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On a cold winter night in December 2003, a heavy atmosphere pervaded the hospital room. At this time, the once beautiful diva Anita Mui was in the last stage of her life, she was lying weakly on the hospital bed, panting with difficulty.
Many relatives and friends gathered around to say goodbye, but saw Anita Mui specially told the bodyguards to resolutely prohibit the two of them from visiting her.
One of them is Zhao Wenzhuo, Anita Mui's favorite in her life, and the other is her long-time best friend Wu Junru. Faced with Wu Junru's petition to see her for the last time, Anita Mui still coldly refused.
When Zhao Wenzhuo, who heard the news, also hurried to the hospital to visit his former beloved, but was also resolutely rejected by Anita Mui. He couldn't help but sigh that in Anita Mui's eyes, he had become an unwanted person.
At this time, an inexplicable chill invaded his heart, as if the person he loved most was quietly leaving.
Why did Anita Mui so resolutely refuse the last meeting of the two closest people? Is it because she doesn't want them to see her miserable state now? Or has she chosen to forgive and no longer need to express it through words? These questions could not be answered at the time, leaving only endless regrets.
To trace the sensational relationship between Anita Mui and Zhao Wenzhuo, we have to go back to a grand party in 1995. At that time, Zhao Wenzhuo, who was filming the movie "Full of Gold and Jade", met Anita Mui for the first time through the recommendation of Leslie Cheung.
Zhao Wenzhuo's martial arts talent deeply impressed Anita Mui, and she took the initiative to decide to hire him as her personal trainer. Since then, the two have had more and more contact, and they have gradually developed a good impression of each other.
The beginning of this relationship was full of tenderness and sweetness, and the two even planned to enter the marriage hall and received the blessing of their families.
However, just as the wedding day was approaching, the facts were reversed. At that time, Anita Mui was already a top figure in the Chinese music scene, and Zhao Wenzhuo was just an up-and-coming third-tier actor.
The huge identity gap has triggered a lot of discussions about the relationship between the two, and various rumors continue to appear. Under such pressure, Zhao Wenzhuo's acting career fell into a trough, and he also suffered great trauma in his heart.
In the face of the accusations of public opinion, Anita Mui defended Zhao Wenzhuo again and again, but in the end she could not eliminate the public's suspicion. The two eventually had to make a difficult decision and chose to break up.
Even after the breakup, they are still working their respective paths, but the inseparable nostalgia has always lingered.
When recalling the past, Anita Mui once sighed that if time could be turned back, she would definitely try her best to clarify the misunderstanding at that time, so that they would have spent the rest of their lives together. And Zhao Wenzhuo also said with regret that the Hong Kong media hurt him too deeply, which led to the breakdown of the relationship between the two.
Although they can't regain this unforgettable love again, the happy memories are forever engraved in the hearts of two people who care about each other. Zhao Wenzhuo wrote the elegy of "the love of this life, go all the way" at Anita Mui's funeral, this affectionate letter that could not be sent, carrying two hearts that traveled through time and space.
They didn't make it to the end of their lives hand in hand, but that love remained in each other's hearts forever.
Before Anita Mui died, why did she refuse Zhao Wenzhuo's last face so resolutely? Was it because she didn't want him to see her miserable appearance? Or had she forgiven him and no longer needed to express it through words? Behind this question, there is undoubtedly this irreparable love story.
In addition to her emotional entanglement with Zhao Wenzhuo, Anita Mui specifically forbade another important person to visit when she was dying, her long-time friend Wu Junru. The friendship between the two can be traced back to the filming period of "Spring River Flower Moonlit Night" in 1984, when Wu Junru, who had just entered the industry, was taken care of and helped by Anita Mui, and the two became the closest best friends.
In 2000, the TV series "Love Jun Like a Dream" directed by Wu Junru officially started filming, and she specially invited Anita Mui to participate in a guest performance. Originally, this should have been a happy event in the friendship between the two, but after the shooting, Anita Mui showed unusual coldness.
It turned out that she found that her role in the film was greatly cut, and the opportunity to sing the theme song with Andy Lau was also occupied by Wu Junru.
