the early days, Deyun Club faced the dilemma of a scarce audience, and the high venue rent, actors' salaries and other expenses made Guo Degang fall into financial difficulties again.
At the critical moment, Wang Hui stepped forward, and she decisively sold the Xiali car given to her by her father to make up for the losses of Deyun Club with the proceeds.
Guo Degang resolutely opposed this, but Wang Hui said affectionately: "This money will be used as my dowry in the future." In 2003, Guo Degang and Wang Hui entered the palace of marriage.
Seeing Wang Hui accompany him through the difficult years without regrets, Guo Degang decided to go all out and fight for the future of the two.
In 2004, in order to raise money, Guo even took on the challenge of spending 48 hours in an enclosed glass house, during which he had to complete his daily life of eating, sleeping and excreting in front of a crowd, and performing to attract the audience.
Recalling those days, Guo Degang's heart was full of bitterness.
Fortunately, Deyun Club gradually came out of the trough and ushered in the dawn of development.
With the continuous expansion of the scale of Deyun Club, management problems have become increasingly prominent.
In order to allow Guo Degang to focus on cross talk creation, Wang Hui resolutely gave up his beloved Jingyun drum career and turned to the logistics of Qideyun Club.
Whether it is daily food, clothing, housing and transportation, or the marriage and childbirth of the members, it is almost inseparable from Wang Hui's management.
Many star actors in Deyun Club today, such as Yue Yunpeng, are inseparable from Wang Hui's careful cultivation and support.
At that time, Yue Yunpeng's skills were still shallow, and he was in danger of being removed, but Wang Hui tried to protect it with tears and insisted on staying in Deyun Club even if he was allowed to sweep the floor.
Later, Yue Yunpeng's mother's condition worsened and she urgently needed to go to Beijing for bypass surgery, which cost as much as 120,000 yuan.
Wang Hui did not hesitate to take out the money and said to Yue Yunpeng: "Child, don't worry, I will pay the money, I will contact the doctor, you can just bring your mother to Beijing." Guo Degang once said with emotion: "Without Wang Hui, there would be no Deyun Club today." Now, Deyun Club has developed like the sky, and Wang Hui can finally put his mind at ease and be pleased with the brilliant achievements he and Guo Degang have created together.
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