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On the vast and vast stage of the entertainment industry, Liu Xiaolingtong is unique with his affectionate love experience and touches people's hearts. I still remember that time, when he was preparing to shoot the unique and charming TV series "Journey to the West", he and the actress Yu Hongyin, who played the mysterious and beautiful "Princess Tianzhu", worked together for a long time to build an unfathomable emotional bridge.
The two were in the big family of the crew, and they began to look at each other, often with a faint smile on the corner of their mouths. Although it was not explicitly stated, the gentle gaze hidden in the eyes had betrayed the love in the heart.
An unintentional look, a touch that seems to be nothing, are pregnant with sweet sparks in their hearts.
A year later, in 1992, the loving couple ushered in a new chapter in their lives. Yu Hong's womb is pregnant with a new life, which is the crystallization of their love and the best testimony of their deep love for each other.
As the months grew, Yu Hong's belly gradually bulged, and the six-year-old child looked at his wife with loving eyes on the side, full of anticipation.
Finally, on an ordinary day, a cry broke the silence, and a new life came into the world. The six-year-old child took the baby excitedly, looked at the red face of this little life, and showed an extremely happy smile.
They named this daughter Zhang Tongtong, and placed infinite blessings and expectations on her.
Outside suspicion
Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, Zhang Tongtong has grown up, but now she is 32 years old, but she has never entered the marriage hall. This phenomenon has aroused widespread attention and heated discussions in the outside world.
"As the only daughter of a six-year-old child, Zhang Tongtong is so beautiful that it is not easy to find a suitable partner. I'm afraid it's hard for ordinary people to match it, right?" Some commented.
"Maybe she hasn't met the one she likes, so she's been waiting patiently, but then again, she comes from a well-known family, and she has the aura of a family on her back, and it's not easy to get rid of all this.
There is speculation in others.
After all, today's women no longer simply desire marriage, they also yearn for the development of their personal careers.
Others raised a different view.
All kinds of speculation and discussion have come and gone, turning Zhang Tongtong's love life into the focus of public opinion. As the daughter of an acting family, she has been paid special attention to by the outside world since she was a child, and even if she maintains a low-key life, her every move still attracts the attention of countless people.
As parents, Liu Xiaolingtong and Yu Hong are also quite worried. Although they have entered the old age, they are still concerned about their daughter's lifelong events. The six-year-old child knows that her daughter is amazingly beautiful, but what kind of moving inner world will be hidden under the exterior? Does she already have her own life plan and pursuit? As parents, they can only respect their daughter, and silently support and wait on the side.
Heavy baggage
As a daughter from a famous family, Zhang Tongtong has been burdened with heavy burdens since he was a child. The outside world is always paying attention to and judging her, which makes her often ponder alone, falling into confusion and contradictions.
"Should I devote myself to my career, and the pursuit of an independent identity is more important, or should I wait for the ideal partner who is like me to enter the marriage hall?" Zhang Tongtong often thinks like this.
Living under the projection of her parents' halo since she was a child, she has long been accustomed to being watched. Sometimes, however, this kind of attention also makes her feel irritable. "Should I try to get out of it all and write my own life with my own hands?" Her brow furrowed, lost in thought.
Sometimes, she would stand in front of a mirror and stare at her face, which she had been praised as "like a flower." Beauty is also often a curse that allows you to look directly at you on the outside and ignore your inner reality.
She wants to use her strength and talent to make great strides on the road of life, rather than being attached to the aura of her parents.
But on the other hand, Zhang Tongtong's heart also has a yearning for married life. In the dead of night, she fantasized that one day she could tie the knot with the person she loved, and stay together until the end of the day.
At this moment, her eyes would become gloomy, and her expression would reveal a hint of melancholy.
Slipped away
Once upon a time, she also had a simple mind and looked forward to meeting the Prince Charming in her mind. Always fantasizing about when he would open the door and walk towards him with a warm smile.
It's a pity that the calculations of several lovers have failed. Some men are vain, some understand the style, and more are straightforward and boring, and in the end, Zhang Tongtong can only hold the lock beads in the palm of his hand, sighing and clutching is always ruthless.
In this way, time flies, the years slip away quietly, and Zhang Tongtong has unknowingly passed 32 years. Leaving the so-called best age for marriage, she often laments whether she has missed the marriage.
Whenever friends meet for a small gathering, I see them holding their hands with their lovers in love, smiling and grinning, and envying others. And Zhang Tongtong was particularly lonely and lonely on these occasions.
The familiar scene resurfaced in her mind: relatives and friends wished her a happy birthday, but did not forget to tell her to hurry up and get married. Zhang Tongtong lowered his head, revealing a look of embarrassment.
Waiting and pursuing
In fact, for Zhang Tongtong, marriage is not the whole of life, and she is more eager to succeed and realize her self-worth through her unremitting efforts. This is exactly the core attitude and life pursuit of her love life.
On the one hand, she is looking forward to the arrival of fate, looking forward to meeting the destined him, forming a family, and living a happy life. It's just that she doesn't plan to get married for the sake of marriage, but hopes to understand and appreciate each other with the person she likes.
But on the other hand, she is unequivocal and unswerving in her pursuit of her career development. As the heir of an artistic family, Zhang Tongtong also has a unique insight and passion for art.
She hopes to be able to show her strength in this field and shine her own light, instead of blindly living under the halo of her parents.
These two seemingly contradictory attitudes actually coexist. Zhang Tongtong did not force herself to get married, but she was still waiting for the arrival of true love. On the contrary, she chooses to wait patiently for the appearance of the one who belongs to her, rather than rush into the marriage hall due to impulse or external pressure.
"For me, love has to come at the right time. Zhang Tongtong said, "Rather than missing out on true love, it is better to stay single." Of course, if I really wait until the day when I am white, I am willing to accept the reality.
However, I have my own unique understanding and expectations of married life.
At the same time, Zhang Tongtong also knows that he is carrying the aura of his family and the expectations of the public and relatives and friends. For this reason, she cherishes the current celibate life even more, devotes herself to the development of her own career, and pursues her own independent identity.
"I can't always cling to my parents' fame, I want to create my own life with my own hands. Zhang Tongtong said with a firm look in his eyes.
In general, Zhang Tongtong's decision to remain single is not a rash or hasty decision, but stems from a clear understanding of himself and careful planning and pursuit of a future career and happy life.
It is a deliberate individual choice that deserves respect from all sectors of society.
Although she came from a famous family and attracted much attention from the outside world, Zhang Tongtong was not hindered or interfered with by these in his life path. She knows what she wants and is working tirelessly to achieve it.
Marriage is important, but it's not all she is looking for at the moment.
"I will patiently wait for the arrival of the one who truly belongs to me, instead of passively marrying. "At the same time, I also hope to make a difference in my career, rather than living under the halo of my parents."
The two are not contradictory, and I expect to be able to do both.
Yes, Zhang Tongtong is pursuing his ideal life in a down-to-earth manner. She believes that as long as she insists on her inner voice, one day she will meet him who is as good as herself, so as to form a happy family of her own.
In the same way, she will also strive to realize her self-worth in her career and shine her own light.
Although the process may be tortuous, as long as the direction is correct, Zhang Tongtong will finally be able to realize his inner expectations and live the beautiful life he yearns for. She deserves our blessings and deserves the respect and support of the whole society.
After all, the definition of happiness varies from person to person, and everyone should be allowed to choose their own path in life.