I saw this passage on the Internet: "Marriage is a besieged city, people outside the city want to enter, and people in the city want to come out." ”
Marriage is the biggest gamble in life, some people lose their families, and some people win full applause.
There is no absolute happiness or absolute unhappiness in this world, and marriage is a two-way love.
The quality of marriage has a lot to do with whether two people love each other.
Love is the motivation for two people to be together, and love is the responsibility of each other to consider each other.
There is a saying: "All feelings will go from passion to dullness to boredom." ”
In fact, the same is true of love.
When two people are together, they will often say these three words, which means that there is no love between two people.
Two people who really love each other will not easily say the words "I love you", because the love in their hearts has long faded.
- "Can you please not be noisy"
There is such a line in "The First Half of My Life": "There is no absolute fairness in life, and there is no absolute unhappiness, there is only relative fairness." ”
It's true, there is no absolute fairness in the world, everyone will encounter some unsatisfactory things, and when these things happen, everyone has their own way to solve the problem.
Quarrels are also a way to solve problems, and when there is a conflict between two people, they are also a way to express feelings.
But if when two people are together, the other person often says the phrase "can you not quarrel", it means that there is no love between two people.
Quarrels are not a solution to problems, but a way to vent their emotions to each other. When two people are together, there are always some arguments that are inevitable, but when arguments become a habit, there is no love between two people.
Only by tolerating each other, understanding each other, and compromising each other in the relationship can we go further.
- "Are you annoyed?"
When a relationship comes to an end, they will no longer think about how to redeem it, but will only choose to escape.
When a person says "you're not annoyed" to another person, it means that he is not so enthusiastic about you anymore.
When a relationship comes to an end, when love is gone, there are many ways to manifest it, such as: not connecting, not caring, not caring, not caring.
In fact, many feelings in life are like this, when a person is really emotional about you, he will care about your every move.
No matter what time it is, I want to know everything about you, and I want to know your joys, sorrows, and sorrows.
There are two kinds of people in a relationship: one is true love and the other is fake love. True love is about caring and caring from the heart.
Fake love is a false care and care, just to satisfy one's own needs.
- "How many times have I told you?"
In fact, each of us is an individual, and we all have our own privacy and secrets. When we love someone deeply, we will tell each other about our privacy and show our truest side to each other.
Because they know that if two people don't have even the most basic trust, then the relationship is a disaster.
A person who truly loves you will not let you down because he knows that if he doesn't love you, you won't give him anything.
They always show the best for each other, so they always have more to say.
But when there is no love between them, then they don't care about each other anymore.
They became more and more silent and less and less wanted to talk to each other. Even if there is something to communicate, just say the three words "how many times have I told you".