As the saying goes: three points for fineness, three points for stupidity, and three points for children and grandchildren. It means that if the family was particularly shrewd in the previous life, then there may be a fool or a loser in the next life. This quote reminds people not to be too shrewd. A smart person is pretending to be confused, and a foolish person is pretending to be smart. Even Zheng Banqiao, one of the eight monsters of the Qing Dynasty, said: It is difficult to be smart, it is difficult to be confused, and it is difficult to go from being smart to being confused.
How do you strike a good balance between being good and being stupid? I think it's enough to do the following: three points of fineness. 1. Refine three points to use in your own specialty. If a person wants to do a good job in his own career, he must study for life, integrate theory with practice, apply the achievements of modern scientific development to his own specialty, and strive for excellence. 2. The essence should be used in life, strive to integrate oneself into the society, be able to adapt to the environment, and then change one's destiny through one's own efforts. 3. Fine-grained points should be used to deal with various contradictions, opportunities and setbacks. We must balance all kinds of contradictions rationally, we must face all kinds of setbacks bravely, we must be able to learn from setbacks, and we will never fall in the same place twice in our lives.
Stupid three points: 1. Stupid three points is to suffer. If a leader can suffer a loss, he will be able to lead a good unit; if an individual can suffer a loss, he will be able to gain a good foothold in the crowd; and if a family can suffer a loss, he will certainly be able to do a good job in neighborly relations. 2. Stupid three points is to be able to endure hardship. Those who can endure hardship will suffer for a while, and those who cannot endure hardship will suffer for a lifetime. 3. Stupid three points is to have endurance. If you want to succeed in your career, you must have endurance, and you can't rush and take shortcuts. Those who have stamina will be able to create brilliance, and those who do not have stamina will achieve nothing.
Leave three points for your children and grandchildren: 1. You must cultivate your children and grandchildren who love to learn and are willing to specialize, and you must read a wide range of books, and don't leave your children and grandchildren with thousands of family properties, because they are rich for no more than three generations. 2. It is necessary to pass on to the children and grandchildren the family style of diligence, simplicity and kindness. 3. It is necessary to shape the ability of children and grandchildren to survive independently, the motivation to work hard, and the endurance to persevere. (April 9 morning)