This kind of behavior made Anita Mui feel deeply betrayed. At the grand celebration banquet held by the crew, Anita Mui left indifferently, and was even filmed drinking wildly alone.
She said frankly in the interview that she felt extremely painful because of Wu Junru's words and deeds. From then on, the relationship between the two friends began to take a sharp turn for the worse, and until the day of Anita Mui's death, they were unable to rebuild this broken friendship.
No matter what the final truth is, the irreconcilable friendship rift between Anita Mui and Wu Junru has undoubtedly become a regret that Wu Junru cannot heal in her heart.
Their once intimate relationship finally turned into such an unhappy parting, which is really embarrassing.
Looking back on Anita Mui's life, she has experienced many setbacks and tribulations, but in the end, she has forged her brilliant life with tenacious willpower and unremitting artistic pursuit.
In 1999, during a routine physical examination, Anita Mui suddenly suffered the bad news of "cervical cancer", which was undoubtedly a bombshell and brought her a heavy blow. Thankfully, with the full treatment of the doctors, her condition has not deteriorated further, and her life has gradually returned to normal.
However, this tranquility did not last long, and a follow-up examination in 2002 again showed that the cancer cells had begun to spread. The doctor advised her to undergo a hysterectomy as soon as possible, but out of concern for the family's honor and fertility wishes, Anita Mui flatly refused.
This decision eventually led to the re-aggravation of her condition, and the pendulum of her life gradually came to a standstill. On her deathbed, she decided to hold a personal farewell concert at the Red Pavilion many times, and she wore a wedding dress throughout the process.
This is undoubtedly an unusual move, as if to tell the world something. Perhaps she knew that her life was coming to an end, so she had to let her voice loose when she took the stage for the last time.
At that time, Anita Mui was no longer what she used to be. Her emaciated and haggard body was even bald. This is what she doesn't want Zhao Wenzhuo and Wu Junru to see - a miserable appearance on the verge of death.
Perhaps, at that time, she had already forgiven them and no longer needed to express it through words, but chose to say goodbye to them in this way. The last question, whether it was a decision or a quiet farewell, may not have been answered at the time.
However, even though her dying decision is heart-wrenching, we can still feel her cherishing of her past feelings. Zhao Wenzhuo once wrote the elegy of "the love of this life, go all the way" at Anita Mui's funeral, and this affectionate farewell is undoubtedly a relief of their regret that they could not spend their white heads together.
Perhaps deep in Anita Mui's heart, she has never really forgotten Zhao Wenzhuo, but the tricks of fate have prevented them from joining hands forever.
Looking back on Anita Mui's life, it is not difficult for us to find that her life path is full of ups and downs and hardships. From the smooth sailing when she first entered the workplace, to the blow of cancer later, and finally to the end of her life, she has overcome many difficulties with extraordinary courage and perseverance.
Even if she was forced to make such a decisive choice before she died, we can still see her persistence and cherishment of her feelings.
Perhaps, in Anita Mui's eyes, Zhao Wenzhuo and Wu Junru are no longer as close as they were back then. On the contrary, they may have become a lingering regret in Anita Mui's life.
But even so, she finally chose forgiveness instead of coming to the relationship with a decisive attitude. This kind of relief hidden in the depths of her heart may also be her last wish before she died.
Anita Mui's brilliant and colorful artistic career has undoubtedly left us with precious and profound memories. From her first entry into the entertainment industry to her final ascent to the top of the Chinese music scene, she not only achieved great success with her talent, but also accompanied countless audiences to spend unforgettable times.
Even on her deathbed, she made a decisive choice to refuse to let her two closest people see her miserable appearance. This decision is undoubtedly embarrassing, but we can still feel her cherishing of her past feelings.
The affectionate confession left by Zhao Wenzhuo at her funeral is an expression of their regret that they could not spend their white heads together.
Although Anita Mui's story is tragic, it also reflects the true meaning of friendship. Let us draw strength from this, better cherish the relatives and friends in front of us in life, unite each other with love, and let this precious emotion be passed on from generation to generation.